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I'm 42 with kids, boyfriend is 34, what if he wants kids??

137 replies

Frothyfreddie · 22/04/2017 10:41

Hi

I've just met the most amazing man online. We have chatted for 3 weeks before finally arranging a date on Thursday night. As he walked into the bar I was dumbstruck at his beauty, he is 6'4, dark hair, incredibly handsome and his accent nearly made me faint.

As we sat and chatted, I could tell he felt the same way, we couldn't keep our eyes off each other and as he leaned in for a fist kiss I almost melted, it was perfect.

We ended the night with talk of how much chemistry we have and how into each other we are.

He messaged the next day and said he would find it very easy to fall in love with me.

I would love nothing more. My only issue is that although our age gap is not huge i can't help but think that he will want kids and as I'm 42 and have 2 kids I feel like I'm done.

Is this a conversation I should be having early in in the relationship with him so as not to waste his time or do I just let us both fall in love with each and cross that bridge when it comes?

I really have fallen for him, I can tell he feels the same

OP posts:
metalmum15 · 29/04/2017 14:51

This thread is hilarious. I think OP should turn her hand to Mills & Boon writing.

I moved in with my Dh after 2 months. I'd had enough shitty ones to know when the right one came along.

RortyCrankle · 29/04/2017 15:03

Frothyfreddie
Would you all like an update?

If you must.

tireddotcom72 · 29/04/2017 15:18

Where she go? I've been to Westfield and back was expecting them to be married with 2.4 children and a dog by time I came back to thread!

I once had a first date where he took me to meet his parents as he decided I was the one .... there was never a second date!

theaveragewife · 29/04/2017 21:37

Come the fuck on Bridget!

SprinkleOfInsanity · 30/04/2017 12:20

Still waiting..

CuppaTeaTeddy · 30/04/2017 12:55

Maybe her 'boyfriend' had turned up at her house as a surprise and has whipped her off to Paris for the 3rd date. That's why she isn't replying.

fruityb · 30/04/2017 13:05

This is him isn't it?

PerfectPeachy · 30/04/2017 13:13

😂 What a Funny thread.

DonaldStott · 30/04/2017 13:37

fruity Grin well he certainly is a beauty

TroysMammy · 30/04/2017 13:39

Inbox me hun. Attention seeking at its worst.

fruityb · 30/04/2017 13:58

Fabio is always useful 😀

LadyFuchsiaGroan · 30/04/2017 19:21

Fruity - nailed it in one Grin

Come on OP what's the update?

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