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Battling on!

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lollipop7 · 31/10/2017 20:06

So I'm starting a new thread following on from 0I don't know what to do" as we're almost full.
Blimey! How did that happen!

Seems lots of you are rather ruddy marvellous and want to keep going on this journey with me so I'm opening a new chapter.
Will be back with a proper update later 💐

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lollipop7 · 31/12/2017 12:01

I bloody hope so.

Such a shit.

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mickhucknallspinkpancakes · 31/12/2017 13:41

Give your side of everything to the solicitor.

Keep a written list as these things go. You must be frazzled with the baby, it will help to keep making notes.

Sending you all the positive thoughts I can for the new year Lollipop. Your determination to do the right thing for your family is amazing. KOKO!

ThanksThanksThanks

Ellie56 · 31/12/2017 23:21

Keep on going Lolli. You can do it.

He is clearly losing the plot big time. What a twat.

LadyRoughDiamond · 31/12/2017 23:48

Thinking of you Lolli and wishing you a happy new year. Let 2018 be the year it all comes together for you - you've come a long way, baby! x

JaneEyre70 · 31/12/2017 23:50

Wishing you and your lovely babies a Happy New Year - you've achieved so much, and things have to get better for you all x

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lollipop7 · 01/01/2018 14:03

Happy New Year to you all too!

We had a quiet but nice evening. My little boy woke up in time for the fireworks and had a glass of lemonade whilst we had some fizz.
I did shed a few quiet tears, but then I thought of his awful face the day I left and that stopped them.

Here’s hoping me and the children get the 2018 we deserve, and that bastard does too.
Everything going to the CPS tomorrow. 🤞🏻 for us!🍀🍀🍀

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Slingsanderrors · 01/01/2018 14:14

Happy New Year lollipop, I hope 2018 is a fantastic year for you and your little lollies. X

rainbowstardrops · 01/01/2018 14:47

Happy new year Lollipop!

Idontmeanto · 01/01/2018 16:27

Happy new year and everything crossed for the CPS!

Toooldtobearsed · 01/01/2018 16:48

Best of luck 😙

Sadmum23 · 01/01/2018 18:47

Wishing you Good Health and Happiness in 2018 you certainly deserve it .

Doublemint · 01/01/2018 18:54

Happy New Year lollipoppers!

PinaKoala · 01/01/2018 18:57

Happy New Year Lollipop and the little lollies Smile

Keeping my fingers crossed for you that the CPS are supportive xx

Barmaid101 · 01/01/2018 19:50

Wishing you all the best for 2018!

MotherofaSurvivor · 01/01/2018 22:05

I'm new to this entire story it seems. Pls can anyone tell me the title of the first thread? Thanks x

dizzy174 · 01/01/2018 22:24

I don't know what to do title

flutterby12 · 01/01/2018 22:29

Happy new year @lollipop7 x

JaneEyre70 · 01/01/2018 22:30

There's a link to it at the beginning of the thread.

Slingsanderrors · 04/01/2018 06:14

How’s it going @lollipop7 ? Hope you and your babies are ok.

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lollipop7 · 04/01/2018 14:21

Not too bad thanks @Slingsanderrors
Just getting more stuff ready for Court.

Still not heard from his employer which is annoying.p

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lollipop7 · 04/01/2018 14:22

Sorry!
Happy New Year to everyone!

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iknowimcoming · 04/01/2018 14:27

Happy new year Lollipop and good luck with all that court prep. Hope that gorgeous boy is sleeping a little better for you Thanks

Groovee · 04/01/2018 15:16

Happy News Year Lollipop

Slingsanderrors · 04/01/2018 21:25

Glad you’re ok lolli, hope court goes ok. Sounds like your exp is losing the plot.

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lollipop7 · 05/01/2018 16:28

Some good news for a change.....I’ve got a job interview next Friday!

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