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Cometh the Hour Cometh the Lollipop!

183 replies

lollipop7 · 14/01/2018 21:06

Oh my word......
Thread number three.

It is a ludicrous but somehow apt title.

Once again Thank You for keeping the faith. You won’t ever know how much you’ve all come to mean to me. If I write a book it will be dedicated to
My lollipop babies
My mum
You lot ❤️

Not much to report tonight but as “Battling On” hit 980 I have created thread three to chart the highs and many many lows so far.

Monday could bring good or very bad news. I’m fortifying myself with a rhubarb & ginger gin with clementine tonic.

So onwards I go. As I must.

OP posts:
Offred · 03/02/2018 21:26

It is very clear and definitely not rambly.

It is also incredibly understandable.

I’m very sorry, it really is hugely shit but please don’t beat yourself up for feeling really normal feelings. Flowers

AbbieLexie · 03/02/2018 21:40

It is hard @lollipop7. I feel you're grieving. We're all behind you supporting you, walking with you. Flowers & a huge hug

Idontmeanto · 03/02/2018 21:59

Of course you wanted it to be better lovely! You are allowed to be sad xx

Idontmeanto · 06/02/2018 19:21

How are things? Still thinking of you!

AvoidingDM · 07/02/2018 12:06

Lollipop just catching up. Your entitled to be upset. The abuse isn't what you signed up to when you got together with him.

CatsCatsCats11 · 08/02/2018 21:15

Lollipop I'm just catching up I'm so sorry you are still having to battle all this Thanks

Ellie56 · 09/02/2018 00:58

How's it going Lollipop?

Slingsanderrors · 12/02/2018 12:59

Thinking of you @lollipop7

Lorddenning1 · 14/02/2018 13:17

Are you ok @lollipop7

JaneEyre70 · 14/02/2018 20:46

Hope everything is going OK Lollipop7. There is always a friendly ear here for you.

Doublemint · 14/02/2018 21:19

@lollipop7 hope all is well?!?! Please update soon x

notapizzaeater · 15/02/2018 08:59

Hope you ok xx

Mustang27 · 15/02/2018 16:35

Just checking in lolli incase your still about but not saying anything. I'm sorry things have turned out this way. I really hope you are safe please let us know at least that. Completely understand if you are feeling rock bottom again regarding current circumstances.

Massive hugs for you and your babies xx

Groovee · 15/02/2018 18:15

Hoping you are ok Lollipop x

Turnedacorner · 16/02/2018 15:53

@lollipop7 please let us know you're ok x

Mumek · 16/02/2018 16:25

Thinking of you Lollipop sending hugs x

FlexTimeCheekyFucker · 17/02/2018 14:56

Oh Lollipop, I do hope you're ok Flowers.

Idontmeanto · 17/02/2018 20:35

How’s it going Lollipop? You’ve not posted for a couple of weeks. Please let us know you and the kids are safe, even if you don’t want to give any details.

lollipop7 · 17/02/2018 22:29

I’m ok. We’re all fine. It’s been an awful couple of weeks but I am keeping going.
Sorry I didn’t mean to worry people.
I’m not sure when I will be up to posting any kind of update.

Thank you all so much for thinking of us.
We will get there in the end xx

OP posts:
Idontmeanto · 17/02/2018 22:42

Don’t apologise or feel you need to explain. Just glad you’re okay xx

JaneEyre70 · 17/02/2018 22:48

Glad you're OK. Keep on keeping on Flowers

RandomMess · 17/02/2018 22:50
Thanks
Ellie56 · 17/02/2018 22:58

Glad you're ok Lolli. Flowers

Would send you some real flowers if I knew where you lived. Take care.

Slingsanderrors · 18/02/2018 12:11

Glad you’re all ok lollipop, take care xx

AbbieLexie · 19/02/2018 14:12

Thank you. Flowers Flowers
Take care. Think of you and your precious bundles and wish I could help.