I WALKED ON DH MASTURBATING THIS MORNING WTF ??????????????

[Naughtyhusband]

Sorry namechanged ! I was going to brush my teeth this morning, knew DH was having a shower... I opened the door there he was...having the time of his life ....I mean come on ! Whyyyyyyy ? Especially after the night we had, baby has been teething all night ! Why the need of wanking ??? When he got busted, he tried to carry on as normal, pretending to clean his willy !!!!!! He says he did because he was exausted ?? ...Is it normal for a thirty something man ????

Quite normal, I reckon, and sometimes they dont want to have the whole performance of a shag, just want a quick wank to relieve themselves.

If I'm honest, I know how they feel

You know what I'd do - if you could arrange it - have a lovely hot soak in the bath, glass of wine, candles, maybe some chocs and have a little play of your own

You should have seen his face..he was embarrassed...I'm tired but never enough not have sex..I'm just surprised that's it maybe because I wish he could initiate sex a bit more and not having his "solitary moment"

men masturbate ! no ! really ! i am amazed, shocked and surprised

not !

it is not a rejection, if you are tired and coping with a new born, he probably thinks having a moment with himself is better than 'bothering' you for sex

goodness me, am shocked you are shocked

Iklboo-well I'm seriously thinking about it after reading the other thread with the vibrator giving good orgasm....will I do that step ?? Ermmm maybe still a bit too shy I think

Maybe chat to him and say how you feel (about him initiating). He may feel he's doing you a favour (dh certainly does, and I agree most of the time).

You need to ask Santa for a Rampant Rabbit for Xmas - then you won't care what he is up to 'cos you will be having so much fun yourself [wank] sorry !

Then tell him. Or initiate it yourself perhaps. I am sorry you are shocked and he is embarrassed.

Sod shy - you go girl

Poor poor man.
Tp be humiliated on top of it all.

Well Lulumama...I had 3 serious relationships before him and I never walked on any of them "pleasuring themselves"..ok maybe shocked is a bit too strong but surprise yes !

s'only a wank, leave the poor bugger alone !

I do wish they wouldn't wank in the shower though, I'm the poor sap who cleans the cubicle....

And you have never caught him before either...he is more discreet than my dh

Poor bloke - maybe he wanted you to say "do you need a hand with that"

No way I'm going to initiate sex ever again with him, he's always oh sorry I'm too tired, yes but not too tired to have a wank...that's the thing !! I WANT A BONK !

Time to change my name. I think my Mum lurks on here...

Wake him up with a BJ - they're NEVER too tired for that

I'm always the one who initiates...and now I have stopped (told him I was grieving our almost non existent sex life)...

just beacsue you didn;t catch any of your exes doing so, doesn;t mean they didn;t do it !

if your sex life is not up to speed, then you need to talk about it, and if he prefers masturbating to making love to you, then that is a whole differnet story.

masturbation in the context of a fulfilling sex life is fine, but not at the expense of it

a wank is v different to sex. Like someone else said, it's a quick release, maybe he was too tired for session that was satisfying for both of you ?

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Iklboo-I know, I know but first thing in the morning before his shower ?? Non merci

A wank takes much less effort than a bonk though!

I wouldn't assume that just because he maturbates that means he prefers it to sex with you.