Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

[JaysusWept]

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

I seriously think you’re going to look like you’re guilty if you don’t do something!!!

Who cares? It doesn't matter what people you don't know and don't care about think of you. What matters is, you know that the shit that is being said about you isn't true.

From one Scottish lassie to another, tell them to beat it - all of them! You don't have to defend or justify yourself to anyone x

Being from Glasgow myself I managed to find C on fb in about 2 minutes

Woah slightly over invested!!!

Oh and it’s 100% her social standing as the reason the others are standing by her and not you

Wonder you sound very very sure of this situation, along with pushing op to take the thread down, why would you suggest this? Has op not made it abundantly clear she is perfectly content for the thread to hit every major headline if need be.

If you are one of them, or if you know them. Just a little message from us from all of us to them. Where the fuck is your humanity? There are literally thousands of posts supporting op. C had best keep a low profile would be my best suggestion, or a heartfelt apology to Jaysus would work just as well. You should hang your heads in utter shame.

I'd remind the bitches that now that cuntoline has ousted you from the group she will be searching for her next victim soon when she starts to get bored, I hope the bitches know this and dont sleep easy thinking it will be them next . Just sit back enjoy the show

Please don't attach @Wonderland18, if she is one of them, I'm sure she has read enough to know they are behaving like low-life.

If this is out of general concern and she really has friends in common with C, please pass on the general opinion.

But none of us should sink to their level on this thread, imo.

@Wonderland18 it's human curiosity....

But this could also work in Ops favour

@JaysusWept I have only just came across your posts and have spent the last 30-45 minutes reading all your updates when I should have been working
Reading through your first thread, the alarm bells were ringing when you said C was always going on about how happy her and her husband were etc. That is usually a sign that things aren't so good! On your second thread, I couldn't believe K, M and D! Now reading what has happened with the WA group is just low! I would have originally said to tackle this head on and stand up to them but it just doesn't seem worth it, they don't seem worth it! They've shown their true colours and they are a shit coloured puddle!
Like you, I cant stand drama and really want a simple life! I do hope you are okay!
I live about 20 minutes from Glasgow City Centre so if this Glasgow meet up happens, I'm in!

I think a lot of people stand by bullies because it's easier, because they're scared they'll be the next victim, because they have no backbone....and since C had parties at her house she will play a big role in them having social lives. I'm sorry this has happened to you OP but I think at this point the best thing to do is just try to let it go.

Yes, it would be ideal if these three threads got out amongst the group.

It would highlight what cunts they’ve been to the OP.

In case any of OP’s former friends are reading: you suck at being a friend. I hope everyone who knows you finds out what you’ve done and drops you as a friend. You all deserve each other. I wonder which one if you will be ousted next.

So angry on your behalf OP. They are a bunch of women in their 30s behaving like a gang of high school mean girls. And C is clearly a sociopath . One day she’ll do the same to one of the others and they’ll realise their mistake..

Defo think a Glasgow meet up is on the cards for you @JaysusWept

Can't believe your latest update. Stay dignified like you have been all along at the school tomorrow. Stay away and hold your head high.

I'm glad you're done with them.

They keep trying to stoke the fire because you've stopped back and they clearly are loving the drama.

I think whichever poster said above that K (and the others to a lesser extent) are also fuelling the fire are correct.

You do not need people like that in your life. You are with 10 of them

Here is a message from the other side of this, 20 years on.

Having been bullied by similar people at school, I was (lucky to be) able to recognise this type of behaviour in a group of 4 friends I made later.

Similar behaviour traits emerged, and I got out of there and made great new friends who are friends to this day.

The group then worked their way through 2 more members who both were diagnosed with depression directly exacerbated by their treatment.

I am grateful every day that life equipped me to recognise this and I sincerely hope that one day you can be too.

Deffs not one of them 😂 I’ve been following with horror the same as everyone else.

I was meaning if the op didn’t mind them all knowing or not, I know it would fuel the fire on her end. No one needs the drama that surrounds bitches like them and op seems too nice to have to deal with more.

Ignore them, unfollow them on FB, let them stew, you are better than they could ever hope to be.

They've sided with her because she shouted the loudest. You stood back quietly and didnt kick up a fuss. She went on the attafk and actively got them on her side. She also let the gossip spread, so everyone will see you as the bad guy and they wont want to associate with that.
You can't go back and deal with it differently now though and nothing will repair the damage. The truth might all come out in the end or it might not, but they've shown who they are. What complete bitches.

It's time to try and cultivate new friendships between your daughter and other kids at school. Just put up a Chinese wall and pretend they don't even exist.

And if you want support at school pick up then a few meet ups with other Glasgow mum's will surely get you that support! You don't need them.

You have been treated awfully but by the sounds of it have had a lucky mistake.

I would put money on you not being the only person at the school she has treated this way. It's horrible that it seems people are talking about this but I bet there are plenty of people who know what she's like and that you are innocent in all this. Hope the school run wasn't too bad.

K removed me from the WA group yesterday.

How petty.

Still, as you say, fuck them all.

A lucky escape rather!

I’m just so sorry these people did this to you

True colours and all that!

They've sided with her because she shouted the loudest. You stood back quietly and didnt kick up a fuss.

But decent people who weren't all about the drama would have backed off from the crazy and not ostracized Jaysus.

The WhatsApp removal was inevitable really, and I suspect Facebook will follow, but then they may want to keep an eye and taunt. I really would encourage you to unfollow them and lock down your profile so they see the bare minimum.

May I echo the suggestion of being busy on your phone and having headphones in at the next school pick up tomorrow? You may take small pleasure in selecting a special playlist. Here are a few starter suggestions;

Fuck you - Lily Allen
In the end - Linkin Park
Enter sandman - Metallica
Complicated- Avril Lavine

I'm sure other posters can add to this list!

Jaysuswept I'm so sorry you've had to go through this but I think you've been marvellous! You're worth a million of them. Look after yourself

I doubt they'll remove her from Facebook.

I know their type. Snide assholes like this will get great pleasure from posting things op is 'missing out' on.

They've done you a huge favour op. They all sound droll and vacuous.