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Do you still snog/kiss with tongues?

118 replies

Wheels1928 · 29/05/2025 19:58

Just wondering how many of you still snog with tongues? My OH and I have been together four years and still eat each other’s faces off at every given opportunity 😂

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CanelliniBeans · 29/05/2025 21:10

verityveritas · 29/05/2025 20:36

Nope, but then again French kissing dh is not too dissimilar to kissing a slobbering Labrador who’s been salivating over a roast chicken for at least an hour.

😂 this made me laugh out loud

healthybychristmas · 29/05/2025 21:13

Eric, start your own thread. Your marriage sounds really miserable.

ManyATrueWord · 29/05/2025 21:15

30 years next year and yes.

JustAnInchident · 29/05/2025 21:18

Yea, we do. More often than not, it’s during sex of course but I love a quick snog (such a gross word 😂) in the kitchen or whatever. 10 years in and we are still very affectionate.

Gymsharkathlete · 29/05/2025 21:19

Colinthedaxi · 29/05/2025 20:19

I'm a No (or at least very rarely) - it does absolutely nothing for me!!

Same here!

Mummaonherown · 29/05/2025 21:36

I love kissing, and with my ex a kiss with tongues lead to sex. We were together 6 years.
I've been single for 7 months and I do miss it, I find it incredibly sexy

greengreengrass3 · 29/05/2025 21:53

Yes, we’re 29 years in and love the passion from it

Labiabella · 29/05/2025 21:54

No, never liked it. If I'm 'in the mood' I don't mind it as much but snogging to get in the mood doesn't work.

NamechangeJunebaby · 29/05/2025 22:34

30 years in and yes…. I love it.

Eric1964 · 29/05/2025 22:44

@healthybychristmas : Already done a while ago, and on other forums.

AnonAnonmystery · 29/05/2025 22:45

PermanentTemporary · 29/05/2025 20:03

Tbh we've reached that point 5 years in where tongues pretty much always means sex.

Same here!

Ka79 · 29/05/2025 22:51

10 years and yes 😁

helloquitty · 29/05/2025 22:54

My boyfriend is a very good kisser and I love snogging him. He will pretty much always lead to him getting an erection though. Which I also love.

Pallisers · 29/05/2025 22:59

married more than 30 years and yes. Sometimes leads to sex, sometimes not. I love a good snog.

PorpoiseWithPurpose · 29/05/2025 23:16

Eric1964 · 29/05/2025 20:13

Here's a weird thing:

My wife and I had sex the night we met. Her idea. Yet, right from the beginning, she completely banned kissing with tongues, which is a nightmare for me because I find it intensely intimate and erotic.

Mind you, she went on to have at least one affair, and we recently went seven years without sex. I think she has some peculiar hangups regarding sex. I should point out she's far more sexually experienced than me.

@Eric1964 oh man, you gotta leave, Eric. Wishing you all the best.

squishee · 29/05/2025 23:22

PermanentTemporary · 29/05/2025 20:03

Tbh we've reached that point 5 years in where tongues pretty much always means sex.

Snap. At some point it became a green light.

Pericombobulations · 29/05/2025 23:26

Kissing with tongues as often as we can at least daily, it will be 30 years together next year. Full on snogging less frequently but still at least more than we have sex.

LozzaCh0ps · 29/05/2025 23:29

There’s only been one person who I didn’t absolutely hate it with, and that was 20 years ago! Happily single and snog-free now though 😅

FeministUnderTheCatriarchy · 29/05/2025 23:33

Nope, I despise it. I would never kiss at all again if i was single.

I will do closed mouth kisses, tongues and saliva are banned.

I get nothing at all from kissing and I don't understand it. It's like a foreign language that everyone seems to understand except me.

My DH likes kissing, but I was clear from the beginning when we first started dating and he has accepted it.

I often wonder if it's part of being ND or if I am just a weirdo lol

LozzaCh0ps · 29/05/2025 23:34

FeministUnderTheCatriarchy · 29/05/2025 23:33

Nope, I despise it. I would never kiss at all again if i was single.

I will do closed mouth kisses, tongues and saliva are banned.

I get nothing at all from kissing and I don't understand it. It's like a foreign language that everyone seems to understand except me.

My DH likes kissing, but I was clear from the beginning when we first started dating and he has accepted it.

I often wonder if it's part of being ND or if I am just a weirdo lol

Someone should do a poll about ND and snog-aversion, I think you’re onto something!

KakulasSister · 29/05/2025 23:34

AnneLovesGilbert · 29/05/2025 20:18

Yes we do.

@Eric1964 wtf? Are you still with her? If so please start your own thread, you need help.

Better still...go on Dadsnet. Why do men invade ALL our spaces?

mrssunshinexxx · 29/05/2025 23:35

Every day! Together 11 years, 3 children age 4 and under

LastPostISwear2 · 29/05/2025 23:37

Occasionally. I’m not a huge fan of tongue kissing. A gentle little bite on the lip though… 🫠 (10 years)

BunnyLake · 30/05/2025 00:22

I haven’t snogged for years and it’s probably a good fifteen years since I used tongues. I don’t think I’d know what to do anymore 😁 I used to like a good snog.

Sunshineonwoman · 30/05/2025 00:39

40 years married, longer together. Yes, still "snog" with tounges
It is possible, you know! Getting older doesn't necessarily diminish desire or libido.
Things just change.

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