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Sex - How long has it been?

160 replies

Notgettinany · 04/04/2008 12:49

Name change if you have to, I have. Truthfully, how long is it since you have had sex?

I am coming up to two years (and I am married!). Can anyone beat that?

OP posts:
sausagecake · 04/04/2008 21:28

13th August 2006. He won't until I stop Breastfeeding!! Is this common or an excuse I wonder!

ilovewashingnappies · 04/04/2008 21:30

until you stop breast feeding?!?!?!?

About 3 days. We seem to have waves of doing it all the time then not being bothered for a wee while.

All relationships are different aren;t they really. We've always had similar drives except a few times in late pregnancy when we dealt with the situation in imagionative ways...

There is a problem/issue perhaps when people have differnt drives.

beansmum · 04/04/2008 21:35

Oct 2003. a really long time ago.

sausagecake · 04/04/2008 21:38

You know what some men are like. He thinks that I will leak whilst in the act! Too icky for him.

Pavlovthecat · 04/04/2008 21:39

6 days.

MsPontipine · 04/04/2008 22:09

Summer 04

Glad I squirreled a hell of a lot of nuts for this long, long, long, long winter.

TheThlotPlickens · 04/04/2008 22:12

ages
was going to start a simialr thread.
there are a few of hours, a handfull,
unhappily in this position.

it is upsetting and feels degrading to be on at dh about it.
sigh.

stuffitllama · 04/04/2008 22:14

hooray today
things are looking up

LaComtesse · 04/04/2008 22:15

About a month I guess but then we did split up about a week later . Must admit I've started to notice now....

TheThlotPlickens · 04/04/2008 22:15
Envy
TheThlotPlickens · 04/04/2008 22:15

oh, that was to stiffit!

stuffitllama · 04/04/2008 22:17

we stiffits have been through the doldrums plick i can assure you

Flame · 04/04/2008 22:18

Couple of weeks.

We go through phases though of loads and then none for months on end.

TheThlotPlickens · 04/04/2008 22:18

things need to be looking up here!
oh , tmi

Flame · 04/04/2008 22:20

I haven't read the whole thread btw

Thomcat · 04/04/2008 22:27

Up until recently it was at least once a week, at least. Have been together 12 years. But currently breastfeeding DD3 who is 6 months old and my sex drive is non-existent. Just really have no inclanation to. He's being very cool about it but know he'd love me to be back to 'normal'. hope when i stop BF my sex drive comes back.

CocoDeBearisCocoDeBear · 04/04/2008 22:33

nearly a week

tdotb · 04/04/2008 22:33

almost 10 years

EachPeachPearMum · 04/04/2008 22:44

With the breastfeeding thing- if he thinks you'll leak- just keep your top on!

wook · 04/04/2008 23:05

Relieved to find I am not the only one, has been not since Feb 07 and a bit sporadic before. Going to Relate. Recommended though early days for us. Problem not me, in that I am quite literally desperate for it!!!! And desperate for babe no 2 as all i seem to see are double buggies these days!

GreatAuntieWurly · 04/04/2008 23:06

yesterday, tho not for much longer.

applepiecath · 04/04/2008 23:24

4 years and 3 months

mumblechum · 05/04/2008 12:31

These people who are talking about years, are you actually in a relationship or single now?

motherinferior · 05/04/2008 12:40

Inatizz, I don't understand women who say they've not read a novel since giving birth.

LilRedWG · 05/04/2008 12:43

about 9 inches

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