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[jesy]

Can I start us ???'

I've been talking g to him for 18 months of not longer, and we'd met in person a couple weeks ago .

Plus,I followed all rules I'd have done when I was a community nurse

Ie car facing forward ready to leave
Ensure you follow them In so door not locked
Tell ppl where you going, name adress , contact number
Watch them whilst drinks made
Don't go into a house with .multiple cars out side
Sit near the door , don't get blocked in

jesy That sounds good, got on really well and another meet up.Attraction?
Have suggested to Major Tom that we dtd soon. He's still saying he genuinely likes me and wants to be in my life, treat me like a princess and other stuff.
I want to find out if he can dtd and If we are sexually going to be a match, also before I start to believe him. If we dtd and its all bad then ok, if its good but he suddenly stops texting and poof is gone. I probably won't be terribly surprised. Will be pissed off though.

Think we'll see each other again , he going to collect some furniture on Sunday and said if room did I still want to go with him

I'm not sure it's a case of I wa t to get his kit off but I like him , he great with his dog which is always a bonus with me.

I basically don't want to miss out again by not giving some a chance if that makes sense, I've done that before ages ago I chatted to this bloke who I liked personality wise but didn't fancy and then recently I saw psychedelics of him and think wow mis judged him lol.

Still drawn to this one man who who seems a bit of a player , so wary , part of me thinks he just after a shag but I've also seen different side to him via fB ,
We have a mutal mate so will su fly ask their opinion x

If he can't do the deed with you Gotta, maybe he can instead.

Suddenly MT is very eager to get me alone, sexual anxiety my arse :)

Rioux

Thank you, I guess it just stuff I picked up from my former job, I'd go into unknown people houses on a daily basis .

Not sure if he wants to date but he was good company and I adore his dog lol

Rioux You Feeling bright on this fine morning :)
MT and I have started a bit of sex text, nothing crude or creepy from him,me on the other hand :). There is alot of chat about him wanting to give me pleasure, he hinted he may get over excited first time lol.
Apart from dtd on the horizon, he still wants to take me to lunch and spend time with me, would like us to be together, his girlfriend and mentioned the future and meeting each others kids.
I don't move that fast and I have had to tell him I wamt to see how things go first.
Jesy Your alot more clued up than I am, will be taking note of the safety points you follow.
Anyone got hot dates tonight? :)

Gotta, when are you next seeing MT?

Jesy - glad you had a nice time at his for coffee.

I went on a second date last night. It was really nice, and we kissed... Now I'm thinking i do fancy him but not sure it will end up as any more than that, not sure I like him enough to end up in a relationship with him. I always get a bit worried thinking should I walk away if I don't feel that yet? Or should I just calm down and see how it goes..? Not sure how I should be feeling about him after the second date (it's my first second date in a long time).

Oh and Rioux, hope your head's not too sore this morning!

Gotta

It was just basics stuff I learnt as a community nurse

My Sat date is off I'm not fussed tbh , he made a comment on Thursday night saying your fun arnt you as all I'd got planned was pizza and a movie.
I've thought sod it that all I can afford and snapped at him saying we'll not every one can afford to go out.
Not heard from him since .

I thought I w as doing well till this am when had a text off a mutal mate of Mr it saying where was I last night thought you were coming which set me off

tortilla I'd definitely see him again if it was me. You can't really tell after 2 dates if you'd want to have a relationship with someone. I am yet to meet someone from online that I fancy!

Morning all. Think I have really fucked up. Met Mr Foorball, lots of drinks, nice meal, was very intense ended up DTD, he is now acting all loved up and I just don't know, oh the evils of drink

Blossom

How do you feel about him, in what sense is he all loved up ?

jesy I just don't know how I feel it is all too much.

Is he whistling along to the radio in the kitchen and making you both pancakes, Blossom? That would seem the loved up thing to be doing.

Tortilla Seeing MT Wednesday, he's very eager to spend time and loved up before we have even dtd. He's over the top ways did freak me out and make me suspicious. I have thrown a few challenging text his way and he's answered them without getting on the defensive.
jesy What a prat, I cant afford to go out, I'm in tonight with wine and TV.

made he has rung me twice and texted me. He said he waas not after a 1 night stand and wants to come and see me tonight and I mean so much to him.Just all over the top.

"...he has rung me twice and texted me...wants to come and see me tonight and I mean so much to him."

Oh gawd.

blossom that's very flattering for you I bet ??hmmm bit too full on though I reckon.. Tell him to calm down lol..
I'm cynical though after being dumped by a total prat .. Still feeling angry as I have recently discovered that the charmer was seeing someone else all the time he was seeing me.. I saw a photo of them together on fb ! She shares a mutual friend with me.. I'm just so bloody angry and pissed off !!

He texted this afternoon and even if I had the money I'm not going I'm feeling unwell

Tortilla Seeing MT Wednesday, he's very eager to spend time and loved up before we have even dtd. He's over the top ways did freak me out and make me suspicious. I have thrown a few challenging text his way and he's answered them without getting on the defensive.
jesy What a prat, I cant afford to go out, I'm in tonight with wine and TV.

Major Toms got two jobs which keeps him busy most Saturday nights :\
I cant help but be cynical, never been cheated on but the stories on MN are unbelievable how men can be so convincing.
Anyone else get anxious about dating someone new and want to bolt, find reasons to get out?