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advice about a man

155 replies

juliet111 · 19/05/2008 22:30

I think I can guess what you're all going to say before I write this...I have been a single parent for 4 years since my son was a baby. I have only had one relationship in that time as I hardly ever get the chance to go out as my son's father lives miles away and doesn't see him. I really miss sex (and a relationship) but sex mostly! On Saturday I went out with a friend who has a 16 year old who babysits for us sometimes and met a man who is a friend of hers.

My friend had been trying to set me up with this man for ages. Anyway, had a few drinks and went back to his...had great sex and a really nice time. I do have some reservations such as I think he's tight with money but to be honest it was just so nice to be with someone I fancied and who fancied me.

Spent Sunday with him and he said a few things about seeing me again - 'such as next time I'll make sure I shave properly...' I had to text him and he said 'I have your number now' so I said 'well call me' and he said he would. He also said he was quite shy (I can come across as not at all shy and quite demanding but am shy really) But we didn't make arrangements to meet up and I'd really like to know whether to text him - just say I had a good time or leave him ...???

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juliet111 · 21/05/2008 23:15

You keep encouraging me to text him but I think he would contact me if he wanted to.

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jasper · 21/05/2008 23:15

why thank you Dior.
But with my history perhaps I should be best man?

Do you think I could become the Doctor Ruth of Mumsnet?

jasper · 21/05/2008 23:16

HE'S SHY

Yes I am shouting

GET YER PHONE OUT

Dior · 21/05/2008 23:17

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MissingMyHeels · 21/05/2008 23:17

juliet - he is probably thinking that too! I'm gonna have to hide this thread if you don't text him

jasper · 21/05/2008 23:20

juliet I am coming round to yout house with my hairy trucker mates....

Dior I see you in emerald green....with black tulips...

Dior · 21/05/2008 23:22

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jasper · 21/05/2008 23:25

Hmmm... quite girly, eh?

Dior · 21/05/2008 23:26

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electra · 21/05/2008 23:27

Juliet....are you worried that you will feel sad if he doesn't respond?

jasper · 21/05/2008 23:27

do you eat chunky chocolate?

Dior · 21/05/2008 23:28

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jasper · 21/05/2008 23:32

that was a trick question and you passed.
Whew!

Dior · 21/05/2008 23:34

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Dior · 21/05/2008 23:42

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jasper · 21/05/2008 23:42

actually almost without noticing I DID grow a penis but thankfully I can still multi task.

Dior · 21/05/2008 23:44

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jasper · 21/05/2008 23:46

Yes but PLEASE don't tell anyone.

I am actually quite emotional ( so def. a girl)and cry at Groundforce when they show the person their new garden

Dior · 22/05/2008 10:02

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jasper · 22/05/2008 22:59

DIOR SHOOSH!!!

SlartyBartFast · 22/05/2008 23:07
juliet111 · 22/05/2008 23:17

Guess what he phoned!!! my friend texted him and said she had a good night on saturday, hadn't from me but wondered how we'd got on?!! bet he guessed but not sure!!!said I hadn't heard from her.

Anyway we are going out again.

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juliet111 · 22/05/2008 23:17

Guess what he phoned!!! my friend texted him and said she had a good night on saturday, hadn't from me but wondered how we'd got on?!! bet he guessed but not sure!!!said I hadn't heard from her.

Anyway we are going out again.

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SlartyBartFast · 22/05/2008 23:19

YIPEE
happy for you!

jasper · 22/05/2008 23:23

Hurray!

What a charming diversion from the horrific suggestions currently on the baby names threads.

Dior, let's get together for a dress fitting

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