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Tinder dick pics

108 replies

Alicia88 · 15/12/2023 00:34

Is it possible to find someone on tinder that won't send a photo of their penis the second they get my WhatsApp number?

I've had it 3 times in the last 48 hrs

OP posts:
Guavafish1 · 15/12/2023 00:36

Atleast you know where you stand

capabilityfrowns · 15/12/2023 00:37

Nope . Leave tinder or put in your profile no dick pics or blocked .

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/12/2023 00:39

Don't move to phone numbers until after the first date. They will try to turn the conversation sexual before that and you can unmatch if you want to.

Alphyn · 15/12/2023 00:41

Don’t give out your mobile number until you’ve met in person. That should filter out most of these creeps. I’ve never had this issue.

Original poster
Alicia88 · 15/12/2023 00:42

I'm frightened of meeting a creep in real life. I'd rather they give the game away online so I can block

OP posts:
bluesatin · 15/12/2023 00:59

Surely there must be a website where you can send unsolicited dick pics you receive for ridicule?

wjpa · 15/12/2023 01:32

at Least they are filtering themselves for you!

brainworms · 15/12/2023 01:36

My response to these pics, is to send a degloved penis pic back and wait for the shrieking.

Don't Google degloved penis unless you have a strong stomach.

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/12/2023 01:54

brainworms · 15/12/2023 01:36

My response to these pics, is to send a degloved penis pic back and wait for the shrieking.

Don't Google degloved penis unless you have a strong stomach.

I'm googling it!

Ablondiebutagoody · 15/12/2023 01:58

Blimey

PooglesWood · 15/12/2023 01:59
Steve Brule What GIF

Wtf

Pinkbonbon · 15/12/2023 02:02

I've literally never been sent a dick pic and I've used tinder a ton.

Do not give out your number. The only reason not to communicate through the app is if you've arranged a date with them.

Infact even then I don't usually bother until I meet them and decide I want to see them again. Just message them before I go like 'leaving the house soon, topped my Internet up on the phone incase you need to reach me, cya soon'

If someone asks you first chat to go to WhatsApp FYI, they are always a creep. Always.

To repeat, no need to give out your number until youve arranged a date. If they ask before that, just say 'i do t give it out until I meet people'.

therealcookiemonster · 15/12/2023 05:15

I don't understand why men do it? surely they know by now that it's a massive turn off?! I am yet to meat a woman who wants to jump someone's bones because they sent a dick pic instead of saying hello.

heartbroken40 · 15/12/2023 05:21

I was on tinder and have my WhatsApp to quite a few men (hated chatting on tinder) and never received a dick pic. The men I was chatting to were 49-60 if that makes a difference. Are your matches in a much lower age range?

Josette77 · 15/12/2023 05:23

No one gets your number right away. Meet first.

I got the occasional one, but overall not an issue.

PlipPlopChoo · 15/12/2023 06:40

Reply with 'aaaw thats cute' and then forward a photo of a massive one.

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 15/12/2023 06:50

Go for the classic: “What IS that? It looks like a penis, only smaller 🧐”

PieAndLattes · 15/12/2023 06:51

Say, ‘Why are you sending me a picture of a child’s penis? Pervert. I’m reporting you.’ And block.

Or

’Blimey, that doesn’t look normal. what did the doctor say?’

Or just block.

annaT2122 · 15/12/2023 07:12

Nobody should be made to feel uncomfortable by receiving these unsolicited pics from creeps.
Further into relationships guys have sent me them which is different, after we have built up a rapport and been on dates. If I'm honest though it's rare to see one that is pleasing on the eye, most are very ugly.

TerfTalking · 15/12/2023 07:23

Like a PP, I just not sure WHY they do it. Is it supposed to be a way of wooing you or is it a form of indecent exposure that they get off on? Has someone (their mates) told them this is what women want to see or do they know you don’t and send it anyway?

It’s very common, so what’s the reason anyone?

Shiningout · 15/12/2023 07:23

I find it hilarious how men still think women find this a turn on. Even in a relationship where I fancy someone I'm never ever turned on by seeing a photo of their dick. Ever!

Ilovegoldies · 15/12/2023 07:26

I don't think they send them thinking it's a turn on. Well perhaps a few. I think its more of an indecent exposure, sexual power trip thing for them.

annaT2122 · 15/12/2023 07:26

Shiningout · 15/12/2023 07:23

I find it hilarious how men still think women find this a turn on. Even in a relationship where I fancy someone I'm never ever turned on by seeing a photo of their dick. Ever!

@Shiningout I would say it is very very rare. Most of them my reaction is just 'euggh"
You can get pretty ones that are appealing but not very often.

C1N1C · 15/12/2023 07:26

I'm curious now, how do you meet without a number? Surely you need one to find them or let them know you're running late etc??

annaT2122 · 15/12/2023 07:29

TerfTalking · 15/12/2023 07:23

Like a PP, I just not sure WHY they do it. Is it supposed to be a way of wooing you or is it a form of indecent exposure that they get off on? Has someone (their mates) told them this is what women want to see or do they know you don’t and send it anyway?

It’s very common, so what’s the reason anyone?

I would love to know the answer as well. Maybe one for the psychology experts! More understandable if they were very well endowed but they don't tend to be.