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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Step Into Our Christmas Thread!

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Mouseface · 24/12/2018 21:59

Hello, I'm Mouse Smile

A HUGE welcome to the Bus!

This is the one and only Gerald. Over the years, we've travelled far and wide gathering some truly remarkable Babes along the way, all of whom have been (and remain to be) at different stages of their own personal journey to sobriety or controlled drinking, depending on what it is that they want to achieve.

We have those who drink daily, those who drink occasionally, and also those who have been sober for some time. The one thing that you won't find here, is any judgey knickers! Grin We're ALL here because at one point or another, we've hit our own "rock bottom" and then smashed the shit out of the FUCK IT button! (makes a note to order a new FUCK IT button)

This is without doubt one of the hardest times of the year for many of us, what with Christmas parties, alcohol on tap, supermarkets who have offers galore of various tipples stacked from floor to ceiling, and EVERY advert on TV shows you what an amazingly cool person you can be if you were drinking whatever brand of alcohol they're flogging! Even Christmas puddings and Brandy creams are tempting fate because as soon as you digest even a small amount of alcohol, it makes your body crave more, just like smoking, medication and recreational drugs................

Then there's the gifts that you're given! Champagne Truffles, Liquors, wines, spirits, you name it! So unless you've told people about your planned journey, people assume that buying gifts like that completely acceptable. So, some may feel obliged to consume such gifts and why not? It's Christmas after all. Then we have the New Year festivities..... parties, friends and family over to have drinks because you'll stop drinking after New Years' Day won't you?

It's so damn hard not to drink if that's what you've been doing all year anyway before you even reach this time of year!! How will you cope with your Great Aunt who will check for dust by running finger over ever surface, or Uncle knobhead who will be there in his cream suit, with that suspicious stain on it and his burgundy shirt asking for a Babycham! Also, let's not forget the in-laws/out-laws! We can sometimes put so much pressure on ourselves that we convince ourselves that we DESERVE that glass or seven of wine etc.

At the end of the day, if you want to drink, then you will. I appreciate that doesn't sound supportive but it's certainly true in my case. As I have said before, the most amazing thing about this Bus and those who travel along with it, is the fact that every single one on board has a story, a reason why they're here, and we all need support in one form or another. Yes, alcohol may be the one thing that we ALL have in common but it goes way deeper than that doesn't it? Life, love and laundry for a start! Grin

Even if you're not ready to stop or cut down on your drinking yet, that's fine! You're still welcome to hop aboard the marvellous Gerald. We're a very varied bunch of Babes but we welcome anyone in need of support, even if you're not ready to say everything that you want to yet, or you feel the need to name change, that's fine! Just know that we're here for YOU for as long as you need to be.

Mouse Smile xxx

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Clubbercised · 27/05/2019 08:21

Thanks fair and ma!

I do love a wedding! Though, for some reason "dusting off my triangle" sounds like a filthy euphemism to me... Grin. Just me? Says a lot Blush.

venusandmars · 27/05/2019 11:31

Clubb I have to say that ma is a filthy wee monkey and she knows very well how we react to her 'dusted triangle' Grin Grin

Your words about your Mum were moving and salutary - there but for the grace of... etc Well done for recognising some early impulses, and for taking steps to adjust your life. Your life will be so different.

Clubbercised · 27/05/2019 11:57

Ah thanks Venus.

Glad to hear I'm in good, (or should that be bad Wink?), company with the gutter brain Grin.

laurely · 27/05/2019 18:22

Just checking in . A friend of mine posted today on Facebook that she’s a year sober . Such an inspiration . So I’m using her inspiration and the strength I get from this thread to say , today I’m not going to drink .

dementedma · 27/05/2019 21:03

gutter brain and potty mouth. That's me!!
Now, what are we all wearing?

MintToBee · 28/05/2019 10:58

@dementedma
I've pmd you. I need some info before I can pick up the marriage schedule!

