DH and sex

[Busybeesmum]

I'm very lucky. After 4 kids we still have a good sex life. I read a thread on here the other day about a woman who'd been dumped as she wet herself during sex. When DH (tmi) goes hard at it and I've not had a wee before sex I often wet myself. DH finds it a turn on and goes out of his way to get me to wet myself. Is this a common fantasy?

I think you should probably post this in the 'sex' section

not one of mine.

Maybe you should address your pelvic floor though so it doesn't get worse.

Welcome to mumsnet Melania

Get your post moved to sex and there will be lots of helpful comments about 'squirting' leave the post here and you will feel like an incontinent pervert

Sex topic is only available after so many (90??) days registration Prosecvo

pnuttet lmao

Welcome to mumsnet Melania

Not sure about what you describe but some people like to be pissed on, it even has its only quirky name 'watersports'

Own not fucking only

pnutter you made me snort my tea out of my nose!
(Nothing helpful to add OP, sorry!)

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GP to get your pelvic floor checked out, and have a wee before sex.

about 'squirting' I don't think that's what squirting is.

Surely that means you just piss through the bed / settee /floor ( wherever your preference is) which sounds hugely inconvenient and unhygienic unless you always have sex in the bathroom .

They might have a water proof mattress protector.

Um, does you OH know it's wee or does he think it's squirting or an orgasm? (Though I have heard that squirting is actually urine anyway )

It's not uncommon. Probably more about him making you have an uncontrollable reaction to his movements than the actual wetting. Glad you're both enjoying yourselves

Sure, it's really common, men just love incontinent women,

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Why would you have sex when needing a wee, unless you actually want this to happen? Seems like you enjoy it too, by the sounds of it. Would not be for me, I'm afraid. Surely you'd need to strip the bed afterwards.

Golden shower anyone

Lovely when you stay at other people's houses or a hotel.

It's just a matter of time before you are poleaxed by the UTI from hell

Op if this is for real, you might want to head to the gp.

I found having sex with a full bladder really uncomfortable, plus burning feeling after.

Even reading this is giving me cystitis!