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Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

999 replies

JaysusWept · 21/09/2019 21:59

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

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gingerginger2 · 23/09/2019 13:48

surely to find C on Facebook you'd have to look at the profile of every caroline in her 30's in glasgow to find that quote? Why
would you do that?

SirVixofVixHall · 23/09/2019 13:49

Ok have spoken to DH about this, he says-
This is a straightforward Game of Thrones power battle , the only thing you can do is call her out on it in front of all the others and they will have to nail their colours to a mast. You may well lose, but you are losing already so nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Whatever pans out, they will have a grudging respect for you afterwards, as you will show yourself as someone not to be messed with.

SirVixofVixHall · 23/09/2019 13:51

There must be hundreds of women called Caroline in Glasgow. It is hardly an uncommon name.

Wonderland18 · 23/09/2019 13:52

@gingerginger2 that’s what I mean, I searched Caroline and she was 2nd down. I was curious about mutual friends. Which there are, which is why I thought I’d let op know.

Weathermonger · 23/09/2019 13:56

I sincerely hope OP updates in the near future to say she and her daughter have made new and worthy friends, and that this debacle is just a dim and distant memory.

MyShinyWhiteTeeth · 23/09/2019 13:56

This coven of witches are not your friends. Their real characters are revealed at long last. I think nastiness like this is more likely to come through in their children's words and actions too so best avoided completely.

loveyoutothemoon · 23/09/2019 13:56

Haha I've looked and can't find her, there aren't that many actually!

I think they've wanted you out of the friendship group for longer than OP realises actually. I think the bitches feel threatened as you're single OP and good looking (although you don't admit it!).

loveyoutothemoon · 23/09/2019 13:58

@Wonderland18 what do you mean curious about mutual friends?

DarlingEm · 23/09/2019 14:00

Awful, awful women. Can only think of two explanations. Either C is an out and out sociopath / narcissist, or her husband has been inappropriately messaging another woman. C has seen enough to make her suspicious, and when caught out he has deleted the messages and lied saying they were from you and you have been coming on to him.

AryaStarkWolf · 23/09/2019 14:01

Wonderland do you know some of these people in r/l?

hazandduck · 23/09/2019 14:03

Have followed all 3 threads in utter disbelief really. Look they clearly think you’re guilty so can’t you just revenge shag one of their husbands, give them something to really bitch about? 😂 Sorry, joking!! That’s terrible advice but Christ on a bike I’m livid for you.

K removing you is just poking for a reaction. It is probably frustrating the drama llamas that you haven’t reacted.

tvdinnertracks · 23/09/2019 14:03

But they absolutely must know about these threads by now. And good. Because Mumsnet pretty much unanimously thinks they're snide, pathetic losers.

I'm sure they're spinning a different tale in their own little circle to try and mock and make light of it but alas, we're not all shallow dimwits like they are.

Wonderland18 · 23/09/2019 14:03

@loveyoutothemoon I was curious to see if any my small friend list had her as a friend, she popped up in a search easy cause there are friends in common 🤷🏻‍♀️

tvdinnertracks · 23/09/2019 14:04

And Caroline has clearly been slagging you off to her husband before it all kicked off. Yet he's still polite and nice to you. Must be bugging the SHIT out of her.

SmellMySmellbow · 23/09/2019 14:05

Wonderland she only came up at the top because you have mutual friends. Your list won't be ordered the same as mine. (Maybe better let your mutual friends know!)

loveyoutothemoon · 23/09/2019 14:06

It's a small world then!

loobyloo1234 · 23/09/2019 14:06

@Wonderland18

No sinister reason, just really thought the op should be considering getting the threads taken down just incase.

What a weird thing to suggest? OP already said she doesnt care if the Daily Mail gets hold of the story now. Are you one of the people involved? And want it removed because how badly you're coming across?

MouthyHarpy · 23/09/2019 14:09

K removed me from the WA group yesterday

Oh, Jaysus I'm so sorry - although you sort-of knew what they were all like, this must hurt horribly.

You have done NOTHING wrong.Your "friends" have shown who they really are. If I were you, I'd have an extremely full social diary, and a bright and breezy and completely I-don't-care-about-you-any-more manner at the school gate. You are so busy and there are far more interesting things to do than gossiping with your so-called friends.

5LeafClover · 23/09/2019 14:11

They are bullies and they should be ashamed of themselves.

💐 for you

LexMitior · 23/09/2019 14:13

I wouldn’t take it down. People who like doing this sort of thing are desperate to be perceived as good people and paint others as horrible husband shaggers need more scrutiny, not less.

If she did get this kind of scrutiny, expect her to say it was all a mistake and make some ridiculous statement like she’s sorry you got offended. If you get that from any of them actually run a mile! Self serving people like this don’t change and if you accept any sort of “mockpology” she will do it again, considering you to be weak.

Foodtheif · 23/09/2019 14:19

Nobody is going to be able to find her on Facebook only knowing that her name is Caroline and she lives in Glasgow! The initials of her friends won’t help. Most people will have friends with the initials K L M and D.

FairyJuice · 23/09/2019 14:37

K removing you is just poking for a reaction. It is probably frustrating the drama llamas that you haven’t reacted.

This!! Absolutely no other reason for her to do this except to try and bait you into reacting. And of course, to score brownie points with Cuntoline.

I'm actually surprised the DM haven't picked this up, given that for once, they have ops fill permission

hazandduck · 23/09/2019 14:44

Ooh I love Cuntoline @FairyJuice, ingenious!

Lillyringlet · 23/09/2019 14:50

Oh op at least th feet showed r door true colours now rather than weeks off this so hopefully you can move on and up from this.

They are wankers and by taking th free high ground and grey rocking the shit out of them,they will just get annoyed.

If I were closer I'd come say hi as you sound awesome.

They sound awful

Sugartits87 · 23/09/2019 15:18

Cuntoline made me howl.

As pp said, they are desperate for drama. Begging for it. There was no other reason to remove you, they could have just carried on their bitch fest in the separate chat.

It will be killing them that you aren't kicking off more. You are handling this beautifully. Just don't be goaded into looking at their social media because it'll only make you feel worse.

Oh and if any of the shit clique are reading this, shame on you 🖕🏻

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