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Quick question

107 replies

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 18:51

Can anyone follow multiple accounts on TikTok accidentally ?

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festivemouse · 10/03/2025 18:54

Definitely in my experience! Sometimes I accidentally follow accounts if I tap the wrong part of the screen, or like the video, or scroll on the wrong part. I always end up wondering where some of the people I follow come from 😂

festivemouse · 10/03/2025 18:55

p.s if it's your DH saying he doesn't know how he's suddenly following 50+ accounts of women, don't believe him 😂

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 18:55

I guess one or two could be accidental but specifically sexy females ?

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Robynroo · 10/03/2025 18:57

festivemouse · 10/03/2025 18:55

p.s if it's your DH saying he doesn't know how he's suddenly following 50+ accounts of women, don't believe him 😂

Exactly that and has now enraged stormed out the house making me out to be the one who’s in the wrong. He’s insulted.

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xyz111 · 10/03/2025 19:00

What's a grown man doing on TikTok anyway

festivemouse · 10/03/2025 19:01

@Robynroo

He's having you on! Also your algorithm is incredibly clever, it only shows videos you watch fully / interact with. It might occasionally throw something related in, but it designed to feed you content you enjoy. Mine doesn't recommend sexy men! (It's fashion, cooking and interiors 😂).

B1indEye · 10/03/2025 19:02

It doesn't matter that we all occasionally follow an account we didnt intend to on social media, I do it all the time, your husband hasn't done that so addesss that rather than canvassing opinions on hypotheticals

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:03

festivemouse · 10/03/2025 19:01

@Robynroo

He's having you on! Also your algorithm is incredibly clever, it only shows videos you watch fully / interact with. It might occasionally throw something related in, but it designed to feed you content you enjoy. Mine doesn't recommend sexy men! (It's fashion, cooking and interiors 😂).

He’s text saying it’s auto follow but does this exist ?

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festivemouse · 10/03/2025 19:04

@Robynroo nope, not that I've ever seen!

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:04

B1indEye · 10/03/2025 19:02

It doesn't matter that we all occasionally follow an account we didnt intend to on social media, I do it all the time, your husband hasn't done that so addesss that rather than canvassing opinions on hypotheticals

I was asking as I don’t understand how TikTok works

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MummytoE · 10/03/2025 19:06

Nah, he's at it. And storming off only proves it more.

Soitis83 · 10/03/2025 19:07

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:03

He’s text saying it’s auto follow but does this exist ?

No, that is not a thing. Plus when you follow someone you get an immediate message telling you to message them saying hi. So he would've known. Sorry x

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:14

Soitis83 · 10/03/2025 19:07

No, that is not a thing. Plus when you follow someone you get an immediate message telling you to message them saying hi. So he would've known. Sorry x

He’s insisting that he hasn’t done it. There’s 3 diy accounts and 13 girls . He’s gaslighting me isn’t he.

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MummytoE · 10/03/2025 19:22

Yeah he's lying to you. Hope you are ok. Does it bother you loads?

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:25

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 19:22

Yeah he's lying to you. Hope you are ok. Does it bother you loads?

The lying is worse as my ex was a cheater and he knew how much it took to trust him. I wish he would just say he was having a look at sexy accounts and at least try to make amends but he’s affronted that I’ve noticed.

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MummytoE · 10/03/2025 19:32

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:25

The lying is worse as my ex was a cheater and he knew how much it took to trust him. I wish he would just say he was having a look at sexy accounts and at least try to make amends but he’s affronted that I’ve noticed.

Yeah I no what you mean. The lying is so annoying especially when you have literal evidence. He's putting his embarrassment first and your feelings second which isn't fair. Will you ask him to stop following them

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:33

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 19:32

Yeah I no what you mean. The lying is so annoying especially when you have literal evidence. He's putting his embarrassment first and your feelings second which isn't fair. Will you ask him to stop following them

I’m questioning everything he says to be honest. Trust is everything and to make me out to be the bad guy is awful.

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MummytoE · 10/03/2025 19:43

Definitely. Can you see who he follows on other Social media as well

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:45

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 19:43

Definitely. Can you see who he follows on other Social media as well

I am not aware of other social media accounts no as we don’t do Facebook. He doesn’t have Instagram but hey how can I believe him after this. He’s more angry that I said he has deluded and perverted as some of the girls were a lot younger.

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Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:52

Sad thing is I want to believe it’s an accident or he’s been hacked but it’s looking highly unlikely and his reaction is dodgy.

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Robynroo · 10/03/2025 20:15

He’s still not come home. 🥲

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Marble10 · 10/03/2025 20:40

This happened to my DH. He admitted he had been in some sort of interaction with the accounts - forwarding them to friends/vice versa but certainly didn't follow them. Imagine my horror there were hundreds!!... 😱

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Soitis83 · 10/03/2025 20:41

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:14

He’s insisting that he hasn’t done it. There’s 3 diy accounts and 13 girls . He’s gaslighting me isn’t he.

He is unfortunately. It's very obvious when you follow someone. You'll get shown their tiktoks frequently too and at the bottom it will tell you you follow them.

Marble10 · 10/03/2025 20:42

He said he saved them to forward on to the lads (I know 🙄) but it ended up him following them without him realising. All bum boob TikTok model types 🥴

Soitis83 · 10/03/2025 20:43

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 20:15

He’s still not come home. 🥲

He's embarrassed and wants YOU to be the one on the wrong, so by 'punishing' you by storming out, it concretes the idea that it's you who's wrong and not him. He sounds emotionally immature

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