The Dating Thread 67

[MasterP0]

.......we are a busy bunch aren't we hahahaha!

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HERE'S TO A FUN FILLED, LOVE FILLED & SEX FILLED 2014!!!!

Master I liked your text to arsehole, I could see myself sending something similar to pofguy but think ultimately i'd regret it...thankfully even though he told me on TWO occasions he loved me I didn't say it back.. Firstly because he was pissed
both times and secondly because I wasn't quite there myself... I know he has to be home from work by now.. really feel like texting something like well?? Is that it??? Have you nothing to say???

What do you all think?

OH DEAR LAWD Lies must I come wash your mouth out with soap for mentioning CBB???

Poff ".....don't fancy getting a pounding....." YUM YUM YUMMY, I'm soooooo horny, DEAR GOD MAKE IT STOP!!!

I'm lying in the dark, listening to the rain..........

Poff Sleep on it, see how you feel in the morning! I sent that text to silent dumper after 14 days! Him and his itsy bitsy tiny willy, FUCKTARD!

Master I can't believe you lasted that long! Did he reply?

Unfortunately my guy has an exquisite willy.. can't think of one thing about him that wasn't physically gorgeous! Fuck

Hahaha Master

Poffed I'd want to text that...but don't think you should. As someone up thread said...we all know how frustrating and annoying the silence is. Any kind of engagement gives him back some power over you and you are so much better than that, exquisite willy or not

Poff EXQUISITE WILLY, then my Dear you are well and truly FUCKED (no pun intended)!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nothing worse than being dick whipped.......

Master why are you lying in the dark?? I sympathise with the horniness though.. maybe I shouldn't wait, get back on pof and see if there are any 27 yr olds lookin for some action??

Lies, thank you, I know you're right..best not to give him the satisfaction of knowing I care

Lies I just saw your post about maths guy... what was the story there?

Ive just been to Sainsburys for food for a buffet im doing tomorrow. Bumped into a hot guy at the herbs and spices. We exchanged eye contact. Quite a few guys on their own. Im going to hang out at supermarkets on a Friday night instead of ODing!

Bit of background....single effectively since my DDs daughter said "Have an abortion or that's it."...16 years ago. There's been the odd fling but no one I have ever introduced to her.

So come August decided to do a bit of OD. Maths was the third guy I went on a date with and the first one I saw more than once. Was lovely, texting me good morning and good night and then we dtd. About the third date and he went cool...texts became less frequent and he cancelled on average every other date we made. I suggested an overnight and he panicked September time and then I backed off. Three weeks later I text him an I miss you and we picked up again but after a couple of weeks we were back to three or four days without contact then I'd get sexual texts, then he'd cancel a date...which were all in the bedroom. Finally decided to end it and he asked for a sleepover and to meet my DD. Made me think it was me....even the biggest arse in the world wouldn't want to meet your kids right? That was two weeks before Christmas and the last time I saw him! We made arrangements to get together and he cancelled last minute three times.

Eventually I got really pissed off and called him on it and he said he was tired of making the effort for me to think he didn't care!!!!! Erm...ok! Since then got a string of sexts......Tempted because I fell for him...first person i had dtd with in a long time and he was so not my type, didn't even want to go on a second date with him at the time, but something just clicked. Now it's clear he just wanted sex. His profile went back on POF yesterday. We had had a lovely exchange where he had said "Want to did?" very bluntly and I had said it wasn't enough and voila he's back on saying he wants a relationship....

Sorry...long...breathe!

*since my DD's father not daughter!! Doh!!!

And now my typos and boringness have sent you all into a peaceful slumber!

Sorry Lies a friend called for tea and chats. I love the guys who 'want a relationship' but really mean casual sex. The dishonesty of people annoys me.

Pow they go to such lengths tho???? The thing is when I check out the competition (yes I know, so shoot me), I see a lot of women who are "want to date but nothing serious/isn't seeking a commitment or any kind of relationship" SO WHY THE GAME PLAYING??? JUST KEEP IT REAL

SAY WHAT YOU MEAN & MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!

Hi everyone. This is my first ever MN post, but I have been lurking foreeeeeeeeever. I have read the dating thread from page 16 (I think it was). I feel I know you all so well, and your stories. This thread from way back when is wonderful, I have laughed at some of the tales and cried at others, so decided to join in. How is Snape getting on, does anyone know? She had me in bits laughing at times, she is fantastic.

My story: I have been OD for around about three years, I have taken large breaks now and again to regain some balance and rethink. I am kind of not dating at the moment as I have found myself in a brand new relationship. We agreed to become exclusive on Christmas Eve. I do have slight misgivings about this, but will explain those another time, soon. I think I may need the collective advice of the MN dating experts.

Waves at Deliberately

Welcome dreaming

Master have been told by a few guys that they get no interest if the put casual dating/no commitment. They try and lure the ladies in with wants a relationship. Not tarring all men with the same brush, I know there are some genuine guys lurking somewhere. It's just weeding out the less honest ones.

I don't see the point in being dishonest about what I want. I wish there was a 'dating and happy to see where it goes' option. I have wants a relationship. I think that turns some guys off giving my age. I clearly want the first guy who gives me a sideways look to impregnate me and run him up the aisle

Welcome Deliberately.

I have 'dating but nothing serious" on mine. Thats what i want. Im notsure about a relationship so soo but not opposed to Mr Right sweeping me off my feet.
Feel a bit nervous about number 4 date. I wish there was a "curvy" option for body type on pof. Ie gone with average. I think number 4 will be disappointed when he sees im all tits and ass. Also after 2 c sections my stomach isnt that flat!

Thank you for the lovely welcome all

I wonder if age plays a part in how the sexes view one another. I am an older dater (late 40's) and really have had few problems with regards to what men want from their profile and what I have seen from them in real life. One guy looked extremely handsome in his picture, when we met he was at least 20 years older and 2 stone heavier, but that has been my only real fraud. My own profile(s) are strictly truthful as I see no point in not being honest. Apart from Mr fake I have just mentioned, everyone else has been, or certainly have appeared to be honest. Could it be an age thing perhaps?

I have met some nice genuine guys too. For me the less than honesty guys make me a tad more wary. Not suspicious of everyone but my twat radar is finely honed at this stage. I believe there are nice guys out there and they are in the majority.

Flora yep, me too, but more ass than titts! I'm not everyone's cup of tea body wise (probably personality too) and I do have slight insecurities about it, that is why I make it CRYSTAL CLEAR what my body type is BEFORE agreeing date and time! I've made peace with my body and the fact that I attract a certain "type", if you catch my drift!

Hey if he doesn't appreciate your curves, HIS loss!

Lies I remembered you posting about Maths before, such a bizarre and shitty way to behave!

Talking of which..I was mistaken, pofguy hadn't deleted his profile after all, just made his pic private..he was online today :-(
Obviously devastated over the end of our relationship!

Master...i said on the phone i wasnt an 8/10 and i was a 12 (but sometimes need a 14 top...didnt tell him that). Hey...u r right...his loss!

Well I guess it's a case of wait and see!

Hello, I'm new to the thread and new to OD. Can I ask for a view on something which the above comments mention?

I'm on POF and a guy. I put casual dating/nothing serious down as I'm not that long out of a long term relationship and I doubt I'm relationship ready. But have I inadvertently put down a code which will scare off people who want to spend more relaxed time together without worrying about the longer term (not just a few dinner and drinks on neutral ground)?