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Tinder dick pics

108 replies

Alicia88 · 15/12/2023 00:34

Is it possible to find someone on tinder that won't send a photo of their penis the second they get my WhatsApp number?

I've had it 3 times in the last 48 hrs

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crumpet · 16/12/2023 09:49

I’d be tempted to reply “And this is why you don’t have a partner” and then block. Leave him wondering whether it was the sending of the pic that was the issue or just a crap dick.

Tonto37 · 16/12/2023 10:01

As a man, if you receive one unsolicited,the best response that you can give is silence. It's the loudest noise of all.

PermanentTemporary · 16/12/2023 10:03

Men who aren't interested in the scenic route are just intensely boring. The kind of men who put a motorway through a nice city neighbourhood in the 60s so that they could drive faster to the golf club.

I'm very visual and I like seeing men naked, I like sexting when I've got something going on with the guy. Still hate unsolicited dick pics.

Passingthethyme · 16/12/2023 10:35

Send a bigger one back!

Passingthethyme · 16/12/2023 10:40

YRGAM · 15/12/2023 07:35

My very kind interpretation would be that men are primarily more visually aroused than women are, and so dick pic senders are assuming that what would turn them on works for women in the inverse. It's the same theory behind why lots of men so straight to giving oral sex too early in a sexual encounter/without foreplay, because it matches what they would want.

This is a very generous explanation though. I'm sure the majority of senders do it because they enjoy making women feel uncomfortable

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I think you are right, but then it does show the lack of their emotional intelligence

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You think that women are attracted to men who have slept with lots of women? LOL! 🤣

PermanentTemporary · 16/12/2023 16:29

Oh God the userbunchofnumbers who's excited by the word 'dick' has arrived. I'm out.

DontListenToWhatYouveConsumed · 16/12/2023 16:40

A guy I had been chatting with asked me to meet him at the hotel he was staying in. I declined.
He sent me a picture of a cucumber hanging out of his arse to 'show me what I was missing ' apparently. Best decision I ever made, dodged a potentially dangerous encounter.
Maybe a smart person somewhere could collate all these pictures and call it 'Name that Knob'

Peopleareconfusing · 16/12/2023 16:41

PermanentTemporary · 16/12/2023 16:29

Oh God the userbunchofnumbers who's excited by the word 'dick' has arrived. I'm out.

Love this

Blueeyedmale · 16/12/2023 16:41

You wouldn't go up to a woman in Asda and show your penis to a woman so don't know why they think it's acceptable on dating sites and social media,plain and simple it's indecent exposure and need to be on a register and banned from using the internet if they can't control their disgusting urges!

CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 16/12/2023 16:52

I just read degloved penis, gasped and then had to explain to my bf why. Even as a woman it’s horrific to imagine. Good idea though!

annaT2122 · 16/12/2023 17:04

Another point is that the best dicks are owned by the guys who don't brag about it or look to send photos of them

Indifferentchickenwings · 16/12/2023 18:21

annaT2122

not true
my ex had an great dick
and was happy to send photos of it

annaT2122 · 16/12/2023 18:38

Indifferentchickenwings · 16/12/2023 18:21

annaT2122

not true
my ex had an great dick
and was happy to send photos of it

@Indifferentchickenwings yes but I bet it wasn't the first thing he would do when he gets a woman's number.
My ex has a beautiful dick but I'm confident he won't be flaunting it all over tinder.

scoobydoo1971 · 16/12/2023 19:19

I think my reply to that sort of image would be 'Thank you for reminding me to stock up on pickled guerkins for Christmas...'.I think men are doing us a huge favour when they send that sort of photo. It is an instant statement on their IQ, and where you are likely to find those brains.

AmazingDayz · 16/12/2023 19:23

I find it weird people are saying not to give your number till meeting erm I would rather filter out the ones that send dick pics

Lovemusic82 · 16/12/2023 19:30

I’ve been online dating on and off for 8 years, at the start I used to get loads of dick photos, now I’m a bit older I don’t get hardly any, I have become more fussy on who I talk too and tend to date older, though in the past I have had older professionals send me the most disgusting photos including a police officer who sent me photos of him having sex with someone and another guy who sent me photos of his butt plug collection including photos of him using one 🤮.

Online dating is pretty awful and it’s full of ugly dicks.

Indifferentchickenwings · 16/12/2023 19:30

annaT2122

that’s true when we first dated

in fact I said to him ‘don’t send me a dick pic’
as I didn’t want to ruin it 🙏

noooooooo · 16/12/2023 19:39

I had a pal who saved them as they came in and then sent different dicks pics to guys who’d sent her theirs. Probably a bad move but lol

annaT2122 · 16/12/2023 19:41

Indifferentchickenwings · 16/12/2023 19:30

annaT2122

that’s true when we first dated

in fact I said to him ‘don’t send me a dick pic’
as I didn’t want to ruin it 🙏

Well at least now you still have it as a memory

flowerchild2000 · 16/12/2023 19:42

Don't give them your number! And don't use tinder!

Indifferentchickenwings · 16/12/2023 20:57

annaT2122

yeah . Yay ! One day I’ll find a penis I like as much again I hope . And attached to someone more matched to my needs

annaT2122 · 16/12/2023 21:15

Indifferentchickenwings · 16/12/2023 20:57

annaT2122

yeah . Yay ! One day I’ll find a penis I like as much again I hope . And attached to someone more matched to my needs

What was so good about the penis and what was so bad that he didn't meet your needs? Sounds like you have mixed feelings.