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[jesy]

Can I start us ???'

Made He did seem very confident, we have had 3 dates so far in the space of a week. He's the guy I saw at bar while on another date with the younger man who called me a milf.
I wouldn't of had the balls to ask a woman out who blocked me, that's another story.
He said he has a good feeling about me and doesn't want to disappoint me.
He is confident in kissing and holding my hand, touching my bum which I said he could. That's why I was thrown when he mentioned sexual anxiety. I don't want to wait too long to get intimate but I would feel terrible if it went wrong and I call it off. I am going to feel nervous about dtd with this info, I am not a insensitive person so maybe he sensed this and confided.

Rioux I backtracked over old messages from MT and he did mention he would be anxious if we ever ended up alone.

Rioux Thanks, luck and push up bra.
Have fun tonight :)

Dolly - yes tell him where/what you want to do!

I can't stand indecisive people and I think the man initially should decide... having said that unless there's a certain type of food you dislike maybe just leave it open for him to book re food.

How about Busaba Eatthai (that's Cov Gdn way) you don't need to book and its quite chilled and it's Thai, quite nice as I recall. Or Tuttons just off Piazza (quite an institution but relaxing).

me so far - last night I spent the evening with a neighbour whom I'm babysitting for tonight aren't I nice?! its a freebie but I'm getting wine, chocs and takeaway of my choice!

so have had to stall on replying on Smooch. What I'm finding is it really is an effort to reply to people etc... not in a bad way but you really have to weed them out. And why do people message me from North England Scotland etc when they can see I'm in London?!

Possible cupa date later ,
Not 100 per cent sure but we will see

super I get totally irritated by people contacting from all over Europe, how on earth it that ever going to work.

Have date with Mr Football tonight, think I might change his name to full on, he is always calling, texting. This date is either going to be amazing or a total disaster.

rioux God knows, just such a waste of time, have had loads of Italian men getting in touch atm

Blossom Mr Football, Is tonight a first date. From texting and the phone calls are you getting good vibes? Its hard to deal with it being full on so soon. I take a while to warm to someone and want to know more about them first.
Jesy Go for a it, is the guy someone you like?

Italian men I had a long distant thing with one, he was so charming but not in a creepy way.

Super I suggested Browns last night and said probably best to book given it's the weekend. Haven't heard back yet but hope he's got the hint and sorted it.

Just don't like passivity especially in a man. In my last relationship I was often chasing things up and I felt like his mother! I'll give my date the benefit of the doubt but not sure what I think so far.

I agree Dolly passivity isn't a great trait especially in a man! God knows why they feel the need that we are a good mother substitute for them!

Hang on he said "best to book it?!" so he didn't offer to book it - that would give me a bit of a rage... in the early stages stuff like "I'll book this for us" makes all the difference to me.

Gotta yes first date with Mr Football, he seems nice and looks good in his profile but as we know you just can never tell. He wants to go for a meal but I have suggested drinks, if it is going well we can always grab some food later

super I said 'How about Browns on St Martins Lane? Probably best to book given it's a weekend'

I didn't want to offer to book as otherwise I'm doing all the leg work.

Blossom what happened with Mr Builder; I thought you got on alright and quite liked him?

Do they have Rockeoke at Browns, Dolly?

made we have made contact and trying to arranged 2nd date, maybe tomorrow or early next week. Yes I really liked him but can't put all eggs in one basket as I have learnt.

made man I don't think they have Rockeoke at Browns. They do it in a venue in kings cross and also tooting.

He booked Browns. So sorted for Sunday. Also got drinks with someone from Soulmates to sort out for Tuesday evening. Then I'm taking a breather over Christmas.

"...but can't put all eggs in one basket as I have learnt."

Yes, that's true Blossom; I wasn't sure if you were still seeing him, so fingers crossed you get some good dates.

Sunday's a good day for dating, Dolly; seems more relaxed and casual somehow compared with a Saturday or midweek. Hope your dates go okay as well.

Gotta

I'm back , we just had a coffee at his ,not sure if he wants to date tho .we got on really well and discussed meeting up on Sunday but not getting hopes up.

You went to his on a first date?