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Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

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JaysusWept · 21/09/2019 21:59

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

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ValentineFizz · 22/09/2019 22:31

Aw hen you are dealing with a prize roaster here, a right nasty cunt. I have no advice but keep your head held high, the truth will always out! I'm also only a train away, so if you need haunners then gies a shout Flowers

MrGsFancyNewVagina · 22/09/2019 22:31

I think you should say nothing, OP. The nasty prick will want you to respond so she can keep the drama going. She made a mistake with the text, but now that her cronies are feeding off the drama, she’s enjoying the attention. She’ll eventually overplay her hand.

If anyone mentions it to you, just respond that you don’t want to get dragged into whatever weird thing that’s going one between her and her husband and you hope she gets the help she needs to deal with her paranoia. If you act as if you’re sympathetic towards her because she’s ‘ill’ rather that a nasty lying fucker, I think people will be more likely to believe you.

baubled · 22/09/2019 22:40

I would knock on the door when you know both C and her husband are there and ask them what the fuck is going on, maybe Facebook live stream for proof 🤷🏻‍♀️

2girlsandagap · 22/09/2019 22:42

I’d be yer mate OP if I lived in Scotland. What a nightmare for you!!
I’d ask the crazy cow exactly what the messages said because as someone who found some, every fucking word ends up engraved on your brain for months after. See if her story changes, as it will.

NewMe2019 · 22/09/2019 22:59

I think the fact the coven haven't ditched C means they believe her I'm afraid.

MrsPerfect12 · 22/09/2019 23:05

Wishing you all the best for drop off. Hope you're feeling okay. Xx

PumpityPumpPump · 22/09/2019 23:07

Yes, definitely not on the class what's app group. 🤪

SchadenfreudePersonified · 22/09/2019 23:18

I think the fact the coven haven't ditched C means they believe her I'm afraid.

I think they know fine well she is lying through her teeth - but they'd rather have her in their tent pissong out, than outside it pissing in, She has shown that she is a dangerous enemy to make.

Besides - they are having so much fun! They are obviously the type of vindictive twats that get a kick out of all the drama, and enjoy the opportunity to bully people.

It will come round on them - one by one, unless they are very careful, they will incur the Wrath of C and and end up in Jaysus' position. They won't even have the initial comfort of thinking it's an accident . . .

CeCeDrake · 22/09/2019 23:22

I’ve just spent the guts of an hour reading this with my face like this Shock
What the nonder fuck! I REALLY feel for you and honestly feel pure frustration for you. The strangest situation EVER. I don’t even have advice, this sucks, C sucks and you don’t suck.
Although I can say that patience is a virtue in situations like this and just wait... this will pass over and if someone asks directly about it, tell the truth and then chat about the weather, the less bothered you appear the less attention it will receive!
C is for Cunt (adj.) lol

celebrityskin · 22/09/2019 23:44

I’d send a Daily Mail journalist to their door 😜

CallMeRachel · 22/09/2019 23:50

Go straight to the husband - take your ex with you. Be calm and act with concern for his wife Wink

Say she's been acting completely crazy and out of character and unfortunately it's getting to the point where she's blackened your name so badly that people have actually advised you to involve solicitors.

Then... hope the penny drops and that he gets her sorted.

I also really think you should send at least him the link to this thread.

What a bitch she is. People like her should not breed. I did see this coming though from the first thread.
Fake people always win the popularity contest. The three little piggies she has been controlling with her lies are brainless and pathetic.

Fight back but walk away regardless of the outcome. They're absolute horrors, imagine putting their cosy night in together all over fb knowing full well you were deliberately excluded. How stupid are they?!

Karma will serve them later.

justilou1 · 23/09/2019 00:42

Nope... go to husband with your ex and say you are considering legal action. (Dont let him know you can’t afford it....) Make sure he knows you are both furious that your name is mud at the school despite your innocence, and you expect a full public apology, and your daughter is being excluded unnecessarily and that is intolerable bullying and this needs to stop NOW!

