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Kirstywirsty · 15/06/2013 21:12

The Rules

1 Develop a thick skin;

  1. Do not invest emotionally too soon;
  2. It's all BS until it actually happens;
  3. Trust your gut instinct;
  4. If it is not fun, stop
OP posts:
qo · 18/06/2013 21:31

so... anyone know of any other sites I could try apart from pof, smooch and match?

ProperStumped · 18/06/2013 21:33

I used to love OKC qo, although I met my DP on POF. But OKC was a bit different from the others, and I had some good times Grin

qo · 18/06/2013 21:34

haha sounds good I will go check it out, thanks Grin

pornstarmartini · 18/06/2013 21:34

OKC has been crap for me. I'm gonna have a look at smooch/match. It seems to be all the same people.

OWW There's a rather nice mannnnnnn 2 hours away. Typical. I'm trying not to like him until I get to see him in the flesh. I know the rules!

Bant · 18/06/2013 21:37

Okcupid, times, guardian, telegraph, uniform dating, singleparents.com

The first is probably biggest out of those, works for some, not for others. The next three are lifestyle-based, and only for big cities.

Singleparents is horrible, from my brief look.

I've never looked at the uniform one

I'll see if I can dig out the post about lonelyseacaptain.com, animal costumes.com etc. but I'd avoid them

pornstarmartini · 18/06/2013 21:39

fuck... he replied!

KinNora · 18/06/2013 21:39

Stop press, I've just had a message from Ike, she was very touched by the lovely things people said about her, I said we missed her (Apologies if you've all had messages from her, I just thought you'd like to know)

qo · 18/06/2013 21:40

there is the grand total of THREE men local to me on OKC haha

OhWesternWind · 18/06/2013 21:43

That's lovely Nora and I hope she can come back somehow. The things I said about Ike have been deleted so I do hope she saw them and knows I'm thinking about her.

JulietteMontague · 18/06/2013 21:44

Iiikkkkkeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hello Grin

Djangounhinged · 18/06/2013 21:44

Ooh Martini what did he say?

I'm glad you've heard from Ike, Nora, I'm mostly a lurker on here so probably never conversed with her directly but I always enjoyed reading her posts.

Qo depending on your age, maturefreeandsingle.com might be worth a look? It's for over 40s and seems to just be a round up of every over 40 on every dating website in the area you specify....

Scrazy · 18/06/2013 21:44

martini, what did he reply?

So is Ike still on mumsnet, just not on the thread or are you in touch off site?

qo · 18/06/2013 21:46

thank you django

Bant · 18/06/2013 21:48

Miss your strange sense of humour, ike

Bant · 18/06/2013 21:49

Martini? What was his reply?

KinNora · 18/06/2013 21:58

No, she's been banned ( I think ). She messaged me on OKC (only 43% - hrrrrummmph). I think she did see what you'd said OWW, she did sound touched - and not only in that special Ike way that we know and love.

I suggested that she get in touch with everyone on Facebastard but she hasn't got an account.

Winefiend · 18/06/2013 22:05

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

JulietteMontague · 18/06/2013 22:06

Arf I haven't ever seen Bookface called Facebastard before Grin

Grace Dent earlier tweeted 'Red sky at night, Angel Delight'. Clearly in honour of Ike.

48howdidthathappen · 18/06/2013 22:08

Ike We miss you....

Kirstywirsty · 18/06/2013 22:15

martini ???

ike I miss you too

OP posts:
OhWesternWind · 18/06/2013 22:23

Programme about how to succeed at OD on C4 in ten mins ...

pornstarmartini · 18/06/2013 22:27

Sorry. I was having a chat with the nice bloke who lives 2 hours away. He rang me. Was on the phone for 45 minutes.

PC Arse said he'd had a couple of horrendous days at work and I'd sent too many messages. Hey ho. Obviously not the right one for me. I will not be sending any more!

Scrazy · 18/06/2013 22:37

I'm watching the programme on C4.

JulietteMontague · 18/06/2013 22:38

That dating programme on 4, 'Hello I'm Dawn O Porter' Didn't she see the pitfall of Porn O Daughter when she shoved the O in on marriage?

ALittleStranger · 18/06/2013 22:38

I think that programme will just annoy me OWW. As it will no doubt focus on the best way to take a flirt picture and miss the bigger point that if the right person is not signed up for the site then all the witty one liners you can throw at your profile won't make a bit of difference. But if someone wants to summarise the main points go ahead! Hmm

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