What do you find attractive?

[Whatonearth2021]

Light hearted question - a male friend just told me that he can get turned on just by hearing his girlfriend’s voice on the phone (in a normal conversation rather than anything sexy!)

This surprised me and led me to wonder if this was a common thing? What do you find attractive in someone apart from the obvious?

Stocky but not fat.
Big dick wouldn't settle for a small one.
A nice perky butt.
Rough sex, not really a soft and gentle kind of women.

Woman*

Yes, my husband's voice turns me on.

Mostly it's personality that makes me attracted; interesting, intelligent, willing to have interesting conversations, excitement about life.

Looks-wise it's mostly dark hair for me but I've found people attractive because of their personality alone before.

Lastly it's attractive to have someone want the same things as you and who you can build a life together with.

Tall, chunky men with big arms and thick thighs. Dark hair,glasses. Extrovert to my introvert. Dominant in bed but not outside of it lol

(Man here) I dont really care much about a womans personality, Im very visual and even back in school I was always a visual learner.

As long as she isnt a bitch then I couldnt care, she could be boring or not know a word of english but if shes attractive/fertile then thats all that matters

Yep
Voice
And smell mmmm
Hairy chest
Strong arms (not massive though)

The guy I’m dating is quietly very assertive- he tells me about meetings at work, or I hear them, where he’s able to stay polite, but also protects the interests of the most vulnerable party by holding everyone to account. I don’t know whether it’s cos he’s got a deep voice and can hold the room, or his deep integrity, but it makes me so horny!

Definitely the voice, sense of humour. I workout a lot but I don't like men with honed bodies, but I like men in sportswear, hiking clothes etc. also men who love dogs

Also men in authoritarian to,ex, but that speak softly to me

Authoritarian roles

I love nice dark moisturised skin
Lovely brown eyes
Nice looked after nails
Regular hair cuts
Big arms and thighs
And nice teeth is a must😍😍

Strong legs, ginger/red hair, freckled arms, confident, good shoes, articulate, intelligent, sensitive.

Absolutely this!!

Dark hair with an extremely neat and tidy haircut. Not a fan of smoking but if I see them with a cigarette, I’m like Joey in Friends, I want them even more!

@liIi agreed about more northern accents. I could listen to Max Beesley talk all day.

another vote for forearms and good shoes. plus height, anywhere between 6''1 and 6"3 really floats my boat. good conversationalist and ability to make me laugh. all a bit conventional. sorry.

I'm going to add expensive aftershave and a southern Irish accent.

@theonlygirl we’ll be fighting for him!

cleverness

short hair

no beard

good suit

forearms

shirt sleeves rolled up to below the elbow

crisp shirt

city type standing in that wide apart legs pose, hands in pockets, at the bar, his back to me…

a direct gaze

posh accent

blue eyes

“(Man here)”

Lol

Do you gauge whether or not she’s “fertile” immediately? Wow. What a superb skill.

No tattoos

No piercings

No one who looks like a Love Island contestant

No parsnip legs in dreaded skinny jeans

No muscle bound shape

No man bun

No ponytail

No one who isn’t a graduate.

Cleanliness but not groomed

Nice eyes

Sense of humour

Someone who gives good cuddles and is good at kissing

Kind to animals. Tells you all you need to know.

but then
shoulders, dimples, sense of humour. my DP hasn't got the shoulders, quite, but hey ho; 25 years and counting 😍

Competence. I love that my husband does housework, cooks and is an excellent dad to our child. Couldn't be with someone useless, so unsexy.