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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Step Into Our Christmas Thread!

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Mouseface · 24/12/2018 21:59

Hello, I'm Mouse Smile

A HUGE welcome to the Bus!

This is the one and only Gerald. Over the years, we've travelled far and wide gathering some truly remarkable Babes along the way, all of whom have been (and remain to be) at different stages of their own personal journey to sobriety or controlled drinking, depending on what it is that they want to achieve.

We have those who drink daily, those who drink occasionally, and also those who have been sober for some time. The one thing that you won't find here, is any judgey knickers! Grin We're ALL here because at one point or another, we've hit our own "rock bottom" and then smashed the shit out of the FUCK IT button! (makes a note to order a new FUCK IT button)

This is without doubt one of the hardest times of the year for many of us, what with Christmas parties, alcohol on tap, supermarkets who have offers galore of various tipples stacked from floor to ceiling, and EVERY advert on TV shows you what an amazingly cool person you can be if you were drinking whatever brand of alcohol they're flogging! Even Christmas puddings and Brandy creams are tempting fate because as soon as you digest even a small amount of alcohol, it makes your body crave more, just like smoking, medication and recreational drugs................

Then there's the gifts that you're given! Champagne Truffles, Liquors, wines, spirits, you name it! So unless you've told people about your planned journey, people assume that buying gifts like that completely acceptable. So, some may feel obliged to consume such gifts and why not? It's Christmas after all. Then we have the New Year festivities..... parties, friends and family over to have drinks because you'll stop drinking after New Years' Day won't you?

It's so damn hard not to drink if that's what you've been doing all year anyway before you even reach this time of year!! How will you cope with your Great Aunt who will check for dust by running finger over ever surface, or Uncle knobhead who will be there in his cream suit, with that suspicious stain on it and his burgundy shirt asking for a Babycham! Also, let's not forget the in-laws/out-laws! We can sometimes put so much pressure on ourselves that we convince ourselves that we DESERVE that glass or seven of wine etc.

At the end of the day, if you want to drink, then you will. I appreciate that doesn't sound supportive but it's certainly true in my case. As I have said before, the most amazing thing about this Bus and those who travel along with it, is the fact that every single one on board has a story, a reason why they're here, and we all need support in one form or another. Yes, alcohol may be the one thing that we ALL have in common but it goes way deeper than that doesn't it? Life, love and laundry for a start! Grin

Even if you're not ready to stop or cut down on your drinking yet, that's fine! You're still welcome to hop aboard the marvellous Gerald. We're a very varied bunch of Babes but we welcome anyone in need of support, even if you're not ready to say everything that you want to yet, or you feel the need to name change, that's fine! Just know that we're here for YOU for as long as you need to be.

Mouse Smile xxx

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venusandmars · 04/06/2019 19:45

That looks amazing!

Just a note to the other babes, if you're looking for something to drink for a celebration, I would recommend Nosecco (alcohol-free sparkling wine)

It comes in a fizz shaped bottle, pops like a bottle of bubbly, and tastes rather good - not sweet, not chemically.

As someone who has never found an alcohol-free wine that I've been able to drink, this one is good. Don't know where mr and mrs mint got it from, but worth a shot if you've got any events on the horizon and you want to join in with the celebrations.

dementedma · 04/06/2019 20:30

Thank you cupcakes
It does out me a bit....

MintToBee · 04/06/2019 20:35

Got the Nocesso from Asda! £2.50 a bottle. It is rather nice.

venusandmars · 05/06/2019 18:29

So.. wedding excitement aside, how are we doing?

Who needs encouragement, who is flying high, who needs to back to the start and take it one day at a time?

It doesn't matter who you are, where you are... it just matters that you're bothered enough to read this....

What is the next step? What is YOUR next step?

LuxuryWoman2018 · 05/06/2019 20:45

Hey Venus,

It’s been so lovely reading the wedding news.
I’m back on the hard stuff, I’ve got a great big mug of...Ovaltine.

I’m strictly two drinks on those very rare occasions I go out these days, not quite sure how that happened if I’m honest. I’m happy about it though, booze and menopause plus a lot of personal stress is not a great combination.

Hope everyone else is okay.

BlueVixen · 06/06/2019 11:23

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Craftycorvid · 06/06/2019 17:53

Hi babes! My day went a bit pear shaped and it’s raining. I just feel like going home and getting a very large gin! DH has suggested going out instead to our local which does all the Seedlip range - some days he says the right thing! Grin

venusandmars · 06/06/2019 21:00

crafty that is a supportive and encouraging dh. However much you wanted the gin tonight, tomorrow you will be so glad about his suggestion, and feel proud of yourself, and him.

bluevixen hello. Were you place-marking, do you want to say something? Whatever, your interest is welcome. You can lurk or post, whatever feels right for you.

