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Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

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JaysusWept · 21/09/2019 21:59

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

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combatbarbie · 26/09/2019 19:38

Lol at least one of the monkeys has posted! If your friend plastered it all over MN that would be the friendship over.....??? Hahaha let's not forget they have already unfriended OP, who only came here for advice.... C has lied and lied and lied so if you are one of the flying monkeys piss off back to the coven because unless there is a grovelling apology en route you are fucked, you know your now stuck with a psycho friend and will be just waiting for it to be your turn.... Karma is coming for you....

MyShinyWhiteTeeth · 26/09/2019 19:38

I like Bitches and Cunts but I prefer Queen Arsehole and her merry gang of Brown nosers..

OP - you are well rid of them. I would actively encourage your child to have friendships away from their children.

combatbarbie · 26/09/2019 19:40

Actually I think your K....the one stuck in the middle to start....

colourlessgreenidea · 26/09/2019 19:41

Are people really so manically invested in this that if anyone offers even the slightest demurral they’re greeted with shrieks of ‘OMG you’re one of them!!!!!!!!!!’?

Are people really so utterly lacking in imagination that they can’t comprehend an alternate (and relatively well-balanced, in light of some of the flaming pitchforks and baying for blood) perspective without dismissing it as an ‘insider conspiracy’?

loobyloo1234 · 26/09/2019 19:41

Every name that they have been called on these threads @ElspethFlashman has been justified. Just so you know.

PotatoShape · 26/09/2019 19:47

Well @colourlessgreenidea, considering that bar @ElspethFlashman...NOBODY has sided with these bitches until she posts! It's inexcusable, only someone who was the offending party could attempt to justify this shit-show of behaviour.

FantasticButtocks · 26/09/2019 19:50

That troll-hunting thread was reported multiple times by many posters. It looked designed to discredit this thread. Not very subtle. And it was, quite rightly, removed.

This thread however has only continued in the way it has because the behaviour of C and the others has been ramped up. They are the ones behaving in such an unkind, disloyal and dishonest way, so if they are reading here about themselves and getting het up about it - they only have themselves to blame.

One of them, not necessarily C, has been feeding the others and they've been egging each other on. They have spiralled things out of control with lies and poison and bullying, and it will be interesting to see if any one of them has the decency to try to stop this. Unfortunately, probably not, as they are the sort of people who fear each other, fear standing up for what is right, in case they get ostracised from the gang.

You are well out of it OP. Enjoy your weekend, and enjoy the fact that you are free of these unpleasant individuals.

32ndofFebtober · 26/09/2019 20:03

ElspethFlashman posted right near the beginning of the first thread. Some of you appear to just want the frothing to continue.

MotherOfLittlePeople · 26/09/2019 20:05

You don't need them as friends OP. All completely batty and I pray to the gods of bitchiness that C does this again to one of them!!!
Karma comes around!

GabsAlot · 26/09/2019 20:05

Even if the found the thread c would still spin it as see shes mad just making things up online to make me look wrong

You wont win with these pepole-hope they just move on andyou too Jaysus

SchadenfreudePersonified · 26/09/2019 20:06

Actually ElspethFlashman was the one who gave the best advice from the start of thread one.

I was going to post this, but madambee beat me to it.

Whether the Glasgow Coven have read these threads or not, I don't know, but I don't think that Elspeth is one of them.

FFS - surely we aren't turning on one another now? This is beyond ridiculous.

ILikeyourHairyHands · 26/09/2019 20:07

Erm, ElsbethFlashman has been around for a while, I'm pretty sure she's not in the frame here. But carry on your hyperbolic speculations!

DawgLover · 26/09/2019 20:08

Its entirely possible the thread has been found by one of the bitchy women from school. The problem is that OP is in the frustrating position that her reputation being trashed and she cant really address that without feeding their drama and wrestling with the pigs so to speak.

