Would you sleep with two different people in the same day?

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I don’t mean a threesome.

Purely hypothetical at the moment, but I’m curious to know what people would do.

I only have every other weekend free due to childcare. I have a casual partner, and I’ve been speaking to someone for the past 6 weeks I really want to meet.

When lockdown is lifted (yes, I don’t it’s going to be any time soon hence hypothetical), I would probably see on of them Friday Night and the other Sat night. If I stay over (which I do with my casual), there would be morning sex.

So that’s my question really - would you have morning sex with one person and then have sex with someone else in the evening? I can’t decide if I think it’s fine or a bit weird.

Mainly because it’s just a bit much also you are a mum so I would feel quite bad... surely that’s a short amount of space
How many hours between penis' in OP would be best for her child?

@Wewearpinkonwednesdays

I find it kind of 'manky' the way you describe sex, do you really think of it at someone 'sticking their dick' in you?

It can happen in life- though you seem to be actually planning it.

Just an opinion, but it will lead to confusion, and an increased chance of STDs.

@SleepingStandingUp I personally would just have the 1 penis in a matter of 24 hrs (you do the maths).

I totally would and have done in the past. But then again, I've had sex with two men at the actual same time*, so am obviously not prudish.

*would recommend, if anyone was wondering.

I'm getting the urge to have a bath in Dettol.

@Cherrybakewelll I personally would just have the 1 penis in a matter of 24 hrs (you do the maths)

Do you think it’s ok to have sex with one man and then another 25 hours later? Why the arbitrary cut off point? Would 23.5 hours not be ok but 24.5 hours be fine?

@Cherrybakewelll? I'm ming she won't tell him, quite it on his class blog or tell him to call them both New Dasdy

@sammylady37 is this an open thread? I gave my thoughts.
If you read what I wrote I said _I would feel bad some people on MN need to mind their business. I have explained my view already.

At no point did I say OP wasn’t a fab mother or anything along them lines. She’s entitled to do what ever. Now bore off & scroll on.
We don’t have to agree in life I don’t think it’s that big of a deal it’s just not what I would do to make it clear I would not not personally be taking 2 penis’s in the first place!! It’s not about the hours I would sleep with the same person on fri & sat.

@Cherrybakewell *is this an open thread? I gave my thoughts.
If you read what I wrote I said _I would feel bad some people on MN need to mind their business. I have explained my view already.

At no point did I say OP wasn’t a fab mother or anything along them lines. She’s entitled to do what ever. Now bore off & scroll on.
We don’t have to agree in life I don’t think it’s that big of a deal it’s just not what I would do to make it clear I would not not personally be taking 2 penis’s in the first place!! It’s not about the hours I would sleep with the same person on fri & sat*

Oh dear. You make the point about it being an open thread and you giving your opinion, then issue the instruction to me to “bore off and scroll on” bit of a logic fail there.

And seeing as it is an open thread, you gave your thoughts and I asked for clarification on them. Nothing wrong with that on a discussion forum.

And as for “some people on MN need to mind their business” (sic) - it would be lovely if they did. But the op has been the subject of vitriolic judgemental misogyny on this thread, all because of her life choices. Sad.

But she asked for opinions. If you don't want opinions maybe don't ask for them?

And I'm certainly not mysogynystic in my views on this - I think all parties, if they all know, are doing something that's pretty grim and not particularly safe.

*But she asked for opinions. If you don't want opinions maybe don't ask for them?

And I'm certainly not mysogynystic in my views on this - I think all parties, if they all know, are doing something that's pretty grim and not particularly safe*

Reasoned, constructive opinions are one thing. Being called a slut, a slapper, disgusting, skanky, sloppy seconds etc is utter misogyny.

I don't think it matters what other people think. If you're fine with it that's all that matters. Your actions don't effect anyone else.

I suppose it should come as no surprise that the same posters advocating affairs on other threads are also advocates of multiple sexual partners 🤣🤣

Bit grim imo.
How old are you op?

@sammylady37 I wasn’t judgemental to OP and I didn’t call her a sl*g at the same time you cannot message people just because someone may want to have casual sex but just not with different men everyday of the week FGS

If I had posted to say yes I’m sure you wouldn’t be @ me

Smilethoyourheartisbreaking

Saying it's grim, disgusting or makes me want to reach for the Dettol isn't misogynistic though. That's my view of all of the people involved.

Op go for it! I couldn’t care less what other people’s views are. If you want to do it, do it, but make sure you do it safely!
I went on a bit of a rampage when my ex left 12 years ago, ended up sleeping with 3 different men on 3 consecutive nights. I couldn’t care less what people think. I had an absolute ball when I became single again. I went on to meet my husband and now almost 40 but if I was ever single again, then I may carry on where I left off 🤣

@Cherrybakewelll I wasn’t judgemental to OP and I didn’t call her a slg at the same time you cannot message people just because someone may want to have casual sex but just not with different men everyday of the week FGS

If I had posted to say yes I’m sure you wouldn’t be @ me*

Firstly, I never said you personally were judgemental or called her a slag, so not sure what you’re getting at there.

And as for at the same time you cannot message people just because someone may want to have casual sex but just not with different men everyday of the week FGS- what?? I can’t message you because you’ve a different opinion? This is a discussion forum. Threads evolve and people post their opinions and others engage with them. That’s the purpose of the forum. You posted a statement about wanting only 1 penis in 24 hours and I asked why the arbitrary cut off. If you don’t want to engage in discussion and don’t want people to reply to your posts perhaps you should, in your own words, bore off and scroll on- ideally to somewhere you can post and not engage in follow-up discussion which is what you seem to want, given you’re complaining about replies. A blog may suit. Just be sure to disable comments.

Never in a million years.

I dont understand what OPs sex life has to do with her parenting skills or her age

you forgot grim. And views that the thread makes them want to bathe in dettol.

Lol

I must get shares in Dettol - firstly Donald Trump, and now MN

@sammylady37 I’m not going to argue your clearly being one sided!

I’m not sure why your shocked at some of these reply’s. Also I explained myself in my previous post you wasn’t justified as I didn’t agree with you and you choose to cherry pick my statement the cheek of you.

Like I stated each to their own

@Cherrybakewelll

I’m not sure why your shocked at some of these reply’s. Also I explained myself in my previous post you wasn’t justified as I didn’t agree with you and you choose to cherry pick my statement the cheek of you

You’re on a discussion forum and you think someone asking for clarification on your post is cheeky?? Lol. Goodnight. Have fun in your strange little world where you want to dump statements on the internet and run.