OK, so *is* anyone else on here poly/kink-aware?

[madamez]

Or should I just slink off back to Wierdo-net?

When I think of the word 'kink', I think about my climbing days, when the rope would kink whilst abseiling and be a right bastard to flake out.

Being open-minded is not the same thing as talking

Can I ask a very honest question here? Does anyone else on Mumsnet think its a little weird to be so open about their sex-life on a public internet forum? I am neither prudish, nor narrow minded although I am sure there are loads of Mumsnetters who have a more exciting sex-life than me (and probably loads who have a less exciting one) but I don't feel the need to share!

No criticism is implied of those who do but I just find it a little odd! Why can't all you swingers/polykinks just get on with it and enjoy without the need for explicit information about your personal lives on Mumsnet?

i didn't see any explicit info...sorry i missed that!

and i don't think it's weird- it's all anonomous, unless people meet up.

Mn is so educational!
I always think I'm fairly enlightened until I read one of these threads!

You know something madamdez all I know about you from mn is that you are into spicy sex. Now usually it takes a while for a new member to hit the Carmenere radar but you have very quickly because you mention sex a lot.
We here on mn all have quite a lot of sex and talk about it quite a lot too but is it necessary to define your mn persona by your sexual preferances?

I have to say, I AM A WOMAN, not a teenage boy! (I have the stretch marks to prove that i am a Mummy too, but am too polite to get them out in public).

Bin fetish DG? LMAO

So what if madamex talks mostly about her sex, others talk mainly about BF lentil weaving mooncups gardening mogelling, point is who gives a flying fu*k? unless it's tapping into something else that makes us think outside the box........no pun intended. Come on guys, this is an open forum and I can think of far more offensive topics that should have alarms bells ringing than good ole fashioned sex. Far be it from me than to dictate what's said and not permitted on Mn but thankfully gone are the days when you had to be a 3yr plus etc member of MN to start stating views and opinions, this is grown up world kids, not the playground.

'Kink-aware'? I'm aware of myself, does that count? And how do you know my name is Polly?

Should it not now be renamed The University of Central Kink Aware?

the hottest thing on here is wong using the word totemic

Is a Poly an old university and a kink something you get in the garden hose so the water wont come out?

I agree I find the word "aware" an odd one to use in the circumstances. I can choose not to take part in something while still being fully aware of it. Golf, for example. Or trainspotting. I can be aware of that stuff Mark Oaten got up to, without having the slightest inclination ever to try it (I want to go and wash just thinking about it).

I am aware that beastiality is legal in Denmark.

Not planning on going anytime soon, though.

Wonderful wonderful Copenhagen.

I bet the long winter nights fly by.

Be very scared if a Danish bloke tells you his girlfriend is called Elke.

Or Rover.

owning a rabbit takes on a whole new meaning over there i bet

calmdown
i agree!
if you dont like a subject / topic / thread whatever, then leave...its not compulsory to answer is it....

maybe they have to make an adult section on this forum
tbh i find things subjects 'blessed are the mnetters' more than a bit wierd but i dont butt in and ask what they are doing...