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The Dating Thread 67

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MasterP0 · 03/01/2014 12:15

.......we are a busy bunch aren't we hahahaha!

New Thread Alert the other ones has reached maximum capacity!

HERE'S TO A FUN FILLED, LOVE FILLED & SEX FILLED 2014!!!!

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LiesDamnLiesandSoggybiscuits · 03/01/2014 18:27

I put..."Great photo. How's the modelling going? Did Coke renew your contract?"

I await his reply eagerly Wink

MasterP0 · 03/01/2014 18:28

Siquando oh dear! truthfully I'd hate to date you if you think there's a chance you'll rekindle with your ex!!!! Unless I misunderstand, DONT be one of those assholes!

Poff no you misunderstand! I'm not asking for an explanation from him! I'm just craping on him from a dizzy height to get closure for MYSELF (that's just me)!!

Yes I met a "great" guy on POF Aug, chatted for 3 weeks before meeting, went on 10 dates, really took my time before dtd, what was to be our last time together we'd just dtd, he said we should now be exclusive, I never heard from him after that! We were together for 4 months! I'm going to copy and paste my last text to him, I'm over it, his loss IM A FUCKING CATCH!

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Poffedoff · 03/01/2014 18:29

Haha lies, brilliant!

LiesDamnLiesandSoggybiscuits · 03/01/2014 18:29

Catching up on the other messages...actually makes me think I did the right thing being single as I long as I have been!

Sorry you have had shit times.

MasterP0 · 03/01/2014 18:31

Poff here's my last text to silent dumper:

You cut off all communication by disengaging and ignoring me, you clearly feel you owe me no explanation or apology. You have shown zero regard for my feelings! From a person who told me he was looking for a meaningful relationship you have behaved in a manner that is hurtful and disrespectful.

I'm the idiot for believing all your lies and empty promises, I thought GIVE HIM A CHANCE, and I did, I was falling in love, but all you did was act like an asshole! Never contact me again, forget I exist and I will make sure I do the same!

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siquando · 03/01/2014 18:33

@master....I know what your saying, I don't think there's a chance and I don't mention anything to her, our only contact is for our children.

FloraSpreadableMacDonald · 03/01/2014 18:33

I think OD has .made me realise i dont want to get back with my ex. Ive never felt more confident or attractive as i do now. I still love him as the father of my children but i want someone to adore me and he didnt. Maybe Siquando...you feel similar.

powpow80 · 03/01/2014 18:36

Well done lies. I once caught a guy out using a picture of Ben Foden. I'm not in uk so he got a bit of a shock when I recognised the pic. I love rugby.

Siquando you say there is no chance of getting back with your ex. But do you want to get back with her?

siquando · 03/01/2014 18:40

@flo...maybe. I know that me having depression rocked a lot of people, and I know what did wrong and right in our relationship and I'm sure that my ex is more confident and outgoing than she was before....would she take me back in time? I doubt it, but I'm doing things for me now, and she was far from perfect towards the end.

I'm going to have fun, and see who I can meet.

siquando · 03/01/2014 18:43

@powpow....no I don't want to, any spark that still remains needs to be turned into a friendship for out children. She made the right choice in ending our relationship.

FloraSpreadableMacDonald · 03/01/2014 18:47

Siquando...ive done that. We are good friends and we still do meals and family days together sometimes. Hope you can get to that stage as well.

Any news from Diet Coke guy?

siquando · 03/01/2014 18:48

I'm talking to a girl from Northampton,it's going well....so far.

LiesDamnLiesandSoggybiscuits · 03/01/2014 18:49

Hmmmm.....user has deleted profile.

I wonder why that would be? Confused

FloraSpreadableMacDonald · 03/01/2014 18:51

Googled Andrew Cooper....hot! Hope its really him messaging you :0)

Im 41, not bad for my age...i get a fair few messages from guys under 28. Does anyone else get similar? Or am i the oldest? Its quite flattering even though im not intetested.

FloraSpreadableMacDonald · 03/01/2014 18:52

Ha ha...he was rumbled!

MasterP0 · 03/01/2014 18:58

Flora yep I get those too! Unless they are freakishly HOT hahahaha, then I just flirt but I always tell them they're far too young for me! I think most of them are after the whole OLDER WOMAN experience!

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LiesDamnLiesandSoggybiscuits · 03/01/2014 18:59

I'm 39 Flora and often told I look younger and I don't. Get a lot early to mid 30s but rarely under.

You go girl!

powpow80 · 03/01/2014 19:05

I love when the young fellas say age is but a number when you say they are too young. I'm early 30s and don't fancy getting a pounding off some young fella trying to fulfil some fantasy. Had enough shite sex when I was that age!

FloraSpreadableMacDonald · 03/01/2014 19:05

I think master is right...they want the older woman experience. Im chatfing to a 34 year old just now and ive laid it on the line we are at different life stages but he is being persistent. I just wabt a man around 38-48. But they seem few and far between :0(

LiesDamnLiesandSoggybiscuits · 03/01/2014 19:13

Flora what part of the country are you in?

FloraSpreadableMacDonald · 03/01/2014 19:20

Central Jockland!

LiesDamnLiesandSoggybiscuits · 03/01/2014 19:25

Ah....was trying to guess from what you said about being a few hundred miles away from Siquando...I guessed the right direction!

Poffedoff · 03/01/2014 19:33

Haha, well done lies! You've saved a lot of women from that tosser.

The younger guys seem to message me quite a bit too, or did when I was on pof, I didn't even have a pic up so reckon the older, experienced woman seems attractive to them (in a purely sexual way).
I agree with pow, had enough crap sex with twenty somethings to last a lifetime! (Wondering pow if we hail from the same country?)

Poffedoff · 03/01/2014 19:41

Weird, kids have just been picked up by the ex, I would normally have been dashing off to meet pofguy, feels so strange! Joining flo in a glass of cider and tv for the night..just checked pof again (I know) and he's deleted his profile! Still no word, not holding out much hope at this stage.. feeling a bit meh :-(

LiesDamnLiesandSoggybiscuits · 03/01/2014 19:44

Think it's one of those nights...I've had a few suggestive texts from my maths guy I ended it with last week and have nearly bitten...In fact if he had asked rather than suggested would probably have caved!

Think cider and crap telly (CBB) sounds like a plan while I block and unblock him a thousand times. Even a couple of hot pof guys are not managing to distract me tonight...