Absolutely Livid!! dh just called a fat lazy f****ker

[Debbsyandson]

im furious,only had my ds 8 weeks ago,have lost most of my baby weight,i do all the nite feeds nappy changes baths washing cleaning and admittedly theres not always a meal done when he gets home from work.But for fucks sake i am a new mum!!!Feel like walikng through the door with ds and not coming back he has really really hurt me.

Good news

Brilliant!

If you knock back his efforts now, he'll wonder why he should bother next time. Fatal to chances of any kind of a break for you!

Enjoy your lunch

Thank goodness, BTW I wasn't saying he was right to say what he said, or that you should cut him some slack over what he said. But just that I felt he was trying to make it up to you by gesture rather than word, and obviously he has a way with word 'eg shut up and stop being silly'!! But perhaps you just need to tell him to go boil his head when he says such nasty stuff, he has a bad sense of humnour!!

Phew hope you had a nice lunch!

Just want to add my support and glad to hear it's getting better. I remember how I felt about dh when ds1 was a baby. He didnt' say bad things but they annoy the h* out of you.

thanks eveyrone for advice you gave me lots of it,and also chance to reflect, dh and i went for lunch and had a good chat so we are friends now and have kissed and made up,tbh i think this arguement has done us good as we have both worked issues out that we had.Dh has done ds bottles for tonight and we were a united family at lunch overall a very nice afternoon.Thanks all your brill xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Never mind that, what did you have to eat, MN is a collection of foodies.

Very glad to hear it Deb and long may it last!

Ramsey we had carvery (beef dinner)and fresh cream pancakes it was lovely