have no one to tell and im feeling very bad also newley wed last week,and need some advice

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well first i wanna say im very ashamed and angry with myself,my husband is from dominica i met him over a year ago in england but his visa run out feb so he went home,we was going to get married but at a later date but what with his visa running out i flew over there and married him a lot sooner then we planed. i married him on the 24 april and came home having to leave him in dominica till a later date hopefully only 2 weeks till he comes home.well the bad bit is and i feel very upset about it i got very very drunk on friday and a friend of mine that i have know for over five years came to watch the wed video with a glass of wine,well i ended up haveing sex with him and now i feel so so bad i cant tell my husband coz it will mess everything up but it was a very big mistake and i cant belive it happened i just cant get what i did so wrong off my head and i love my husband very much i just need a chat as im alone and have noone else to talk too please help??

I will stop letting my friends come on here in future, because sadly, they do talk the truth.

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its the phrasing UCM thats all. Bit nasty calling someone a whore whatever they are posting about (unless the thread is called i am a whore etc!)

TBH..don;t think vvvvvv is going to come back to this as she has not received the unequivocal support she was so clearly expecting

UCM, was it really your friend or was it more like Rod Hull saying, "no, no, emu, don't do that"?

YOU SILLY GAL AGM WHAT EVER YOUR NAME IS PEOPLE CAN SAY WHAT EVER THEY LIKE I KNOW MY HUSBAND AND THATS THE END OF THIS SILLY TALK SO BYE BYE ALL

yes, i am MumOfMonsters but changed for a discworld thread and like it in this frock lol! will change back soon!

does anyone else think this is getting a bit out of hand?

Ah yes, but does your husband know you??!!

fab ! i like it , squid!

lol at AGM

YOU SILLY GAL AGM WHAT EVER YOUR NAME IS PEOPLE CAN SAY WHAT EVER THEY LIKE I KNOW MY HUSBAND AND THATS THE END OF THIS SILLY TALK SO BYE BYE ALL

I think you have to give 21 days notice of an AGM.

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THIS IS ALL GETTING OUT OF HAND SO IM GONNA LEAVE NOW AND LET YOU ALL GET ON WITH IT HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA MY HUSBAND ONLY WANTS ME FOR A PASSPORT YOUR RIGHT LOL SO BYE BYE ALL AND ENJOY THE REST OF YOUR NITE HAD FUN ON ME LOL I WOLUD HAVING KNOW WHAT I DID AND MARRYING A MAN JUST TO GET HIM A PASSPORT LOL

and they appear to be once a year whereas UCM posts far more frequently than that

AGM, is that you?

We could have an EGM, you can have those at the drop of a hat!

you have to ask yourself why you married him, if you are going to sleep with someone else a week in to the marriage.

regardless of his motivation in marrying you,did you marry for love, or some other reason?

lol beansprout!!!

FOR LOVE WHAT ELSE OH NO I FORGOT SO I COULD GET HI A PASSPORT

didn't you already say bye love?

so why sleep with someone else, or am i missing something? especially when you are so desperat for a baby with this man.

One of my friends, specially the one sitting next to me, come from Dominica, and obviously has family there. Most people there of about the age of 18-35 are looking for women who will marry them to get them a passport to Europe. Yipeeee!!!!!!!!!!

if you are so desperate for a baby that you posted am i pg for a few months in a row, why sleep with someone else? then, why when watching a video of the wedding to the man you apparently love so much you want a child with him would you sleep with someone else? why does it matter how old you are? Marriage is still marriage at 22.

and the question that you haven't answered (unless imissed it) was did you use precautions?