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commitment phobe?

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:24

help? seeing someone and he sees me one to two times a week and doesn't want to look at me or text me between times?! ignores me, blanks me and then will see me...it's so hard it hurts so bad..what do i do?

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AuntieStella · 12/12/2015 19:27

How long have you been seeing him? And are you sure he's single?

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:29

he's definitely single... been seeing him for eight months

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:31

he says he's fucked up..he says he needs to see a psychiatrist?

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Goingtobeawesome · 12/12/2015 19:31

Don't waste your time on someone who makes you feel bad.

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:31

really lovely when i see him..

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:32

will see me and then a few hours later will blank me completely..won't even smile?

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:33

no texts now for six days?!

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Goingtobeawesome · 12/12/2015 19:34

Does he get what he wants when he sees you?

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:36

yes

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Lweji · 12/12/2015 19:36

Why are you sticking at it?

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:38

because he is so lovely when we are together..

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:38

we laugh, have a great time

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:38

i just don't understand..

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Goingtobeawesome · 12/12/2015 19:39

Crumbs is what you are accepting. Find someone who will give you a whole slice but work on why you accept mouldy crumbs before you do.

Lweji · 12/12/2015 19:39

Of course he is. He can afford to put out all his effort to keep you on board till next time...

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:41

i've texted him saying i don't understand.. he hasn't texted me for six days! Sad

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:42

he says he feels claustrophobic

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 19:43

i went up to him and said do you still like me?..and he said leave leave it for a minute and i said for a minte? and he said yes..

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Goingtobeawesome · 12/12/2015 19:57

How old are you, OP?

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 20:04

late thirties

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 20:10

i think i have texted him too much..!!

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 20:10

what do i do?

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Lweji · 12/12/2015 20:11

You send one final text.
Goodbye.

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lostinthewoodshelp · 12/12/2015 20:12

really?

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Goingtobeawesome · 12/12/2015 20:13

Definitely.