OK, so *is* anyone else on here poly/kink-aware?

[madamez]

Or should I just slink off back to Wierdo-net?

This is a parenting site though so no call for poly woly convos here although i am sure there are sites for this sort of thing.I have enough trouble keeping up with one sex life Hats off to you

Looked at this threaad title and wonderd why it wasn't in the Enviroment bit.

I thought poly was something to do with polycarbons

Sorry!!

What on earth does Vanilla mean?

lilibet, Vanilla is usually used to refer to straightforward, non-kinky sex

Then what constitutes kinky?

Using aids, non-monogamous, etc.?

I guess we're kink aware (DH and me, that is) but not poly.

It's a tough subject to raise in RL!!!!

Um.

Non-vanilla IMO would include

toys/aids
non-monogamous stuff
bondage/S&M
maybe even role play/fantasy sharing/talking dirty?
also anal?

the name doggiessayswoof is transmogrifying into something quite different now

I'm definately not vanilla. More mint choc chip with extra sauce i'd say.

Can anyone recommend a good website for toys? Am bored with our current selection, and need to update it all....

raspberry ripple, me!

(FWIW, I have always had an image about living with several men - inc my dh! Fantasy is the wrong word for it, more a certainty that in a perfect world, this would be my preferred setup.
This stems from the fact that I love male company, feel more at ease with men, and am a gemini personality ie I like different types of music for different moods, different clothes etc so doesn't take a huge step of imagination to see myself living with several different men, to suit different facets of personality.

But I also know, that were the shoe on the other foot, I would feel too insecure to handle it.

Oh, I went down South
For to see my Sal
Sing Polly wolly doodle all the day
My Sal, she is A spunky gal
Sing Polly wolly doodle all the day

Behind the barn, Down on my knees
Sing Polly wolly doodle all the day.

I always wondered what that song was about.

paranoidandroid try www.lovehoney.co.uk they generally have a good reputation within the industry and the site is female/couple orientated so you won't be confronted with thumping great anal dildos/deeply unsubtle bukkake DVDs first thing...
noddyholder: I was just wondering, OK. After all some kinky/poly people are parents too.

Oh, and has anyone got a link to the Pampers thread? Just sounds sort of amusing, somehow.

I am sick of all the polyamory repeats. And i much preferred the original Josie Jump.

Something about Pirate noises?

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this thread title is making me feel uneasy

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oooooh

rarely check that account - will do in a bit

must eat

PA www.lovehoney.co.uk is a great site.

You're not the only one madamez, although by the sound of your username, we are opposite if you see what I mean

Thank you, erm, 'doggie' for making me more kink aware.

You learn something new every day.

Does vanilla inclusive of sex only in the missionary position?

Is 'poly' just a charming euphemism for swinging and/or orgy type situations?

Why the strange words/terms?

Kink-aware, vanilla . It's laughable tbh.

Polyamourous.

Euphemism for shagging around.