Courts1988 · 23/09/2019 03:58

Sending positive vibes and virtual hugs from Australia. I actually threw a sick day to stay at home in bed to read this!

MyOtherProfile · 23/09/2019 05:41

I missed this I think, but OP cancelled the lunch yesterday did she?

justilou1 · 23/09/2019 05:55

Yes she did.... can’t say I blame her, really.

LellyMcKelly · 23/09/2019 06:44

Don’t do anything, don’t get solicitors letters, or have confrontations, or put passive aggressive statements on Facebook, or get the ex involved. Any heightening of the drama is exactly what they want, and gives them their justification for ostracising you. Be like a swan - you might be peddling frantically underneath, but on top be gliding and smooth. Be bright, cheery and brisk. If anyone does ask, just say ‘C drunkenly thought I was having an affair with her husband because she saw some dodgy messages from someone else with a similar name on his phone. Needless to say, of course I wasn’t messaging him. I barely know him. The whole thing has been completely blown out of proportion, and I can’t be arsed with all the drama, so I’m stepping back”. Make them look like they’re embroiled in a school kid spat and you’re the only grown up in the room.

pictish · 23/09/2019 07:01

I wouldn’t tell people someone with a similar name was messaging him. 1, you don’t know that...and 2, it sounds far-fetched. I wouldn’t say she was drunk either.

I’d tell the truth. “C has fabricated a story about me sending her husband messages to justify a bitchy text about me that she accidentally sent TO me. It’s a lie, I’ve never messaged him. I don’t even have him on social media. It’s been horrible so I’m stepping back.”

GlamGiraffe · 23/09/2019 07:02

We need a holly and Phil slot about lies and bevouviour in friendship groups and how things spiral out of control. C will have the opportunity to comment but of course wont. Shall we forward this link @JaysusWept ? that way you wont have done it, one of your of your other new friends will!!

forumdonkey · 23/09/2019 07:31

Keep in mind, although this feels massive to you, people are just getting on with their lives and not giving it a second thought. They are interested in the moment but then their own lives take over.

Take some comfort in knowing that C has been caught out lying and she knows that you know it and her friends do too.

Pity her and her jealousy of you, hold your head high, remain as dignified as you have been. It will pass. You probably went through worse with your xdh and you got through that.

WellThisIsShit · 23/09/2019 08:55

I like this sentiment: ‘Make them look like they’re embroiled in a school kid spat and you’re the only grown up in the room’

Robin2323 · 23/09/2019 09:50

*@forumdonkey *
Keep in mind, although this feels massive to you, people are just getting on with their lives and not giving it a second thought. They are interested in the moment but then their own lives take over.

This is about right.
Today's news.
Tomorrow's chip paper.
People get bore quickly.

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JaysusWept · 23/09/2019 09:57

Morning all.
I put my phone away last night as had to sit on my hands.
K removed me from the WA group yesterday.
If that's not a huge 'fuck you' then I don't know what is.
There was no need to remove me - it's clear they weren't using it and were using the new WA group with C and L in it. So, by removing me, they wanted me to know that this had been done. The ultimate fuck you really.
Absolute bunch of pricks.

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sheshootssheimplores · 23/09/2019 10:01

Fuck them. Honestly fuck them all. I swear karma has never let me down. This will bite their arse in the end, it just needs time. She’ll do something and suddenly down the line they’ll start chatting away, or an invite will appear all nonchalantly.

Justcantforget · 23/09/2019 10:03

I'm so sorry, sending you Flowers been following your threads and it's absolutely shocking the way your 'friends' have been towards you, must be so hard but you need to forget about these people as they aren't real friends and one day C will do something similar to one of these then maybe the others will realise what a twat she is!

ronswansonstache · 23/09/2019 10:05

What a bunch of bitches. I'm so sorry OP. Thanks

I suspect that they are trying to provoke a reaction from you (along with the photos from Friday night).

What boring, sad people.