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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Braving The Wine Witch & Her Alcohol Free Autumn

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Mouseface · 01/11/2017 20:08

Hello Smile

I’m Mouse one of the Brave Babes who ride on this wonderful Bus, called Gerald, along with all the Opal Fruits wrappers and of course Barry The squid. Grin

We all have a wise variety of life experiences and experiences with alcohol too. We’re not admirers of hang overs and we certainly don’t do judgey pants!

We’re here to ride along with you, when life is pants but also when it’s not as well and you my want to celebrate that bit too much!

So find a seat and come take a ride. I’ll link the previous and also the very first link and the reason we’re all here.

*Mouse

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Bumbelinadance · 31/12/2017 16:55

Pleasure to meet you twattage
Waves

Yorkshireteaforme · 31/12/2017 16:56

Got it in one demented. Too many moves, too many tours, too much access to cheap booze and too many empty evenings in which to drink it! Plus a distinct lack of willpower. Looking forward to getting aboard the bus and breaking free of the wine witch and her 7pm appearance every sodding night.

dementedma · 31/12/2017 17:50

respect to your dh yorkshire and to all serving.

Welshcakesareyum · 31/12/2017 18:07

Just wanted to drop in and say...
Happy New Year!
Also well done to those who are not drinking anything alcohol tonight - you are doing amazing!
Hang in there to those who are struggling - you're doing your best, and that's better than you know!
To those who are starting with dry Jan (me too) - good luck!
We've got this!

Yorkshireteaforme · 31/12/2017 18:13

Thanks demented. He's just gone off to the sandy place for four and a half months and I'm hoping to have this cracked by the time he gets back.

dementedma · 31/12/2017 18:18

That's tough yorkshire....best of luck to both of you

Yorkshireteaforme · 31/12/2017 18:27

Oh, you know what army blokes are like - sometimes it’s easier when they’re on the other side of the world Wink At least I can go to bed early when I need to and eat my own body weight in chocolate and crisps. Thanks though - I think I’m going to like riding the bus.

SweetLathyrus · 31/12/2017 19:26

Hi Bumbel, well done on getting a head start on DJ. I'm not thinking much beyond tomorrow at the moment, but I'm beginning to get excited about stopping and have little daydreams about getting to a hundred days. ODaaT for now though.

Ma it's even worse when he decides he wants to talk at to me. He just witters such rubbish, like I'm one of his friends who understands/cares Wink

Yorkshire evicting the wine witch would be a great house warming gift to yourself Flowers

Dog has finally done the cat's job and caught and removed the guest. Because he's a soft-mouth breed, (bred to pick up game without damaging it), they tend to make it outside alive - what happens once there isn't my problem Wink

So, I am sharing the last bottle of champagne with DH - who has a sickening ability to moderate, he will some times just have half a can of lager over an evening, what the bloody hell is wrong with the man?

dementedma · 31/12/2017 19:35

It would be great to see some of our missing babes checking in..if you old timers are lurking come and say hello again
thurso rural ladame small mouse indie and dubh.
Are you out there?
horse are you waving pompoms?

spanna41 · 31/12/2017 20:08

Hello Babes

Just checking in to wish you ALL a Happy New Year!

Here's to kicking the Wine Witch in her saggy tits, slaying the Beer Dragon, and swooping the Spirits away!

Things to remember - stay focused, find distractions especially during your witching hour, get busy with other stuff.

Things to think about - no gorilla armpit breath at stupid o'clock in the morning, no anxiety (what did I do, what did I say, did I offend/upset anyone) clearer complexion, less bloating, being able to remember the last page you read in your book, remembering the film plot, having more money to spend on yourself, no hangovers, more patience, more time to do things that you want to do or have always dreamt of......

The one that really helps me 'watch the film to the end' mine was never a pretty sight! Take it one day at a time, one minute, one hour. Drink a large cold drink of water, coke, anything to quench your thirst and give it half an hour, the urge will have vanished.

Christmas Day was my 1000 day AF Shock if it wasn't for this bus I could never ever have achieved this. I am so grateful for the Babes on here, thank you Flowers

Tomorrow is the first day for many - we can do this together. The support on here is amazing and there is no judgement. If you're finding it tough post on the bus, there will always be a Babe here ready to help.

We are all here for the same reason, it takes a lot of guts to admit that your drinking is a worry. Take a seat and enjoy the ride.....

Ma I second your call for old babes and would like to add Baby Beaches Elba Hope Nuff Guggs Soc and any other Babes who I've missed. Ma you got that triangle out yet?

