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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Shaping Up For A Super, Sober Summer!

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Mouseface · 12/05/2015 13:40

Hey, I'm Mouse Smile

This is 'Gerald', our trustworthy, non judgemental Bus, full of a variety of posters who have travelled long and far, or even just joined us a few stops ago.

This is a place where you can be who YOU want to be. 24/7, 365. This lovely place is just like your best friend, there's no slagging off, no judging, just us. Smile

Drinking or not, embarrassed, fed up of the way things are, or just lonely of living the way drinking makes you do, come and take a peek and see what you think.....

THIS THE LAST THREAD WE HAD

AND THIS IS WHERE THE BUS WAS BUILT, WHERE IT ALL BEGAN

We can't wait to meet you, we won't bite! Well, unless you ask very nicely. Wink

Take good care until we see you. :) xx

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Isindemoodforspring · 06/07/2015 18:15

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LucyBabs · 06/07/2015 18:28

Thanks so much for your kind words and encouragement ladies Flowers

Ok so dinner is over with, dp got here early so I'm going to chill out with the kids for half an hour and then force myself out the door for a head clearing walk.

Fresh sheets and a book tonight sounds lovely. I can't remember the last time I read properly, I'm usually too tipsy from the alcohol Blush

guggenheim · 06/07/2015 18:39

ummm...I think that something nice may have happened today. Life has been shitty McShitty due to the school ds attends (ds is generally HARD work and school has really let us down). So I've been in a very bad place for quite some time and I think that maybe a good thing has happened to me.

It's not OFFICIAL so can't say any more but I hope it all come off. ooo err!
Can you all keep fingers,toes and legs crossed for me please?

dementedma · 06/07/2015 19:12

Shovels chocolate button into gob and says "mmmmffrrtshhmllg" which is "well done guggs"
hope cling film is a good tip. I would need industrial quantities of it though....

honeysuckleclimber · 06/07/2015 21:07

Thanks for the warm welcome ladies! Sorry I haven't posted since Sat morning, been keeping myself busy. I managed to do a Saturday night curry and not drink a drop, which is an achievement for me. Especially as DP said I was being boring for not joining him having a drink!!

After after a couple of days off, I'm already back at the "I want some wine, one glass won't hurt" mentality Blush God I am a nightmare. On the other hand, all this talking about chocolate buttons is making me want those. Perhaps I'll buy a big bag for myself to scoff tomorrow night Grin

lookingforhope · 06/07/2015 21:16

Lucy how's it going? Clean sheets, bath and book sounds excellent. I am about to watch Glee on the laptop with dd. Lets have an AF one together Brew (raises mug of tea in salute). Guggs chocolate buttons would have been an acceptable bribe if Ma hadn't scoffed them all Shock . But good luck anyway, keep us posted SmileFlowers

guggenheim · 06/07/2015 21:25

Well done af babes I always find day 3 tricky,it's that little voice saying
" go on you've been good". Not very easy to resist.

Well I think I have a shiny new job. The details are being worked out,but I just got an email which kind of sort of confirms it (I'm fighting the - but you're not good enough voice) It's only a part time role but I think I'd like it.

Hurls more buttons at babes giant ones now : )

spanna41 · 06/07/2015 21:32

Evening All Grin

Isinde knew you'd rock it babe, go girl Grin

Hey Ma all good here, if a bit boring, seem to have been DC's taxi service recently. If I'm not working, I'm driving Confused Good news about your job, sorry to hear darling boss has gone for now. x

Mouse good to see you babe x

Guggs sounds goooooood babe, excellent Smile

Khalisi sending you hugs x

Fox how you doing babe? This weather just makes it all so much more tempting Blush I'm gobsmacked at how much I associate with drinking Shock I do wish they'd ban booze ads on tv, they make it look so yummy Hmm and frankly it would make it easier x

Honey the first 5 days are the hardest, do everything you can to distract yourself. I promise you it does get easier Smile Keep going Babe, you're doing so well Flowers

Beaches buttercup how you doing darling? x

Baby hugs honey x

Back in a bit x

spanna41 · 06/07/2015 21:39

Aha took ages to type my last post Blush

Guggs you can do it, you know you can Smile You will shine in your shiney new job Flowers

Hope darling you sound strong and positive. Love reading your posts x

Lulioli · 06/07/2015 21:43

Thinking of you Lucy! I, too, am getting ready for bed. (Very early for me!) but it feels oh so good! (Couldn't stretch to fresh sheets tho. Tomorrow maybe!?)

Lulioli · 06/07/2015 21:46

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Lulioli · 06/07/2015 21:47

Why did nt my smileys show up!?

