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Do you have a fetish?

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NameChangeSoStrange · 08/04/2015 01:43

NC'd as both mother and a close female friend know my MN name and quite frankly don't fancy them reading this (or knowing it is me when they read this at any rate).

I was wondering if any MNetters have any fetishes?

If you don't want to say what it is that's fine just curious how many people have a specific niche - is it as common as a phobia (the opposite presumably) or is it a little more rare?

I find them fascinating because I'm curious if there is normally a specific cause for a fetish and would be interested to see what posters post on here.

I would say my fetishes or more aptly for myself, turn on's is a little bit of dominance (the other person) but not to the extent of being abusive/nasty. I also like the thought of more than one man at a time (though in reality I'd hate this, so no idea why my mind likes it).

I know it's a very nosy question but as we are all anonymous I thought I'd see what others say.

MNHQ feel free to delete away if a fair few are offended.
Feel free not to answer if you really don't feel comfortable nobody will make you.

Thanks for engaging if you do answer :)

~NiC~

OP posts:
MadeMan · 09/04/2015 22:01

"I did meet a guy through OLD who was obsessed with whether I have ever worn my hair in a French bread."

Do you have a fetish?
justonemoretime2p · 09/04/2015 22:10

This thread is amazing as for pegging PROTIP ladies if you talk to DP and suggest it don't run out a get a strap on with a bigger dick than he has.
Slowly slowly but hole fucky.

MadeMan · 09/04/2015 22:13

"as for pegging PROTIP ladies if you talk to DP and suggest it don't run out a get a strap on with a bigger dick than he has."

If you're going to do it though, you might as well do it properly and give him something to remember; make his eyes water a bit.

elQuintoConyo · 09/04/2015 23:00

I like DH to jump out and surprise me like Kato. All the better if he's dipped his John Thomas in whole grain mustard first.

justonemoretime2p · 09/04/2015 23:00

It was 10 inches very thick and veiny, I'm the guy by the way, we now have others and still do it.
We had done butt stuff on me before but nothing big.

neverwilltell · 09/04/2015 23:37

Definitely NC'd for this!

DH confessed about 10 years ago that he would like me to wear incontinence pants (well adult nappies) in bed. I was massively freaked out at first (thoughts of paedophilia - but it is nothing to do with children, I came to realise that quite quickly), but eventually gave it a go. I wouldn't say it is my idea of the best fun I have ever had, but it is technically a fetish I indulge in failry regularly now, and it doesn't harm anyone. I even wet them occasionally now, he likes that even more

justonemoretime2p · 09/04/2015 23:41

Reading your post I was going to ask if you shat in them.
I actually think it's very cool if a DP trusts you enough to talk to you about a fetish and ask you to share it with them.
You told.

Aridane · 10/04/2015 08:09

I like to do all those things that mumsnet don't like in porn.

^ this

(though probably doesn't count as a fetish, just a preference)

meowth · 10/04/2015 10:15

I love reading about people's fetishes. I quite like the daddy/little D/s relationship. My DP is far from daddy, but he can act like daddy iyswim. It's mainly about nurturing and guiding. I suppose he's a bit too young to be daddy, though. But I like pretending. Also, my strapons are bigger than DP.
He uses them more by himself than he does with me, as he can finish really quick with them, it's not really fun for me unless i make it so he can't touch himself. It's hard to do.

god, MNers are filthy.

Sleepyhoglet · 10/04/2015 11:03

I used to have a priest fetish... Something about the black cassocks. Oh dear, that's not something I should have admitted!

GhettoFabulous · 10/04/2015 11:29

Meowth, I'm an ageplayer, and with different people take on both the babygirl and Mummy sides. In MN terms that makes me a massive paedo and you should call the cops!

meowth · 10/04/2015 11:48

Haha!
I also like watching hardcore pornography but by MN's standards, that's wrong and you should call the cops! when my DP doesn't really watch porn, so im the bad guy here!

-.-

justonemoretime2p · 10/04/2015 14:22

My girlfriend wanted to try "age play" I hadn't heard of it.
I looked it up and at first I thought she wanted to pretend to be a child while I pretended I was an old man.
In reality it was her not really saying much with me cuddling and holding her a lot and showing her what I wanted to do while she just acted shy.

jd56 · 10/04/2015 18:26

@ghettofabulous........ That made me chuckle. I'm not that into the whole "Daddy" thing, but my BF likes it! After reading MN though I'm thinking of having him arrested.Hmm

MysteryMan1 · 10/04/2015 19:50

I a not into the age thing or anything involving any kind of "sports". Previous GF's have liked being dominated though of course only in the bedroom. They were largely bubbly and confident but liked to be "taken".

I was of course happy to oblige but can't say I have ever understood it.

neverletgojack · 10/04/2015 21:20

This is possibly the best thread I have ever readGrin

oh and 50 shades is so dullingly vanilla I have no idea what everyone fussed over.

worrieddadof2 · 10/04/2015 22:41

i have a thing for the back of womans arms, nice toned arms. So while other guys are more than likely have eyes fixed on legs/bums/breasts.....mine will be oddly fixed to the back of their arms Blush

AnyFucker · 10/04/2015 22:52

ah, I am sure I have been written off as one of those vanilla types but...

It was sunny and 20 degrees today

driving through town there was a bloke with a lovely toned forearm hanging out of the driver window

I felt a stirring Smile

handfulofcottonbuds · 10/04/2015 23:02

Did he have tattoos AF?

AnyFucker · 10/04/2015 23:04

No

I don't like tattoos

just a nicely muscled forearm sorta dangling then a glimpse of a hand on the wheel as I pulled alongside at the lights and burned him off at the light change Smile

handfulofcottonbuds · 10/04/2015 23:07

Hmm, I'm not fussed........as long as he doesn't touch my flip flops Hmm

AnyFucker · 10/04/2015 23:14
Smile
AnyFucker · 10/04/2015 23:16

Actually, I must have a driving thing as I once arrived at work at 7am in a slightly flustered state after another encounter at a set of traffic lights Blush

iwashappy · 10/04/2015 23:23

If you've been written off as a vanilla type AF I don't know where that would leave me although I had you down as a Dominatrix type myself!!

I do like a nice broad back and shoulders and definitely no back hair. I haven't had my hands on a nice broad back for years

The mind boggles at some of the things on here though it's funny

MysteryMan1 · 10/04/2015 23:24

Maybe it's me but I rarely have time to look at anyone behind the wheel...maybe I need to pay less attention to the road!

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