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The Spookster II

266 replies

spook · 23/11/2004 10:04

Hi Freckle. I can't post on my thread!! It just keeps freezing my screen and has done for a couple of days. The last post was a fluke so here's a new one!!
I'm not going to Ibiza I'm going to stay with some friends down south. I think Ibiza will just be too depressing on our own-my family won't even be there. But he's obviously not best pleased. I didn't get any response to the news whatesoever.
DS1 trashed the kitchen again last night. It is absolutely horrific to listen to. There's nothing I can do other than let him get it out of his system. He got an assesment from school yesterday and it was nearly all A5's. (outstanding achievment and effort) So there are luckily no worries there. He just saves it all up for when he gets home. DS2 is starting to be affected. God it's heartbreaking. Feel like phoning him and just holding the phone up to the screaming but what good will that do??? Just make him angry with me coz of his guilt.
Thanks for your mail honey. Will reply today XXXXX

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moomina · 27/11/2004 13:17

Oh god have crossed with a load of other posts - how dare he use your boys. God, words fail me.

WigandRobe · 27/11/2004 13:19

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spook · 27/11/2004 13:20

Now I am in that horrible wired up state I get in when I just need him here. And I will certainly go completely mad if I don't see my children.

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spook · 27/11/2004 13:21

I've just about got the strength to raise (another) cigarette to my lips W&R!!!

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WigandRobe · 27/11/2004 13:35

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spook · 27/11/2004 13:36

No. I am sat staring at my phone wondering what to do.

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Freckle · 27/11/2004 13:40

Go for a walk with the dog.

spook · 27/11/2004 13:41

Can't summon up the energy. I got halfway to the beach yesterday an realised I had forgotten him

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WigandRobe · 27/11/2004 13:44

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Freckle · 27/11/2004 13:44

LOL! No way I can forget the dog if I'm going out. He stands in front of the door looking longingly at his lead.

spook · 27/11/2004 13:57

Well Freckle so does mine but I had to fill up my windscreen washer thingy and just got in the car and started driving. The beach is 10 miles away.
W&R-I know I know. But it is so bloody hard. Yes I still love him and yes-sometimes I tink why is he kicking off like this. Is it because somewhere in his subconscious he doesn't want to lose me??? Then I realise that can't be possible because so much water has passed under the bridge. But even I find it hard to believe that he is so angry with me about a solicitors letter he is deliberately not letting me see my children when he knows how desperate I am.
This is sinking to the depths even on his track record. At least a curt "thanks but no thanks " text would let me know.

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WigandRobe · 27/11/2004 14:00

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spook · 27/11/2004 14:02

Can I call him????

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WigandRobe · 27/11/2004 14:07

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spook · 27/11/2004 14:09

But won't he think I'm just hounding him and get cross. I want to hear his voice too.

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WigandRobe · 27/11/2004 14:12

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Freckle · 27/11/2004 14:12

Click on this . It's addictive and will keep your mind off other things.

spook · 27/11/2004 15:08

Freckle. You have saved my life. You are right.TOTALLY addictive. One way to waste an afternoon I think!!! Thanks cookie XXXXXX

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Freckle · 27/11/2004 16:39

My pleasure . I love it and have lost entire days playing it.

Blu · 29/11/2004 14:20

Spook? How are you? What happened? How are the boys now?

SpringChicken · 30/11/2004 09:50

Spook - Is everything OK?

spook · 30/11/2004 10:53

Hi Blu and Springchicken.Sorry not posted. Just can't

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Blackduck · 30/11/2004 11:03

Oh Spook.... whats up?

Blu · 30/11/2004 11:04

O.K. We're all here when you're ready.

Freckle · 30/11/2004 12:44

Sorry to hear this, Spook. Anything we can do to help?

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