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Quick question

107 replies

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 18:51

Can anyone follow multiple accounts on TikTok accidentally ?

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Robynroo · 10/03/2025 20:54

Soitis83 · 10/03/2025 20:43

He's embarrassed and wants YOU to be the one on the wrong, so by 'punishing' you by storming out, it concretes the idea that it's you who's wrong and not him. He sounds emotionally immature

He saying I’m awful for calling him a liar and making such big accusations.

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Robynroo · 10/03/2025 21:07

He’s so angry with me 🥲😡
all I’ve done is ask him about it

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MummytoE · 10/03/2025 21:11

I'm sorry you are having to put up with this crap op

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 21:43

He’s still insisting his innocence and anger that he’s done nothing wrong and I’m in the wrong and he’s so angry with me for not believing him.

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MummytoE · 10/03/2025 21:46

Is he " just " following them or is he liking and saving the posts aswell?

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 22:08

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 21:46

Is he " just " following them or is he liking and saving the posts aswell?

I haven’t gone through his phone so can only see he’s following.

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Robynroo · 10/03/2025 22:25

Marble10 · 10/03/2025 20:40

This happened to my DH. He admitted he had been in some sort of interaction with the accounts - forwarding them to friends/vice versa but certainly didn't follow them. Imagine my horror there were hundreds!!... 😱

So sorry you have experienced the same. How are things now?
does he still deny it ?

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Robynroo · 11/03/2025 05:09

Anymore thoughts anyone?

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Robynroo · 11/03/2025 07:49

Bump

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MummytoE · 11/03/2025 08:01

Tbh it wouldn't be make or break for me but I'm not sure what her rest of your relationship looks like.

AmandaHoldensLips · 11/03/2025 08:01

What is it with men and their dicks? Ogling girls and thinking it's okay behaviour? Page 3 was scrapped years ago because it's such a shitty way to portray women (actually they were teenage girls).

Call him out. Stand up for yourself. Tell him he's a sad sack and he can take his misplaced anger and shove it up his arse.

MummytoE · 11/03/2025 08:08

Sorry I should clarify, the following is the girls wouldn't be make or break. The gaslighting and anger at you and making you feel like shit , I'm not so sure. Is he like this all the time with other things. What's your gut telling you xx

Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:20

MummytoE · 11/03/2025 08:08

Sorry I should clarify, the following is the girls wouldn't be make or break. The gaslighting and anger at you and making you feel like shit , I'm not so sure. Is he like this all the time with other things. What's your gut telling you xx

He is always angry when he doesn’t want to talk and cannot communicate.
Its so strange that me asking why these accounts were on his following list on tik tok could cause such rage. How am I in the wrong?
admittedly when I text him to ask I did state that if he was then viewing women half his age was deluded and perverted imo. He seems to have latched onto this and just says I am not a pervert and have done nothing wrong and blames auto follow.
He has also alluded to my ex saying I’m not the same as him and how he’s so upset I’m calling him dishonest etc.
I am so confused.

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Diningtableornot · 11/03/2025 09:23

Robynroo · 10/03/2025 19:03

He’s text saying it’s auto follow but does this exist ?

Not the point. He’s been looking at that kind of account in the first place.
Ask him to be honest with you so you can find out what he’s doing and how much you mind.

MummytoE · 11/03/2025 09:23

Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:20

He is always angry when he doesn’t want to talk and cannot communicate.
Its so strange that me asking why these accounts were on his following list on tik tok could cause such rage. How am I in the wrong?
admittedly when I text him to ask I did state that if he was then viewing women half his age was deluded and perverted imo. He seems to have latched onto this and just says I am not a pervert and have done nothing wrong and blames auto follow.
He has also alluded to my ex saying I’m not the same as him and how he’s so upset I’m calling him dishonest etc.
I am so confused.

So he has anger issues, can't communicate,is prone to lies and gaslighting, follows young girls on tiktok and then denies it and makes himself seem like the victim.....my bags would be packed so quick !!

Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:24

Diningtableornot · 11/03/2025 09:23

Not the point. He’s been looking at that kind of account in the first place.
Ask him to be honest with you so you can find out what he’s doing and how much you mind.

I have said to him just be honest and he just says I am I have done nothing wrong.

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Sadcafe · 11/03/2025 09:28

Never used thick tok nor seen the appeal but it seems highly unlikely on any social media platform that you auto follow things, the algorithms are certainly clever though, look at a holiday destination a couple of times online and your Facebook account is suddenly full of adverts for them

Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:30

MummytoE · 11/03/2025 09:23

So he has anger issues, can't communicate,is prone to lies and gaslighting, follows young girls on tiktok and then denies it and makes himself seem like the victim.....my bags would be packed so quick !!

when he came back last night he was texting me from the other room demanding I come check his phone and to fill my boots. I didn’t as he has probs deleted stuff by now anyway if guilty. The accounts are still showing on his following list.
Originally I noticed a few weeks back and I mentioned it in a text and he just said he had no clue what I was going on about.
There is the part of me that wants to believe him but I don’t know if I can. I mean if there was such a function that adds random accounts to your following list then there would be lots of other kinds of accounts.

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Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:32

Sadcafe · 11/03/2025 09:28

Never used thick tok nor seen the appeal but it seems highly unlikely on any social media platform that you auto follow things, the algorithms are certainly clever though, look at a holiday destination a couple of times online and your Facebook account is suddenly full of adverts for them

When you google it shows a few Reddit posts discussing random account follows on TikTok. This is why i am doubting myself.

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MummytoE · 11/03/2025 09:35

Has he since deleted tik tok?

Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:37

MummytoE · 11/03/2025 09:35

Has he since deleted tik tok?

No he said he will if I want him to.
He is saying he only ever scrolls on there at motorbike stuff. And yet he’s not following any accounts. He said he falls asleep scrolling .

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Sadcafe · 11/03/2025 09:39

Auto following an account seems to be what Tik tok does, having just done a quick google search, but it wouldn’t then auto follow multiple similar accounts would it,I don’t know but it does seem more likely he’s just following them, given the anger etc displayed it sounds like he’s not happy you’ve found out,

Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:44

Sadcafe · 11/03/2025 09:39

Auto following an account seems to be what Tik tok does, having just done a quick google search, but it wouldn’t then auto follow multiple similar accounts would it,I don’t know but it does seem more likely he’s just following them, given the anger etc displayed it sounds like he’s not happy you’ve found out,

There are a few other accounts diy type stuff. 2 say user then multiple numbers with no profile pic but the rest are girls

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pimplebum · 11/03/2025 09:48

Girls ? I hope you mean women

Robynroo · 11/03/2025 09:50

pimplebum · 11/03/2025 09:48

Girls ? I hope you mean women

Yes sorry young women in twenties

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