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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Step Into Our Christmas Thread!

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Mouseface · 24/12/2018 21:59

Hello, I'm Mouse Smile

A HUGE welcome to the Bus!

This is the one and only Gerald. Over the years, we've travelled far and wide gathering some truly remarkable Babes along the way, all of whom have been (and remain to be) at different stages of their own personal journey to sobriety or controlled drinking, depending on what it is that they want to achieve.

We have those who drink daily, those who drink occasionally, and also those who have been sober for some time. The one thing that you won't find here, is any judgey knickers! Grin We're ALL here because at one point or another, we've hit our own "rock bottom" and then smashed the shit out of the FUCK IT button! (makes a note to order a new FUCK IT button)

This is without doubt one of the hardest times of the year for many of us, what with Christmas parties, alcohol on tap, supermarkets who have offers galore of various tipples stacked from floor to ceiling, and EVERY advert on TV shows you what an amazingly cool person you can be if you were drinking whatever brand of alcohol they're flogging! Even Christmas puddings and Brandy creams are tempting fate because as soon as you digest even a small amount of alcohol, it makes your body crave more, just like smoking, medication and recreational drugs................

Then there's the gifts that you're given! Champagne Truffles, Liquors, wines, spirits, you name it! So unless you've told people about your planned journey, people assume that buying gifts like that completely acceptable. So, some may feel obliged to consume such gifts and why not? It's Christmas after all. Then we have the New Year festivities..... parties, friends and family over to have drinks because you'll stop drinking after New Years' Day won't you?

It's so damn hard not to drink if that's what you've been doing all year anyway before you even reach this time of year!! How will you cope with your Great Aunt who will check for dust by running finger over ever surface, or Uncle knobhead who will be there in his cream suit, with that suspicious stain on it and his burgundy shirt asking for a Babycham! Also, let's not forget the in-laws/out-laws! We can sometimes put so much pressure on ourselves that we convince ourselves that we DESERVE that glass or seven of wine etc.

At the end of the day, if you want to drink, then you will. I appreciate that doesn't sound supportive but it's certainly true in my case. As I have said before, the most amazing thing about this Bus and those who travel along with it, is the fact that every single one on board has a story, a reason why they're here, and we all need support in one form or another. Yes, alcohol may be the one thing that we ALL have in common but it goes way deeper than that doesn't it? Life, love and laundry for a start! Grin

Even if you're not ready to stop or cut down on your drinking yet, that's fine! You're still welcome to hop aboard the marvellous Gerald. We're a very varied bunch of Babes but we welcome anyone in need of support, even if you're not ready to say everything that you want to yet, or you feel the need to name change, that's fine! Just know that we're here for YOU for as long as you need to be.

Mouse Smile xxx

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dementedma · 01/06/2019 21:12

Ooooh I do love a gazebo!!! SOOO excited. Hope all the Babes have their hats and hankies at the ready

venusandmars · 01/06/2019 21:28

Gazebo - definition: an erection in the garden

Grin Blush Grin seems like an appropriate definition for an outdoor wedding Grin

AnneBoleynsHead · 01/06/2019 21:37

Venus please could you include this - Mint Sending love for your special day and best wishes for a long happy marriage. Happiness is often found in the small things.

Thank you.

Craftycorvid · 01/06/2019 22:39

Only just spotted the message about greetings for Mint. Hope I’m in time! Mint have a wonderful wedding. Wishing you and your DH-to-be love, laughter and happiness.

dementedma · 02/06/2019 07:49

Today’s the day. The Bus wedding. Thelma and Louise will be on their way shortly to act as witnesses. Can’t believe I am up and dressed this early on a Sunday ......

LuxuryWoman2018 · 02/06/2019 07:56

Have a wonderful day! I missed all the excitement but I’ll be thinking of you and sending my very best wishes x

dementedma · 02/06/2019 07:59

Hey Lux good to see you! How’s things?

LuxuryWoman2018 · 02/06/2019 08:14

ma well, on the whole not bad, I’m barely touching a drop these days, might have a couple on the rare occasion I go out. How’s you? I can’t wait to hear how the day goes for you all!

Fairenuff · 02/06/2019 11:56

What an exciting day and what a journey this bus has been on. A real live wedding is a real live reminder that we are not just words on a screen, we are real people with all sorts going on, good and bad and we're here for each other to celebrate and also to comfort and support.

Wishing you all the very best Mint, not just today but the whole of your life with the person you love by your side to share all the bumps in the road with you.

I'm not crying, you're crying.

bakingcupcakes · 02/06/2019 13:47

I've come to throw confetti around the bus with Faire I've already posted on the other thread and that's reminded me I haven't posted on here in ages. I'm going to come and read back later but have a wonderful day all.

SweetLathyrus · 02/06/2019 16:29

Mint you deserve every happiness. May the Scottish sun shine on you, and if it doesn't, then may the rain be soft and refresh you all.

xxxx

MintToBee · 02/06/2019 17:06

Wonderful day with wonderful people. It was amazing to meet ma and venusThey are every bit of wonderful as I imagined.

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LuxuryWoman2018 · 02/06/2019 17:32

Aw, fabulous! Many congratulations, I shall raise my teacup to you 💕☕

dementedma · 02/06/2019 19:53

What a day! We had torrential rain, sun, showers, midges and a whole lot of fun! Great vows - well played Mr Mint -a stunning wedding dress and gorgeous bride, breathtaking scenery and some excellent driving and shocking navigation by venus. Best day I've had in ages. An absolute joy!

venusandmars · 02/06/2019 20:59

Three beautiful brave babes....

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venusandmars · 02/06/2019 21:00

We got lost on the way there, lost on the way back, in fact couldn't even find our way out of the campsite!

venusandmars · 02/06/2019 21:01

Cutting the cake (it was delicious)

The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Step Into Our Christmas Thread!
venusandmars · 02/06/2019 21:02

The happy couple in glorious scenery

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dementedma · 02/06/2019 21:41

Great pics. I cant get mine to upload!

Craftycorvid · 02/06/2019 22:18

What beautiful pictures! So glad the day went well. 🌺

Fairenuff · 02/06/2019 22:57

Mint that looks like the perfect wedding day. You all look beautiful and the setting is stunning x

MintToBee · 03/06/2019 06:45

Thank you everyone for your beautiful messages.. My journey on the bus with you beautiful bunch of brave women has been incredible. The inspiration and support you all give however small or insignificant you may think is amazing. It was a perfect wedding. (And I got all the green ones)! Mr Mint says you'll all do Grin and the book will be well used from today.

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bakingcupcakes · 03/06/2019 14:47

The pics have made me feel all warm inside! I'm glad it was a good day. The scenery looks amazing. Ma I love the colour of your hair!

Heyelp · 04/06/2019 01:53

Love this x beautiful

MintToBee · 04/06/2019 18:29

Suns out. Having a fabulous time and still have loads of cake left!

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