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Is he trying to get rid of me & I'm making a fool of myself?

148 replies

Artemisi · 17/08/2017 20:17

I met this guy I really hit it off with. I just met him out of the blue, in a bookstore. We got talking and we ended up talking for hours right there and then. He cajoled me into going out for a coffee with him. It was amazing. He asked for my number, we texted back and forth, and he asked me to let him know when I’m next free. I told him Friday. He texted back immediately “that should be great. What sort of time do you have in mind?” I replied that I’m free on Friday from 2pm. That was Tuesday. Since then he’s not been in touch.

Was he just pretending to be interested in me? (I’m kinda insecure).

OP posts:
Liskee · 18/08/2017 14:48

Ha ha ha - last page wasn't the last page! Enjoy your date :)

LanaDReye · 18/08/2017 16:29

Go on the date and try not to over think potential early relationships stress can kill fun . If the date is rubbish you can end it, if it's good I hope you have plenty more!

Arealhumanbeing · 18/08/2017 17:23

Great news, OP. For what it's worth I know just how you're feeling.

Have a lovely date! Smile

grobagsforever · 18/08/2017 18:11

Place marking for date update

Cricrichan · 18/08/2017 23:43

How did it go?

Artemisi · 19/08/2017 13:41

We met up at 5.30pm yesterday, date ended around noon today!

OP posts:
theredjellybean · 19/08/2017 13:47

oooh....fabulous
and for what its worth..i am one of those over thinkers too....its awful !! but we can'thelp it

Arealhumanbeing · 19/08/2017 14:22

Stay in that happy space. No overthinking!

pinkyredrose · 19/08/2017 15:11

Blimey that was fast moving! Are you seeing him again?

Artemisi · 19/08/2017 15:19

Yes definitely seeing him again

OP posts:
Liskee · 19/08/2017 15:24

Yay!

JennyHolzersGhost · 19/08/2017 16:19

Well done OP Flowers you're a quick worker Grin

Cricrichan · 19/08/2017 16:53

Brilliant! :)

runningintothelight · 19/08/2017 20:37

Are you going to elaborate ? Or... just short sentenced answers

LittleLights · 19/08/2017 21:12

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Mrscropley · 19/08/2017 21:14

We need details op. .

Lots of them Grin

Bluebelle38 · 19/08/2017 21:33

What happened?! Christ, I'm so nosey! :)

Artemisi · 20/08/2017 03:12

Haha, I was too tired to give any details. So as I said date lasted from 5.30 until noon the next day. Time really flew. We actually didn't have sex.

OP posts:
perper · 20/08/2017 03:40

Awww aren't you glad you sent that text! Smile

For what it's worth, I totally would have just sent a '#awkward' after a couple of days- but then I'm a bit of a joker. Grin

JWrecks · 20/08/2017 04:54

Oh hey, that's fantastic! I just caught up, but I'm so pleased you sent that one last text!

Did he ever mention why he didn't text you sooner?

CKBluebell · 20/08/2017 04:57

Any plans to see him again?
Will you be arranging it by text Grin? (Sorry OP)

Bluebelle38 · 20/08/2017 09:31

Nice one, Art. Enjoy yourselves 😁

robinia · 20/08/2017 09:38

Sounds brilliant.
Hope you are reassured now Grin

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