MintToBee · 30/05/2019 07:16

Omg! This weather! I am not panicking at all!! Please let the torrential rain stop for Sunday or ill be back on the gin Sad

venusandmars · 30/05/2019 12:19

Sunshine AND rain, all the best of Scottish weather!!

Clubbercised · 30/05/2019 13:24

bee, I am in the SE England and we had pouring rain yesterday, but actually very nice today! Hopefully the sunshine is coming your way Smile.

Anyway, I quite like rainy weddings! They make for very lovely photos with umbrellas.

All the best with it Flowers.

MintToBee · 30/05/2019 13:36

Torrential rain here in Ayrshire. On the road now. Should hit Glencoe around 4.00. Why do I keep thinking I've forgotten something!

venusandmars · 30/05/2019 14:40

Paperwork, dress, husband-to-be. Anything else we can improvise (and I always travel with Bluetooth speaker for music, handfasting ribbons, candle and matches, quaich, whisky.... Never know when someone might need an emergency wedding Grin And of course ma is bringing her recently polished triangle

Fairenuff · 30/05/2019 18:30

I just had to google handfasting ribbons and quaich. Am all excited for wedding details now. It's supposed to be good luck to marry in the rain Mint. I have oodles of confetti to throw so will have to sit on my hands until Sunday.

dementedma · 30/05/2019 20:02

I don't have any wellies!!! or anything to wear.....my triangle might well be on display at this rate.

Clubbercised · 30/05/2019 20:05

At least it's been well dusted ma.
Fancy wedding triangle Grin!

dementedma · 30/05/2019 20:07

venus what are the travel plans? What time are Thelma and Louise getting on the road?
Should we wear hats, do you think? or will my purple hair be enough?

Fairenuff · 30/05/2019 21:05

Well dusted? I expect it to be highly polished for such a prestigious occasion as a bus wedding.

I can just see it ^ma*, glinting in the sunshine Grin

All we need now is Ladame to have a rummage in her veg patch for a courgette or two to stick in Venus's never ending Mary Poppins bag.

Fairenuff · 30/05/2019 21:09

Do you have a soundtrack for the roadtrip ma Venus Mint? I feel like we need to make a playlist.

We're going to the chapel and we're gonna get ma-a-a-ried…

MintToBee · 31/05/2019 09:36

X marks the spot!

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pollyannaperspective · 31/05/2019 11:14

Lurker and past poster (different names) but just wanted to wish Mint and DH to be and Venus and Ma a very happy wedding celebration as I will be offline over this weekend. Venue looks stunning.

Clubbercised · 31/05/2019 14:20

Wow bee, that looks amazing! It's just like Brave! Love Scotland so much.

venusandmars · 31/05/2019 22:44

Mint if you are reading, then LOOK AWAY NOW (this post is about a present for your wedding)

To all other bus babes who have been part of mint's journey, or who want to share in our good wishes for her new adventure in life...

I have bought a very small gift for mint I don't want money (wasn't too expensive but don't tell mint that) however I would love to include your good wishes. So please, anything that you post here, or pm to me, between now and midnight on Saturday, I will include in a card for her, plus of course a general message of support and encouragement (and I might be able to add things up to 10 am on Sunday).

Mint has made a remarkable change in her life with 18 months of nondrinking, despite some pretty horrendous life events. She deserves every moment of happiness.

dementedma · 01/06/2019 08:44

Great idea. I will be there in real life as my non-bus babe persona...so DementedMa would like to say” Wishing you a wonderful life. Remember to keep your triangle polished and that green Opal Fruits are not for sharing.”

Slingsanderrors · 01/06/2019 14:38

venus please can you add best wishes from me, Mint was very kind to me when I first clambered onto the bus. I’m in the sidecar (with Barrie) at the moment.

I’m hoping there will be some pics of the first Bus wedding (but none of ma’s triangle if you don’t mind!

dementedma · 01/06/2019 15:48

Hmph. Nowt wrong with my triangle! venus I have Opal Fruits for the journey and am taking a piece.

MintToBee · 01/06/2019 18:10

And the gazebo is up!

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