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Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

999 replies

JaysusWept · 21/09/2019 21:59

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

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yesiamgoingtoeatthat · 23/09/2019 17:44

Hey OP, I'm in Glasgow too so count me in for that meet-up. I think you have quite a lot of support! x

JustlikeTopsyTimMum · 23/09/2019 17:50

Oh my god I'm so fucking angry on your behalf Op! They are A class bitches!!! I've got your back op!! Fuck Cuntoline and her gaggle of pathetic weak evilness!!!

ToftyAC · 23/09/2019 17:50

OP, I’m so sorry this has happened to you. You come across as a lovely person. I also have a C (who is a lying, deceitful, batshitcrazy cunt). It has caused our household no end of upset to the point where we now have police involvement. I hate to think of anyone else having to deal with their own psycho bitch from hell. Chin up duck and fuck ‘em all the fuck off back to the pit of insanity from whence they all came. So long as your DD is ok, flip them all the two fingers of dignified silence. x

ktp100 · 23/09/2019 18:00

Just a thought, but do you think maybe they've gotten wind of these threads? K really hasn't gone down well with Mumsnet & it msy explain the whatsap situation.

I hope so, to be honest. They deserve to know we all think they're MASSIVE FECKIN TWUNTS!!!!

Darkbendis · 23/09/2019 18:07

De-lurking here, another one from Glasgow. I followed the 3 threads so far, and yeah, these people are definitely not your friends, have not behaved like friends for the last few days and I would never trust any of them again. Best advice so far: ignore them completely, the whole lot of them.Very polite and dignified but very busy to stop and talk to them. This is what I would do - ignore them and not feed the drama llamas!

RainbowAlicorn · 23/09/2019 18:11

I have only just caught up on your threads. I am so sorry they have done this to you OP. I hate all this school yard bullshit. They all really need to grow up. Part of me thinks you need to defend yourself, but with how batshit she is and how much she loves drama I think it would feed into her hands if you did. The best revenge would be to carry on as normal and just ignore them. It will really piss her off if you don't feed her drama.

poll333 · 23/09/2019 18:12

Dear Jaysuswept

woolie34 · 23/09/2019 18:15

This is crazy. C sounds fucking psychotic. And the others are just spineless arsewipes. Sorry you have to deal with all this. Anyone who can do this, especially at the expense of any kids involved and their feelings, is an incredibly nasty person. This is why I don't bother with close friendships like that, I know what it's like to be hurt by a close friend who you trusted. I hope you can move away from all this soon and find some friends that you deserve, not this bunch of cunts. I'm so angry on your behalf just reading you threads!

Redred2429 · 23/09/2019 18:15

Op they are total idiots I'm in Glasgow and had a very situation in work I was so shocked that someone could lie like that

readitandwept · 23/09/2019 18:15

Did OP ever actually confirm that C stood for Caroline?

PegasusReturns · 23/09/2019 18:16

The poster who suggested you give the link to these three threads to gossip lady at school has it right.

You have nothing to lose - everyone will read these threads. Best opportunity for your dude to be articulated clearly and concisely.

poll333 · 23/09/2019 18:19

Dear JaysusWept,

I have just read through this whole thread and am thoroughly disappointed and sad that this has happened to you.

The effing school run is a nightmare. I hope you get to take some time away from these non-friends and make some real friends.

I think there's a lot here on Mumsnet who would come with you to school pick ups if we could and stand shoulder to shoulder with you.

Just know that you are a fabulous person and a great mum and you did not deserve this shit.

Now I need some time to get over this and it didn't even happen to me.

❤️❤️❤️❤️

MrsBadcrumble123 · 23/09/2019 18:21

Personally I would post the three links to these threads on a massive WhatsApp group of other mums.... stand back and watch - the cunts deserve it!!

supadupapupascupa · 23/09/2019 18:21

Could it be that they have discovered these threads? And are not best pleased? I do hope so :-)

INeedAFlerken · 23/09/2019 18:22

I can't believe they've now all sided with they lying Cunt, without even having the balls to tell you why.

Awful.

I'm so sorry.

notbloodylikely · 23/09/2019 18:29

I was lurking and no advice to offer that hadn't been suggested but I'm just adding my voice to the 'what a bunch of cunts' messages. I too would be burning up with the injustice and it's really eye-opening to know that 'people formerly known as friends' can behave like this.

Also, what @Coffeeandchocolate9 said But decent people who weren't all about the drama would have backed off from the crazy and not ostracized Jaysus.

I hope you get your Glasgow meet-up, my MIL is a Glaswegian and an absolute diamond.

Vinosaurus · 23/09/2019 18:32

Oh please please do the Glasgow meet up - the thought of OP being surrounded by strong supportive women is really making me smile.

hazandduck · 23/09/2019 18:34

@readitandwept yes there was a screenshotted message that had Caroline at the top. I far prefer Cuntoline and expect it to be all over the baby name boards in the coming months 😄

MoreCuddlesForMummy · 23/09/2019 18:36

I’ve been following since the first thread but not commented. You are wonderful for keeping it together and staying dignified. A friend of mine (also from Glasgow) did similar a few years ago and I often remind her of how amazing I think that was.

Unfortunately I’m East of Ed, but my SIL is in Easterhouse and she’s tough as nails. Let me know if you want her details 😂

Stay strong 💐

combatbarbie · 23/09/2019 18:38

Well if they have discovered these threads, they don't seem so big now as there is no noise.... Well they won't stand up to the whole of mumsnet will they..... They prefer the typical bullying tactic of picking on the weaker one....

wondertime · 23/09/2019 18:39

I agree classic NPD behaviour. It’s a very, very hard thing to be on the receiving end of. Something I’m all too familiar with. Please know this is not you, they have sided with her because of her ability to calculate and manipulate to an extend that is incomprehensible to most people. I completely agree with the recent poster who after her own similar experience now has the knowledge and wisdom to spot this behaviour a mile off. It’s a cruel and very painful thing to be on the receiving end of and this C ladies ‘charm’ and tactical behaviour has them all fooled... the idiots, I have no sympathy for them because their enjoyment of the drama has shown a side of them that that frankly they should be ashamed of.

You will get through this, and with wisdom that they are unlikely to ever receive. It will be one of them next if they ever slight C in any way. What a lack of emotional intelligence and kindness they have to so desperately need to still be in her group.

There is a gift buried in this and one day your knowledge will equip your little girl to share the wisdom you gain from this awful experience.

I’m so sorry what you are going through. The injustice can be very difficult to bare. You have deserved none of this, there is nothing reasonable in NPD attack. One attack I experienced was from a seemingly charming, funny & generous person... how very wrong I was their darkness revealed under their mask was horrifying. C will be suffering I’m sure of that, her mask may be on at times but underneath her soul will be deeply pained.

Be aware of her husband too- he may well have his own issues or be totally deceived by her behaviour after years and years of NPD abuse.

We are all behind you 🌼

combatbarbie · 23/09/2019 18:44

Please let's not give her the NPD label, she will be using that next to get playground sympathy, especially with MH being such a hot topic just now. She'll be getting treatment and medicated before the weeks out.

Some people and just jealous, vindictive, spiteful cunts...... And she is one of them....

Hippee · 23/09/2019 18:54

We should all find C on Facebook and message her a la Spartacus

"No, I'm having an affair with your husband."

KitschBitch · 23/09/2019 18:57

Yes! What Hippee saidGrin

Lulualla · 23/09/2019 18:58

We need a schill. We need someone to become friends with C and the whole group. Get right in there. And then, once they trust her, pull the trigger and do to C what she did to OP. Get her kicked out the group!

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