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Anyone left their DP/DH knowing it was for the best but still being in love with them?

762 replies

Ifonlyhewould · 27/03/2007 10:15

How did you get through it? Was it really for the best?

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mylittlestar · 02/05/2007 11:38

ginnedupmummy great idea to go out and spend exactly the same on clothes and shoes - I like that frame of mind!

ginnedupmummy · 02/05/2007 11:42

Message withdrawn

Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 11:59

Not only is it funny it's very empowering, taking control over your own feelings. Keep up the good work!! I'm with you in spirit. (pardon the pun )

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LilyLoo · 02/05/2007 13:04

Do you know i think you ladies may have just cracked this unreasonable behaviour. I think men expect us to scream, shout , cry or become needy but by distancing yourself they not really sure how to react and if it empowers you all the better. ROFL hte mincer iohw you can make money from this towards your fund then by renting out space

Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 13:08

Good idea Lily!!! I could sell bits off too, for dog food

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LilyLoo · 02/05/2007 13:11

it all counts
Do you know when lily back from Vegas ?

Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 13:23

I'm not quite sure. Is it today?

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Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 13:24

Just checked her thread and it says 'get back monday afternoon' so where is she!!!

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LilyLoo · 02/05/2007 13:32

hope she hasn't decided to stay maybe married Elvis !

Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 13:40

Well he wouldn't be one for the freezer would he

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LilyLoo · 02/05/2007 13:43
Grin
Cashncarry · 02/05/2007 14:20
Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 14:30

what email??? I thought you had 'dumped' me! Ive not had your email, been checking my inbox all day
Resend it please

off the check your link out now!

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Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 14:32

at least you got the last word in. Ooh you should go back, it's along time since wev'e seen a fight

Now resend that email please!!!!

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Cashncarry · 02/05/2007 14:32

ROFL at being dumped!!!! That's what I thought - we are a sad pair

Off to hotmail I go....

Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 14:35

no, i'm not joking. I really thought you had had enough if me

Thought you might have took offence

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LilyLoo · 02/05/2007 14:35

cnc how can you be nosey when she openly put details on a bloody web forum for all to see, think you were more looking out for someone bloody getting all bil personal details

Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 14:39

There's some strange folk on here Lily. Of course not everyone can be as perfect or as sane as us lot

I'm just off to polish my freezer now!

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Cashncarry · 02/05/2007 14:41

Don't be silly you daft mare Have checked my hotmail and it doesn't save sent items so will do another reply later. It's really annoying 'cos it was a really long rant as well!

So you don't think I was nosey then before. I honestly was just trying to be helpful and was at her response!

Ifonlyhewould · 02/05/2007 14:44

Well make sure this one is a long, ranty one too then. Thats most disappointing Nosy, oops I mean Cash

No, you weren't being nosy at all. Don't let it get to you, she is just a name without a face

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mylittlestar · 02/05/2007 14:47

she was a bit ott cnc, there was no need for her to be so horrible. perhaps she was just a bit defensive and hadn't thought of it herself.

do you want us all to go on the thread and tell her off

you are lined up ready to kick dh's arses, we can do the same for you to angry MNers who upset you!!

Cashncarry · 02/05/2007 14:47

Thank you Lilyloo - I thought I was being nice, honest guv!

How are you anyway? I was thinking about you the other day and wondering how you were getting on...

Cashncarry · 02/05/2007 14:48

ROFL at our new posse!! Honestly, was just worried I might have unconsciously been offended - no need for any arse-kicking (this time)!

Promise to let you know the next time I need "back-up"

Cashncarry · 02/05/2007 14:52

unconsciously been offensive FGS!

Anyway, I've gone back and said something else now. Honestly, I'm not a confrontational person in RL but MN seems to bring out the worst/best in me

mylittlestar · 02/05/2007 14:54

Yes I was just laughing to myself actually at how these threads have become our little support group, and generally, this thread, is where we all come when we need some support or cheering up! Thanks IOHW!!