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[jesy]

Can I start us ???'

gotta you are ahead of me by at least going out. I find reasons not to date in the first place.

gotta Yes I am wanting to bolt as MR Football is freaking me out. Can't believe I dtd on first date.

Feeling rubbish tonight , fB envy of all the Xmas party pics , I keep wanting to post saying think about those who can't afford party's or this time of year difficult for them.

( Don't need sympathy lost granddad a few years back and my darling dog died 5 years ago and my love of my life is very ill so Xmas don't seem fun now)

So kind of sick of all the happy faces lol

Anyway been chatting awAy to a bloke for two weeks or so we laugh n joke about and had considered meeting tomorrow but I'm not feeling to good,but texted me earlier saying

Meet next week I'm buying lol

relax blossom sometimes it seems the right thing to do on first date... don't beat yourself up.. at least he hasn't gone silent.
I have a date with my guy it must be no 6... He has referred to me as his girlfriend ... He is coming to mine for dinner and meeting my family ... not kids tho ...

Just catching up with everyone. Sounds like there are some promising dates happening.

Just remember this should be fun, anyone making you anxious, uptight or questioning yourself needs to be binned.

As for me, things are going deliciously with Mr Actor. Nice and slow, getting to know each other properly. Things have progressed and for the first time in a new relationship I feel no angst, no need to rush it to see if it is going to work or not, it feels easy and right and rather wonderful. I feel for the first time that I am just 'me' when I am with him, and that he likes 'me'. Time will tell but I am going to enjoy every moment because I have found a fabulous person for me, for right now.

Rioux.

I'm in Midlands, God for saken town with nothing here.
Just wishing I'd gone on holiday with my dog now, I'd not have been on my own and would have been warm , no heat at home today

Can't keep up... Are you on your date jesy tomorrow?

Blossom Dtd already oops well we all do it! can we ask how it was? He does seem a bit keen.

Rioux hope you feel better loneliness awful kids must make it worse we tend to think sometimes men have it easy but I do think a lot want company!

Smooch is rubbish the men on there not my type apart from a French guy who I messaged!

Got 3 emails from a nice guy but not my type.

1 man his profile pic is him sticking his tongue out wtf?!

Others seem to be holding a kitten, big fish etc.... Hmmmm

Rioux totally agree with you re Xmas and memories.

And FB re works parties.... All forced/false enjoyment!

My boss has fucked off to Australia for a months hols no Xmas party for our tiny office! If it was me I'd have handed us co credit card told us to have fun but he either doesn't trust us or more probably doesn't want us to have fun without him..... Tosser!

I don't think so ,there was talk of going with Mr rig to collect furniture but he not mentioned it and I'd considered going to a Christmas thing but don't have the petrol money.

So might just be me n the cat lol

super It was ok actually, he was quite eager to please and romantic. Obviuos first time nerves but that is to be expected, especially soon as he did not touch a drink. It was quite strange but nice to wake up next to someone. But I am not sure

Blossom Was he any good, Major T is getting very excited about us dtd but hinted he might get too excited first time and cant believe I would want to be naked with him. I'm hoping he will calm down, he seems to have a caring side. When my dad was sick in hospital he offered to drive me or help.
Wish he would stop building me up to be so great, I have had kids and I'm not perfect just look after myself and make an effort.
DTD on first night is no problem and I think us women just cant help feel odd after.

blossom well if it was ok then that's a plus point! I'd be a bit re waking up to someone new. Maybe just let it sink in first? Also hangovers are never great re sex eg day after I find....

jesy cats have their uses as hand warmers!

gotta in a way it's quite sweet major tom is getting excited etc re Dtd. Last time I Dtd was Kent lad and he was great but he had Barry White sex, makeup sex etc. I prefer not to categorise.... Plus he bigged up as it were his size.... Hmmmm

Lol doubt it little sod only away at night rest of time she asleep in the bathroomlol

"Just wishing I'd gone on holiday with my dog now, I'd not have been on my own and would have been warm , no heat at home today"

Where has your dog gone on holiday Jesy and why didn't you go with him? You'll probably feel even more glum when his postcard arrives.

Made man

She gone to Wales , coz I thought I meant to get some work but it didn't work out x

Sorry, I didn't realise your dog is a she.

Probably not all that warm in Wales though.

gotta Not the best idea to DTD on first date but now he is besotted and I am scared. He is out on the town with friends but wanted to drive down and see me, is tempting in one way.

blossom oh was it first date?! He prob thought Christmas had come early!

super I know he has just called me to say it was the best night of his life. Oh dear wish I felt the same, he did make me smile though.

Blossom Its funny how we get freaked out when a man is actually very eager, maybe we are too use to men pretending they are not that into us, sporadic texting and loads of guessing. Major T is always texting and I don't feel like I need to play the not so eager beaver.
I dtd with a guy and he just wanted to be friends after, it was the first guy since my ex of 12 yrs and I was very eager. Don't regret it, the bloke acted like a prat afterwards. I looked at the sex as practice:)

What do you think is the best thing to wear for a Sunday lunch date? Think my usual winter date dress is going to be too eveningy.