My stbex has be warned by my lawyer to not contact me or Ds (won’t go into why, long story, narcissist).
He was sent the letters 2 weeks ago. I felt bad as it’s Xmas so asked them to put in the letter he can come to my mums house Xmas eve to see him. He didn’t show up yesterday at all. He could have rang the lawyer 2 weeks ago if he couldn’t make it and ask for a different day, but didn’t.
Now he has sent me a msg just now saying he needs to see Ds please can I come and see him.
What do I do? He had the chance yesterday. I can’t reply to him as the lawyers have said no contact as I’ve requested he doesn’t contact me (he just coercively controls me).
But my emotions are getting the better of me as bloody usual and I feel bad as it’s Christmas. What should I do?