Dirty old man....

[Creitty]

Hello I'm new....
My partner (doesn't actually live with me) is so unhygienic. He smells musty when he's slept in his bed. Today I found skid marks on my sheet after he'd stayed over. I've pleaded with him to change his clothes/bedding and take a daily shower but he just gets very defensive and bad tempered. Not told him about the skiddies yet, not sure how to approach it with him! Advice? Thanks

Why are you still with him?

He doesn’t live with you and he’s dirty. Why are you still with him?

Why have you got him as your boyfriend. His gross. Raise your standards

Dump the skid stain

Howling 😂😂😂😂 but agree ew

Ewww, do you fancy him?

Dirty bugger, dump.

That would be a dealbreaker for me!

This is an easy one.

Sorry Fred, I really liked you but your hygiene isn’t adequate for intimacy.

Please have some respect for yourself.... and your bedsheets and dump this creature.

I don't understand what posters want from threads like this. You are clearly disgusted by him, why do you need someone to tell you the obvious? Get rid!

A yes or no question for you: Do you want a partner who is rude to you when you ask him to wash adequately?

Just a yes or no.

Revolting. You need to end this relationship OP.

Rub his fucking nose in them, then dump the filthy bastard.

Why would you plead with him ?

I would be spraying him with detox as I remove him from my home never to set foot over the threshold again.

EU, tell him you got turned off.

oh gosh this would most definitely be a deal breaker and a massive red flag for me!

i can't bear it when someone hasn't brushed their teeth let alone not showered.. yuk yuk yuk..

i just couldn't!

If you'll put up with this, what else will you put up with? Do you want him around long enough to test the theory?

@Creitty

Today I found skid marks on my sheet.

That would trigger the biggest ICK of my life, and lead to dumping him.

Not told him about the skiddies yet, not sure how to approach it with him!

You don't have to tell him about anything except that the relationship is not working for you, and you are stopping it right now, and that decision is not for discussion. Do you have issues around saying 'difficult' things to people (especially men)?

His bed at his home I think.

I couldn't be with a man who isn't clean, never mind have sex with him. There's never an excuse to be dirty

He has such little respect for you that he won't Wash. Please leave him.

I know that I shouldn't, but some of the replies made me howl. (Wanders off to do something vaguely productive).

You really don't need to ask, do you?