Margie I hope your bro isn't doing your head in too much. Just walk into another room and breathe....Luffs ya!

Fox I hope you're all ok x

Lux great post. Wise words x

Venus you are a gem x

I've over frozen my AF Rocktails so I've had to wait before I could open my first for tonight currently slurping through a Sunset Sling, saving the Mokito for much later Grin I may not have any teeth left tomorrow but hey ho!

Sweet yep 'very grown up' slushy, don't you know! Good to see you!

MsHoolies I think of you often - hugs x

Sorry for the essay ladies - Good luck to you all and just post whenever you need to Flowers

Twattage13 · 31/12/2017 20:30

spanna41 that is amazing - 1000 days :). I have spent the evening reading back on the full thread - so many people in difficult & tricksy situations, I feel both humbled and a bit guilty to really have nothing major going on in my life apart from a taxing client for the next year and a quarter.

I am going to bed in 30 minutes and I have not drunk today (also not had any desire to).

Night x

spanna41 · 31/12/2017 20:45

Twattage thank you and well done for today Thanks Never feel guilty on the bus, we all have stuff going on, some tougher than others but remember we're all important on here. Sleep well x

BernieBear · 31/12/2017 20:46

Night night Twattage, I'm not far behind! I've taken the advice and bought cordials - currently enjoying the lime and ginger! Clean sheet night calls plus a border terrier having a meltdown over fireworks so am drugging him up (vet stuff, nothing sinister 😁) and taking him with me.
It's been a pleasure meeting you all and I can't wait to continue on our bus journey. Much love and luck to us all xxx

Twattage13 · 31/12/2017 20:57

Night Bear - well done on the cordials :). I've had 3 rooibos and some San Pellegrino with lime and I'm fine. Tired and my book is waiting for me...we can do this! x

SweetLathyrus · 31/12/2017 21:00

Spanna, 1000 days, that is quite a THING. Star Star Star

Bernie, Twattage sleep well.

I really want to put pjs on, but we live in a sociable close, and there will be a gathering at midnight.

SweetDog is being a little barky about fireworks, but isn't overly stressed, just a bit protective.

spanna41 · 31/12/2017 21:02

Night Bear I hope the dog snuggles up tight. Well done with the cordials Smile

spanna41 · 31/12/2017 21:05

Sweet pjs under your coat, hidden in wellies, maybe! Hope you enjoyed your bubbles (one drink I really miss) hugs honey x

spanna41 · 31/12/2017 21:09

Skinny dog snuggled up with me. I love her so much!

The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Braving The Wine Witch & Her Alcohol Free Autumn
lastnamefirstfirstnamelast · 31/12/2017 21:10

Im struggling actually....its hard seeing all these pics of bubbly etc...

Still got to think i wont be hungover tomorrow xx

spanna41 · 31/12/2017 21:14

Lastname are you at home? Switch the tv off and put some music on for a bit. Can you run yourself a bath with lovely smelly bath stuff? Go make a cuppa and eat something sweet.
The adverts are fuckers. Distract yourself away from the ads for a bit. Keep posting X

SweetLathyrus · 31/12/2017 21:16

She is so sweet, Spanna, and I like your patchwork duvet/quilt.

As lots of Babes keep repeating, Last no one ever regret not drinking the next morning. It's tough, it really is, wait a minute, then another minute, (and repeat), the craving will subside.

dementedma · 31/12/2017 21:17

I'm drinking some cheap Cava as a farewell to being a fuckwit. Poured a whole bottle of red down the sink. will be off to bed shortly.
Together, we can do this. No Babe left behind.
Oldies, look out for the newbies.
newbies, keep posting.
Missing Babes, check in and say hello

spanna41 · 31/12/2017 21:22

Fuckwit you are NOT Ma. You are our rock. Red wine is the new bleach

lastnamefirstfirstnamelast · 31/12/2017 21:24

Im getting in the bath shortly.

I can tell DP preferes me not drinking, he keeps saying he is so proud and he is being much more affectionate. God i must be a twat to be around after a drink xx

Saywhen · 31/12/2017 21:34

Happy new year! Wow its busy!

spanna 1000 days! Congratulations!!!

Day 58 af. In bed already never been a big new year fan. Run first thing. Lovely to be able to do that without the thought of how much wine I've had.

Welcome all the new posters. I'm sorry not to name check.

Good luck with try or dry Jan.

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