Isindemoodforspring · 06/07/2015 22:35

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blondeandstripey · 07/07/2015 07:35

Isinde thankyou for the offer of ironing lol.. Hope I don't come over as smug as I really want to crack this.. On day 7 now and no alcohol.. Finished my tablets which means I could drink but I am going to carry this on as I feel so much better in myself. For the first time in ages I sleep and wake up with no fuzzy head.. I still think of the wine bottle I have in the cupboard but it's almost like it is a source of strength to just look and shout at it I don't need you!!! Going to a concert on Thursday which will be hard but hopefully I can resist. The other thing I have found that helps is going out for a walk early evening but making sure it is somewhere far enough away that I have to drive there.. Good luck everyone with this battle... We can smash it x

SmallFox · 07/07/2015 07:41

Hey all. V brief check in en route to work. Wanted to say v v well done to Guggs - that's fab news, so well deserved and for once life comes up with a good thing at just the right time. Am so pleased.

Ma, you will be amazing in your 'new' role. It is scary to have faith placed in you if (like me) you have limited faith in yourself but it can be a really great thing in instilling self belief. You will be so brilliant and its great you have lovely boss lurking in the background

Thanks for checking on me, lovely Spanna. Am ok, still a bit wobbly, be it the weather or whatever. Day 188 and constant vigilance required at the moment - really feel I could slip, didn't expect this by now. But I don't want to put any of the newer posters off - don't get me wrong, the benefits of not drinking obviously far outweigh the grey fug of a constant hangover, so don't be deterred. I was going to say it's been an awesome journey, but I still can't be doing with having a 'journey' at my time of life (or ever). Hang in there, babes.

Sweet, you ok babe? Miss you.

Later, all xx

honeysuckleclimber · 07/07/2015 09:07

SmallFox Day 188 is fantastic! Congratulations! X

Blonde I don't know how you can do it with a bottle in the cupboard. You're much stronger than me. I have zero willpower! Well done on the week Grin

Today is day 4 for me, sounds ridiculous to be pleased with 4 days Blush Loving this thread though, it's great having somewhere to chat so thanks all xx

Mouseface · 07/07/2015 09:30

Morning, tis me, Mouse.

I should imagine that today will be very hard for some Babes who were involved either directly or otherwise with the 7/7 bomb attacks in London.

I can't believe it's been 10 years. Luckily, I wasn't affected personally but I have friends who sadly, were.

I've missed so much on the thread and have a manic day but wanted to say CONGRATULATIONS to Smallfox!!! 188 days? That's fantastic! You are a super Star you really are! Smile

Sorry not to name check everyone, especially the lovely new Babes.

I'll do the new thread asap and then try and read back to get to know you all.

Bye for now Mousey xxx

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venusandmars · 07/07/2015 17:20

Well, it is strange but I can't see the thread on my Mumsnet pages - I was in quite a panic that either the thread had been deleted, or that everyone had sneaked off to Switzerland to oin isindie and the gnomes of Zurich

I have found you lot but using 'threads I'm on' . I hope everyone is having a tolerable Tuesday, and do let me know if I missed the jaunt to Switzerland

Mouseface · 07/07/2015 18:36

That's weird as I've not posted it yet!!! How the heck? I'm just finalising it and was going to post it.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm ?

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Mouseface · 07/07/2015 19:02

Hello lovelies - HERE IS THE SHINY NEW THREAD

PLEASE fill up the other one first, were on page 39 now so not long to go, and then we won't leave anyone behind! :)

By all means grab a seat, but please fill the other thread up first ladies!

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dementedma · 07/07/2015 20:32

How are we all? I miss wry. Does anyone know how to lure her out.
I am drinking as usual so hats off to all you babes who are winning.
Don't tell Venus that we have been to Switzerland without her

dementedma · 07/07/2015 20:33

Picks up Swiss chocolate wrappers and hides them fromVenus

spanna41 · 07/07/2015 20:53

funny old day at work some of me oldies are getting less able to do stuff for themselves and it's really heartbreaking to see their frustration Sad

I reckon it's Day 100 tomorrow Shock fuck! My original target nearly done Grin What I semi-think about is, sprinting down to the coop and finally being able to buy a bottle of procesco that they seem to have had on 'special' for blinking ages. BUT I am not going to do that. fucking tempting though. Some days are good and some it's a white knuckle ride and a fight with WW. It's taken me ages to type this, I've served dinner, eaten mine Smile Sober is so much better for me. One day at a time.....

Love to all of you lovely Babes x

Mouse thank you for setting up the new thread and continuing this lovely Bus Smile

dementedma · 07/07/2015 20:55

Bloody well done spanna

spanna41 · 07/07/2015 21:01

Ma I miss Wry too Sad