DH and sex

[Busybeesmum]

I'm very lucky. After 4 kids we still have a good sex life. I read a thread on here the other day about a woman who'd been dumped as she wet herself during sex. When DH (tmi) goes hard at it and I've not had a wee before sex I often wet myself. DH finds it a turn on and goes out of his way to get me to wet myself. Is this a common fantasy?

Actually, it may not be wee.

Often, fluid squirted during sex comes from the Skenes glands in the urethral sponge that encircles the urethra, and is excreted through the urethra during orgasm - possibly to cleanse it after intercourse. So it will feel like weeing, but it won't be wee.

Many men enjoy this. There's even a name for it in tantra: amrita.

lol it's called water sports

She's not squirting. She starts the session with a full bladder, she ends it with an empty one. She knows it's wee, he knows it's wee.

Water sports is done in a controlled manner. This isn't funny. She isn't choosing to wee on him, she is consenting to him forcing her to wee on him, damaging her pelvic floor in the process.

Yes!

DH finds it extremely sexy to make me drink a litre of pound shop Cola, then pound away in my Vag until my urethra numbs and I slam all over him and my 600 Thread Count Egyptian cotton bed linen.

Then we nestle together in the yellowing warmth of my steaming hot wee. Sharing is caring!

Oh no hang on....

I'm not unhappy, OP. I'm not being damaged by my sexual partner.

If you want to ask for help, it's here in spades, genuinely.

Sex on a full bladder does not cause pelvic floor damage. This is ridiculous scare mongering.

Always best to have a wee beforehand though.

Boring what thread have you been reading where someone said that having sex with a full bladder causes pelvic floor damage?

I dont understand this post at all. If your DH likes being weed on then just wee on him without all the forcing/ hammering. Problem solved?