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Third (and final) thread - C nonsense

999 replies

JaysusWept · 21/09/2019 21:59

Unbelievable that this is the 3rd thread and still nothing has been resolved.
I wasn’t going to start this one but if anything good comes out of this shite it will be a Glasgow/Scotland MN meet up!

I know folk laugh at all the ‘DAILY MAIL MAY NOT USE THIS’ stuff, but here’s me giving the scummy DM permission to use this 👋

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squeakybike · 23/09/2019 10:06

What the fuck. I'd start posting shit online now defending yourself. This is ridiculous.

squeakybike · 23/09/2019 10:06

Also delete everyone from your social media, fuck them

MrGsFancyNewVagina · 23/09/2019 10:06

I’m sorry OP. If any of the hits mention it to you, just let on you don’t use it now, since you’ve nothing to say to them, so you hadn’t noticed. Or just say “thank you, that’s great. I was debating leaving the group but I thought that would be childish, but you’ve made it a lot easier for me.” Then turn your back and walk of as if you don’t have a care in the world. Fake it until you make it. Take satisfaction in the knowledge that it won’t be long until the group implodes. She’s enjoying the drama, so when it no longer effects you, she’ll turn on one of the others. She’s turning into a drama junkie now, so she’s going to need her fix.

Mrsmummy90 · 23/09/2019 10:06

Omfg they're all assholes! Fuck them!!!

OhLookHeKickedTheBall · 23/09/2019 10:08

That's not a surprise. By not feeding the drama, you are no longer of any use to them. They'll all turn on each other eventually. K, who accused C of being a drama queen, is clearly the biggest hypocrite of the lot.

Keep strong OP. It's not easy at any age to deal with this, but adult children are not worth the effort.

Figgygal · 23/09/2019 10:11

Sorry jaysus they're bitches
Don't know what you can do really but maintain you've done nothing wrong

Actually I might message Them all and just say thanks a lot ladies just a reminder that all this started because C and L have clearly been bitching about you you called C out on a text she sent in error and suddenly without any evidence or wrong doing on your part your out with no explanation or proof from C

MarshaBradyo · 23/09/2019 10:12

Ah that will be shit but honestly it’s better. Delete them all clear your headspace.

whitebowls · 23/09/2019 10:15

OP, I hope you've got some support and a hand to hold through all this. Thanks

songsmith · 23/09/2019 10:15

I’ve just read all 3 of these and am utterly livid on your behalf! You are FAR too good for any of these people, what complete and utter arseholes they all are! Their loss OP Flowers

autumndreaming · 23/09/2019 10:16

They're all stupid, do they really think they're safe from her bullshit and lies?

It will all happen again at some point OP and they will realise what she's like.

neverornow · 23/09/2019 10:18

I am actually seething for you OP. This is all bringing back bad memories from a time when I was in your shoes however luckily for me I didn't also have an innocent DD involved.

It's so unfair. And what they're doing is so so wrong and so dangerous. My experience left me in a really bad way, needing counseling. I was younger and not as wise as you but still, it's a horrible situation to be in. Beyond frustrating. I am so upset for you.

I thought PP's suggestions of legal action were a bit extreme but if this continues I think you should look into it. Who knows how far C will go.

For now...Trust in Karma! I promise you. It might take a while but C (and her sheep) will get their comeuppance.

If I lived in Glasgow I'd honestly come meet you for the school pick up for some support. I hope you're not dreading it.

Absolute fucking childish bitches. They make me sick. You are worth 50 of them. You've handled it all like an absolute champ.

We're all behind you OP Thanksstay strong x

SnowWhitesRestingBitchFace · 23/09/2019 10:19

I'm so sorry OP, I found your threads this morning and am absolutely gobsmacked at the way you're being treated.

BatmanLovesTheCircus · 23/09/2019 10:20

What a bunch of nasty cunts. Don’t speak to them on the school run at all, they aren’t worthy of your time or attention.

K sounds like as much of a bitch as C

Marlena1 · 23/09/2019 10:20

OP I'm.so sorry. The others are worse than her. They know what she is like and have chosen to stick together for fear they will be next. It's a superficial friendship and they all know it.

lapalmagem · 23/09/2019 10:21

Delurking to post. I've followed all of your threads and cannot believe the way you have been treated - it's absolutely shocking. Sending Flowers (I hope, this is my first MN comment!!) and am very much up for a Glasgow/Scotland meet up should it happen!!

AryaStarkWolf · 23/09/2019 10:21

What a bunch of absolute cunts.

wheresthehope · 23/09/2019 10:25

What a pathetic group of bitches!
You can do better OP. Delete them and find a new bunch of friends

Milicentbystander72 · 23/09/2019 10:26

The fuckers. Fuck them up the wrongun.

AryaStarkWolf · 23/09/2019 10:34

Just saw this on FB and it reminded me of you OP

Third (and final) thread - C nonsense
Morgan12 · 23/09/2019 10:36

Holy fuck. They are all vile vile VILE women.

combatbarbie · 23/09/2019 10:36

Op this has gone past ridiculous, are you on school run today.... I hope her bloody husband is there, C has caused this shit storm because of him, that's where I would be directing my anger now!!

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 23/09/2019 10:36

It's not about 'C' anymore. It's mostly about K, and this has been very much apparent as far back as the first thread. Not only is this toxic, weak, easily-led woman thriving on your heartache @JaysusWept, she actively seems to be thinking of what things she can do to hurt you next. Since this whole debacle started, at least C has made no pretence of being anything other than what she is.

K is worst of this bunch by far. She needs dropping entirely, and fast, which will clip her wings nicely and cut off her oxygen supply of entertainment at your expense. The good news is that dropping you from WA was her last card. So now, unless you directly engage with her she has nowhere else left to go. Block every last one of them on Facebook. In the playground, smile and wave cheerily from a distance, without going near them. And if any of them approaches you, K particularly, pointedly put your earphones on and get your phone out, say 'got some urgent messages to check, excuse me!' (smiling all the while) then physically remove yourself from their presence, burying your nose in your phone as you go.

It IS possible to make it all go away, despite short-term gossip which will be like yesterday's chip-paper in all of a few weeks. 9 times out of 10, the other parents won't care less. I also wouldn't mind betting they already have these people pegged as the 'playground clique', and the full extent of their engagement is to watch with wry amusement as it implodes, as cliques are wont to do.

You are so much better off out of this melee, OP. Dutch courage and Flowers for the school drop-off/pick-up today.

TheRobinIsBobbingAlong · 23/09/2019 10:40

Don't be nervous about doing future school runs OP. You've done NOTHING wrong in this whole sorry saga. Keep your head held high, ignore the lot of them, but keep a small smile plastered on your face if you can. Don't look at the floor or look upset if at all possible, because you don't want them to think they've succeeded in their campaign. I'm totally shocked that a group of adult women can act in this way, especially as just a few weeks ago you were all (supposedly) friends.

bakesalesally · 23/09/2019 10:42

Oh. My. God.

Fuck them.

Bunch of twats.

valleysareus · 23/09/2019 10:44

I would delete WhatsApp OP this is why I don't have it, all the silly groups and shite. If I really need to know anything school would let us know. This has to be the final kick in the teeth now by this so called friends. Hold your head up and be breezy as fuck when your doing pick ups. Do not engage in anything other than pleasantries.

If you see C don't even bother looking at the cunt. If the husband approaches you I hope you'll tell him a few home truths about his cunt of a wife!