My comment about HALF WISHING the DM picked it up is simply because of the unfair effect dignified silence will have - it leaves so many of the people fed these vile rumours utterly none the wiser.

theoriginalmadambee · 26/09/2019 20:12

@SchadenfreudePersonified
You get a ⭐️ in my book, don't think anyone else reads other posts.
But we tried Wink.

Cecilandsnail · 26/09/2019 20:17

At the risk of being labelled a flying monkey (I'm not an alphabet, I swear! Most of my threads clearly put me in rural wales!), I actually think elspeth has called it, and isn't one of the psycho clan. She gave excellent advice in the first thread, firmly on it's side. K, L and M have discovered the thread, they are painted in a very dim light (for bloody good reason!) And criticised for damned good reasons throughout, by op and by a million of us who are outraged at their shit-house behaviour. Rather than own the fact that they've been spineless in the face of cowbag Caroline by going for drinks etc, and recognise that their behaviour has been shite, they've gone on the defensive and doubled down by joining the sniggering ranks of cunty-c. It's behaviour that, working in a high school, I've seen time and time again with teenagers. Op, you've handled things so well. The others are very weak willed and not the types you want as friends anyway, given they have proved themselves with followers and also that their loyalties and judgement are all over the place. Chin up. This will all be chip paper news soon enough and the whole lot of them can go hang.

Cecilandsnail · 26/09/2019 20:20

Sorry, grammar etc... you get the just

colourlessgreenidea · 26/09/2019 20:20

Erm, ElsbethFlashman has been around for a while, I'm pretty sure she's not in the frame here. But carry on your hyperbolic speculations!

Erm, we’ll have none of this ‘common sense’ malarkey round here! Not when there lynching to be done Angry

wheretonow123 · 26/09/2019 20:24

I think whether or not the group C,L,K,M&D have read he thread or not is a red herring. They have behaved appallingly and, any of us with a sense of dignity would not freeze someone out like this.

I think that JaysusWeppt is handling this as best as she can. The only difference I wold do is i would not let their actions affect me in ANY way at all. So if there are day that it suits you to arrive early and chat to other mums like you would normally have done then do so. If you are asked then give your side of the story.

The chances are that these women may not have as much support in the wider parent network. I think you are reducing your own interaction with parents by arrivinbg late and leaving immediately. Also you will see how brave they are when whoever of them turn up first arrive to see you and they wont have the backup of the ohers.

Just do what you normally do and completely ignore them.

ILikeyourHairyHands · 26/09/2019 20:27

Oops, sorry Colourless, I'm not sure what I was thinking!

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JaysusWept · 26/09/2019 20:36

Not sure if I have actually called them cunts? If I have, then they may have deserved it.
For what it’s worth, I know Elspeth isn’t involved. And I’m not sure they have seen these threads because I’m sure they (especially C) wouldn’t have been able to resist replying. Or confronting me.

Also, I don’t believe I have been too identifying. I didn’t crop a screenshot properly which is why a name was discovered but I didn’t think someone would take it upon themselves to search them out on FB.

DD’s dad spoke to L and K today at pick up and consensus from them was that there were issues due to me ‘messaging’ C’s husband. Nothing was mentioned about me badmouthing them on threads and I have a feeling that L would certainly have mentioned it.

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JaysusWept · 26/09/2019 20:40

The thread seems to have derailed slightly, and with the troll allegations etc etc, it seems to be going in a direction I’m not keen on.
I’d like to really thank everyone for the supportive responses and for the advice (some of which I actually took!) The grey rock and disengaging advice was spot on and I shall continue to do that.
Thanks again all 😊

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MarshaBradyo · 26/09/2019 20:40

I wondered whether they’d confront you op if they’d seen the threads. Not giggle and laugh. If they do try not to get involved in any conversation.

Did your ex set them straight?

MarshaBradyo · 26/09/2019 20:42

If you’ve gone now good luck you’ve done incredibly well.

MercyBookoo · 26/09/2019 20:43

How on earth could anyone find Caroline on FB? There must be 100s of Carolines in Glasgow 😮

7yo7yo · 26/09/2019 20:45

Good luck op.
Onwards and upwards Flowers