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Do you still snog/kiss with tongues?

118 replies

Wheels1928 · 29/05/2025 19:58

Just wondering how many of you still snog with tongues? My OH and I have been together four years and still eat each other’s faces off at every given opportunity 😂

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MsDDxx · 30/05/2025 01:17

PermanentTemporary · 29/05/2025 20:03

Tbh we've reached that point 5 years in where tongues pretty much always means sex.

Same here, after 18 years 😂

MsDDxx · 30/05/2025 01:21

KakulasSister · 29/05/2025 23:34

Better still...go on Dadsnet. Why do men invade ALL our spaces?

Oh come on; it’s a site for everyone. You do realise that it’s not only mums that visit this site???

Men are welcome. Women who aren’t mothers are welcome too!

Hoolihan · 30/05/2025 01:25

With bf of two years, yes, at every opportunity. Love it.
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With ex of 25 years it was only during (rare!) sex.

cranberryshortcake · 30/05/2025 01:32

KakulasSister · 29/05/2025 23:34

Better still...go on Dadsnet. Why do men invade ALL our spaces?

Exactly. Not sure why there are so many men on a forum for women.

LSTMS30555 · 30/05/2025 01:32

There’s only one place I want his tongue and it ain’t in my mouth 😋🤭

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 30/05/2025 02:16

I’m not sure I know how to kiss without tongues. What do you do? Is it like those old film-star kisses where they press their lips together?

Cos100 · 30/05/2025 07:26

Yes. 8 years in. Although I don't always like "too much" tongue 😂 it has to be the right amount

TerroristToddler · 30/05/2025 07:29

I actually dislike snogging with tounges and always have. We do kiss loads and it’s a massive part of sex for us but it’s just not shoving tongues in.

PermanentTemporary · 30/05/2025 07:30

@AppleDumplingWithCustard I do like kisses without tongues too - essentially putting my lips to theirs and focusing on their lips above all...

😈

Di68 · 30/05/2025 07:43

Never. Saying that’s e have only had sex twice in the last 5 years too!

PresidentMacron · 30/05/2025 07:46

Oui! Brigette can't keep her hands off me.

babasaclover · 30/05/2025 07:47

Colinthedaxi · 29/05/2025 20:19

I'm a No (or at least very rarely) - it does absolutely nothing for me!!

Same really don’t enjoy it and actually think it’s a big gross having someone else’s tongue in your mouth not natural at all

Mischance · 30/05/2025 07:50

Why would I want to taste what someone else had for dinner!? 😀

Eric1964 · 30/05/2025 09:50

@KakulasSister If there were a rule that Mumsnet were women-only, I'd respect that, but there isn't.

In other news, a woman has just been appointed CEO of the UK Men's Sheds Association.🤷

Freysimo · 30/05/2025 10:00

I don't like tongue kissing, due to an unfortunate spin the bottle experience age 15 when I almost vomited! Put me right off.

RaraRachael · 30/05/2025 10:19

Nope - hate it!

familyissues12345 · 30/05/2025 10:29

Not unless it’s part of foreplay. Been together nearly 20 years, I think we’re a bit past it to have a snog in the kitchen Grin

faerietales · 30/05/2025 10:30

No but I’ve always thought it was utterly grim.

DildoSaggins · 30/05/2025 10:49

20 years married and yes, we still use tongues when kissing during sex. We both find kissing with tongues a turn on, and really intimate, and I can't imagine having sex without doing it.

redtrainmuddle · 30/05/2025 12:01

familyissues12345 · 30/05/2025 10:29

Not unless it’s part of foreplay. Been together nearly 20 years, I think we’re a bit past it to have a snog in the kitchen Grin

Why would you be past that? Don’t think we’ll ever be past it lol. We’ve been together nearly 20 years too, 2 kids, mortgage, middle aged for sure, and the kitchen’s always a go-to for a quick snog or a cheeky fondle 😄 Mind you we also have a quick snog if we’re out and about in town for the afternoon, and pretty much anywhere 🙈

HoppingPavlova · 30/05/2025 12:06

Nope. Was something I did in my teenage years as assumed that’s what you ‘had to do’ but by the end of uni years figured out it actually gave me the ick and I was suffering through it irrespective of the guy involved. So I stopped it at that point which was years before I met DH.

littlemousebigcheese · 30/05/2025 12:19

19 years and still kissing like crazy!

Parky04 · 30/05/2025 12:31

Not a great fan of kissing with tongues. His tongue has other uses though!

outdooryone · 30/05/2025 12:36

PresidentMacron · 30/05/2025 07:46

Oui! Brigette can't keep her hands off me.

Needs more recognition.

Ka79 · 30/05/2025 12:39

Freysimo · 30/05/2025 10:00

I don't like tongue kissing, due to an unfortunate spin the bottle experience age 15 when I almost vomited! Put me right off.

I had completely forgotten about games like that. I remember the dread but now I'm my late 40s. They seems rather exciting!

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