have no one to tell and im feeling very bad also newley wed last week,and need some advice

[vvvvvvv]

well first i wanna say im very ashamed and angry with myself,my husband is from dominica i met him over a year ago in england but his visa run out feb so he went home,we was going to get married but at a later date but what with his visa running out i flew over there and married him a lot sooner then we planed. i married him on the 24 april and came home having to leave him in dominica till a later date hopefully only 2 weeks till he comes home.well the bad bit is and i feel very upset about it i got very very drunk on friday and a friend of mine that i have know for over five years came to watch the wed video with a glass of wine,well i ended up haveing sex with him and now i feel so so bad i cant tell my husband coz it will mess everything up but it was a very big mistake and i cant belive it happened i just cant get what i did so wrong off my head and i love my husband very much i just need a chat as im alone and have noone else to talk too please help??

Charming.

is that aimed at me vvvvvvv?

Less likey to get support from ppl now

you are TTC, and sleeping with someone else..sorry vvvvvv, i am running out of sympathy

i got married on my 23rd birthday ,and was in no doubt that DH was the man for me

if all it takes for you to sleep with someone else, a week after your wedding, is a glass of wine, then you need to take a long hard look at yourself

on your other thread, i have advised you to see your GP to get referred for some tests re your inability to conceive

i know think you need to decide if you are even ready for the commitment of marriage and more children , before you even look at the TTC problem

and yes, i am being judgemental, because if i thought my spouse loved me so much, they slept with someone else a week after the wedding, i;f be fecking furious.......

your friend is a shit to have sex with you, when you have just got married too....it takes two to tango, and he is just as much to blame as you....

you need to decide what your priorities are

well done for using a condom

you can't have been that drunk if you remembered to use one

dont think there is a need for comments like that, it appears if somebody says something you dont agree with you attack them, if you dont want to hear everyones opinions dont post on an internet forum !!!

And do learn to spell, dearie.

just so you know (am not having a dig at you here) when you type in caps lock on an internet forum, its seen as shouting

what do you actually want from Mumsnet?
Tbh if you are looking for approval forget it. A quick search in this section would bring up several threads with similar issues.
If you want your marriage and your husband then the answer is simple.
Don't sleep with ANYONE!
Buy a chastity belt fgs!

have reported that disgusting personal attack

lulu, i did too. especially as it appears to be aimed at me.

Is this for real?

I did too.

now, you all know that i am a kind hearted soul...but i remember when i first joined mumsnet , last september, answering lots and lots of questions about TTC from this OP....and she kept posting the same questions, bumping, shouting, and really demanding a lot of attention

and then she disappeared

and now she is back

with a vengeance

and also TTC......

so this kind hearted soul is feeling a wee bit cynical and pissed off, that this OP, who has had loads of supportive posts in the past, is being so nasty and aggressive , when people are disagreeing with her ..

lula I also remember all the threads/post last year ( I was on ttc,pregnancy,childbirtH and antenatel threads alot last year DD2 rrived in Jan )and there were several started on same topic minute apart etc and you were helpul and giving advice etc so am in agreement with you.

Have also reported that post

Message withdrawn

Gosh there are some real charmers on this thread. Perhaps we should just leave VVVVVV & UCM's friend to it?

Move away people, nothing to see here...

oh it just stinks of Trollope this does.....................i did warn you i have had wine tonight and will offend if necessary. Am sorry vvvvvvv but your language is totally out of order. If you cant take the comments dont post. Didnt think you could get any lower than shaggin someone just after getting married but obviously you top hat it with calling people all the cunts under the son............hmm you are nice

Wot is this? C*ntsnet?

a quick search in all topics will show the frequency of postings about the same things

thank you MNHQ for deleting that

no pun intended with son by the way just my baaaad spelling

I agree, Harman!

Lol beansprout

lol beansprout

Rofl, Beansprout, but one of my friends really felt the need to post. In fact, she was really angry TBH.

Sorry if that offended anyone, but as she comes from Dominica, I felt she should have a say, no matter how much she wanted to write!!!!!