Heyelp · 06/06/2019 21:13

Hello bus riders! I am back on the bus after falling off and having to reset again. Got a bruise on my wrist this morning from banging it when drunk :-(. Need to stay on now for a while. How is everyone else doing. Love that your DH said that crafty :-)

Craftycorvid · 06/06/2019 22:25

Waves to Venus and Heyelp. Yes, the old boy is good for something other than warming my feet on in bed Grin. In the end we were too tired to stagger out for Seedlip and made do with a cup of tea.

bakingcupcakes · 06/06/2019 23:14

I'm no longer dry but I think I should be. I've taken to buying 4 cans for the weekends which isn't excessive as such but I've started smoking with the cans and I'm really not happy about that. I seem to be spending all my time waiting for the weekend so I can crack open a can and light a cig. I knew I was right to be frightened of restarting after so long dry.

But...I have had some fabulous times with just a couple of drinks. I took DS to stay with friends in half term and drank with them in the evenings. I'd forgotten how nice it is to drink with people (I tend to drink alone) and it's been nice to have a couple of drinks with my mum again.

I'm fearful that drinking will creep up without me noticing (like smoking has) and I feel like ultimately I'll have to be dry. It's just so hard.

That's a lovely supportive suggestion of DH Crafty

How's everyone else doing? Is anyone watching Years&Years on bbc? It's been an excellent series but no one I know is watching it.

Heyelp · 08/06/2019 00:33

Waving! Completed another dry evening. Hope everyone ok

venusandmars · 08/06/2019 21:58

mint are you still in this corner of the world?

The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Step Into Our Christmas Thread!
Pinkycloud · 09/06/2019 11:19

Hey everyone. I’m hoping this is the most recent Dry thread...?! I hope I can join in, day 1, again, after a few weeks of turmoil.

Craftycorvid · 09/06/2019 12:24

Hi Pinky

venusandmars · 09/06/2019 16:43

Hi pinky it's been a slower moving thread, but ignore the Christmas title and join in.

How is day 1 going? Have you got plans for a nice cup of tea or something clean and refreshing to drink this evening?

MintToBee · 10/06/2019 10:38

venusandmars
Back home last night via Arasaig and of course Glencoe. We had that awful lightning at Glencoe on Saturday that killed that poor woman just along the road at Kinlochleven.

The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Step Into Our Christmas Thread!
MintToBee · 10/06/2019 14:10

Waves Hello to Pinkycloud
How are you doing today?

It's a beautiful day and I'm sat in the sun craving a cold cider so I've got some AF Koppenberg and its satisfying that alcohol craving.

venusandmars · 13/06/2019 21:50

Wakey wakey Babes!!

I am preparing to embark upon the 'ration challenge'. One full week of eating the same food that a Syrian refugee is given in a camp in Jordan. Flour, rice, some beans, chickpeas and lentils and a small amount of protein.

Thanks to people who have sponsored me I can add 120g protein / meat and 170g vegetable, and some herbs and spices.

There is quite a lot of rice and flour, so it's not starvation, but it is so limited in variety. I think I normally eat 170g veg in one meal, now I have to make it last for 7 days!!

And of course there is no sugar, no chocolate, no crisps, no wine.

Babes, we have it good.

Heyelp · 14/06/2019 00:17

Evening all. Checking in. @venus that is quite a challenge. Good luck and let us know how it is going.

MintToBee · 14/06/2019 06:19

venusandmars That's quite a challenge! Good luck.

Craftycorvid · 15/06/2019 19:57

Wakes up from nice little snooze on the back seat.....

Good luck with the challenge venus

MintToBee · 16/06/2019 10:54

Hows everyone doing this morning?
I swear, spending Saturday night in A+E with the drunks makes me appreciate the work NHS staff do and also tightened my resolve never to drink again.

venusandmars · 16/06/2019 19:26

Hope the trip to A&E wasn't serious mint

I was at a barbecue yesterday, watching people knock back Pimms on an empty stomach. Some of them will be feeling rough today.

MintToBee · 16/06/2019 21:33

Mr Mint had to go in for emergency op . Infected bite from up in the Highlands. Had potential sepsis markers so I took him in. Just as well. In sickness and in health as they say! On the plus side Ill get a lovely piece of sporn every day until it heals 😂