Stag do anxiety

[Jane881]

Partner is off on a stag do in a few weeks to Prague. I don't know why I'm overwhelmed with worry about something happening as in cheating.

We've been going out around 15 months and live a bit away from each other. He's never given any reason to doubt him and things are going really well.

I genuinely hope he has a great time away and know this is my issue.
I feel like I'm punching a bit, he very attractive and funny 🙈 I'd never say anything to him about my worries and have been cooler than cool. But it just gives me the fear as to what could happen and if something did I'd never know. Some posts on here aren't very reassuring about cheating either, it seems to happen alot and opinion regarding it aren't positive 😬 x

It is.

But that's not why groups of blokes on stag do go there!

None of that means the OP's boyfriend will do anything though! I doubt it was his choice

I get it but if you are planning a future you need to try and control your thoughts. There will be many situations like this. If things are going well and he’s a decent guy he isn’t going to want to spoil things. Try not to worry xx

Is it really? I’ve been and seen groups of lads just sitting having drinks and minding their own business. does a stag do really mean a shag do?!!!!

This.

Or they would? You sound quite bitter and judgey

Which types of guys? Ones that are committing to their partners and planning a stag do as they are getting married?!?!?!

I agree! She is totally ridiculous and probably single!!!

Oh for goodness sake. Yes I've no doubt that some Men choose Prague for those reasons, and some that didn't choose the location will probably do questionable things because the opportunity is there, but not every Man who attends a stag do in Prague is banging sex workers from the second they get off the plane.

The ones that are often stick out like a sore thumb in any situation involving other 'Lads' or Women, so are easy to avoid as partners.

Plenty just go for the cheap beer and the stag-party friendly infrastructure (plenty of companies there who'll organise the whole thing including invoicing and collecting payment individually; taking a LOT of hassle off the bloke in charge).

OP, kindly, unless he's given you a reason to distrust him, I think this is a you problem. DH went on a stag to a place with a similar reputation last year and hand on heart I didn't question it for one second, I simply don't believe he has it in him (maybe I'll be proved horribly wrong one day but he's never up to now given me a single reason not to trust him, so I choose to trust him. I wouldn't be with him otherwise).

I bloody hope so, could you imagine living with that level of distrust?

Get help with your issues! No one needs to be distrusted as much as that.

And yes a bat shit crazy poster up thread was saying it….. I think it was either you or @TheoTheopolis23 ?

Has he gave you any doubt? What would you do if it was the other way around? You going on your friends hen party??

Prague is well known for groups of men sight seeing taking in the beautiful architecture.
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Tbf, we'd only been dating for 3 months at the time but given what I found out about him later, I'd be more surprised if he hadn't so 🤷🏻‍♀️

When they choose sex tourism destinations, it tells you a lot about them and their values & priorities.

If that's to me, I'm not single but I love how that was the worst insult you could think of! 🤣

I know a man who has recently been on a golfing stag do. A week away in a hot country playing golf.

Hate to break it to you but I know loads of men including middle aged granddad's whose wives probably think they're well past that - who go.on golf trips to Portugal, Spain etc and go to brothels there, usually "staffed" by immigrant South American women.

Bug I'm sure these guys are "not like that". Noone else thinks their DHS are like that

So …. One …. Person you’d known for three months, forms your opinion?
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I don't know, I always thought of Prague as a touristy city much like Amsterdam that had a lot to offer in terms of clubbing.

Sex tourism 😅 Prague has a lot of tourists much like Paris. Are they all sex tourists but we just never thought about it?

The ones who choose to hold and attend stag do in sex tourism destinations.

Smh

Oh my god….. you’re crazy!! 😜

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I'm sure there are lots of non sex tourists who go to sex tourism destinations for non sex tourism reasons.

Stag do's do not generally fall under those categories however.

Not sure why such a simple concept needs explained.

You're naive.

You know all those men in my town who fucked young prostitutes in Portuguese brothels on golf trips ..... Their wives still don't know, think they're great guys and pillars of the community, think they'd never do something like that...... Get it?