Dirty old man....

[Creitty]

Hello I'm new....
My partner (doesn't actually live with me) is so unhygienic. He smells musty when he's slept in his bed. Today I found skid marks on my sheet after he'd stayed over. I've pleaded with him to change his clothes/bedding and take a daily shower but he just gets very defensive and bad tempered. Not told him about the skiddies yet, not sure how to approach it with him! Advice? Thanks

Every time I think I have heard it all...

Do you have sex with him, oh gosh.

Awful, you don't need to be with this man.

Dear lord…. Get some standards… my dog sounds cleaner than that 🥴

He must smell of shit all the time. And God knows what the front-whiff is like. (I just made myself gag!). Dear God, OP, dump this creep, and please do some work on yourself to raise your bar!

@GogAndMagog

Do you have sex with him, oh gosh.

I know. YUCK.

Could this be made up? Are there really men (and women!) like this?

Constantly baffled how women get in these relationships and stay in them when the men they're with are this disgusting.

My husband occasionally smells - because he's worked hard or it's been really hot or whatever. So he showers. He doesn't have a filthy arse and we wouldn't have got past a month let alone a year if he did.

Why would you be attracted to, or have sex with, someone who doesn't wash or wipe their bum effectively after pooing? Are you desperate for any affection?

There's no way I have someone smeggy penis anywhere near my undercarriage!

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Can you please not shit in my bed when you stay over next time? I appreciate stripes on my bed linen, but I'd rather buy them that way, my bedroom is not a sip n paint venue.

I would send him a photo of the sheet and tell him this souvenir of his visit has made you heave so he is no longer welcome in your home, or life.

I'd send it to him and tell him I really appreciate the gesture but can I please have flowers next time.

Or my nice clean sheets 😆

Ultimatum time. Clean up or clear off. I would give him the sheets, nicely wrapped and a receipt for new ones ... he'd have to pay up.

😆

The title and incredulity makes me think this is one of "those" posts....

Honestly, though, could you continue in a relationship with someone who only stopped making skids on your sheets because you threatened to leave them, otherwise?

I don't get it op. Why carry on seeing someone like this?

of course you are new…
with a provocative and misleading heading
leading to a predictable flurry of
dismay disgust and determined dumping

Hello I'm new
Tells us all we need to know!

@roses321

I appreciate stripes on my bed linen, but I'd rather buy them that way

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🤣 well, that's cheered up a rainy afternoon,
Thanks op

Fuck me every time I think the bar can’t get any lower along comes another one to make a snakes belly look like a pole vault

If by any chance this is real then are you that desperate for a bloke that any old tramp with a matted arse will do?

LMFAO!!! I love this.

I have read all the replies...thanks for your input. Yes, I do know I should do what you're all saying. Yes, I am weak, I don't like hurting people's feelings.
I guess I was hoping for someone to advise how best to get across to him how important it is to me for him to be clean and fresh, without being hurtful. In other ways he's a very sweet and caring guy.