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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Posters, Lurkers, Old Or New, Come Take A Seat, This Bus Is For YOU!

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Mouseface · 24/05/2013 10:33

Hello, I'm Mouse Smile

A huge big welcome to the Brave Babes threads.

We're a varied group of posters, on this wonderfully supportive, non judgemental, gigantic Bus, and we are all heading in the same direction - towards Sobriety.

Some of us don't touch a drop of alcohol, some of us do. Some of us drink too much, openly admit it and are desperate to stop and some of us are trying to manage controlled drinking.

No matter what we're doing, we're just trying to do it One Day At A Time.

What ever you need, what ever your habit, chances are that there'll be another poster who is just like you or has been where you are now, already here, waiting to talk or just listen :)

Yes, some of us have been here for a longer time than others, some of us for just a few days but that's what makes this Bus so great imo, the variety of knowledge and understanding :)

This Bus has been whizzing along various roads now for almost four years thanks to the very desperate cry for help from THIS THREAD BY JWN

And if you'd like to read some of the other threads, maybe how we got to where we are today, then you can follow them back using the links RIGHT HERE

Hope to see you soon :)

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dementedma · 13/06/2013 22:27

Percy pigs are the work of the devil. As the self appointed sweetie czarina you may bring Opal fruits, Skittles, peanut M &Ms or blackcurrant and liquorice. Or chocolate. Any kind of chocolate. This I decree.
Squidney is a very good name for a squid, by the way.

Mouseface · 13/06/2013 22:28

Percy Pigs? Are you kidding me? They are my absolute faves but die to my sponsored hobble training are banned until a week Monday!

Night night all xxx

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Mouseface · 13/06/2013 22:29

'due' not die Blush so sorry! - see, told you I was typo queen here!!

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dementedma · 13/06/2013 22:32

You are a talking mouse. What do you know anyway? Grin
And you have a fish for a son.

aliasjoey · 13/06/2013 22:37

'Scuse me WHO is sweetie monitor on this Bus ???

dementedma · 13/06/2013 22:41

Ummmmm, < lobs opal fruit at alias and runs away

aliasjoey · 13/06/2013 23:12

Tut, look at all this litter...

Isindebusagain · 13/06/2013 23:30

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Mintyy · 13/06/2013 23:35

Koala you are an absolute marvel! Flowers

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HorsesDogsNails · 13/06/2013 23:39

1: Percy Pigs rock
2: Peanut m&m's are the work of the devil
3: Prize for most vile sweet flavour ever brought into my house belongs to my DH..... His work colleague brings sweets back from the Philipenes (sp?), flavours include apple, watermelon, peach, grape and..... sweetcorn!!!!! Seriously, sweetcorn - wtaf?! He did blind tasting with the DC - both almost vommed into the kitchen bin!!! Tbf, all were vile....

Anyway, hi all Smile. Have funny anecdote about vit b and luminous wee, and how learning crochet occupies both hands and brain space.....

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fullofhopefullness · 14/06/2013 07:42

Day 29 I think amd nice and sunny!

CrabbyBigBottom · 14/06/2013 08:09

Grin @

Fairenuff · 14/06/2013 08:17

Koala that is brilliant to hear. You rock!! Smile And thanks for coming back to post - it's so great to hear how everyone is doing.

And yes, we need to know more about luminous wee please Horses

Isinde I have no idea what Percy Pigs are either so we can be in the Clueless Club together Grin

It's 'forge ahead Friday' - time to power on right through the weekend. Today I will not be drinking. Anyone else wanna join me?

Have a good day babes

Fairenuff · 14/06/2013 08:18

Oh, meant to say hello to Hex. I can see you at the back there. Welcome to the bus Smile

OfficialSweetieMonitor · 14/06/2013 09:22

Morning, 'tis me, joey

Edinbugger · 14/06/2013 10:05

Morning! Yes Faire - I'll join you in 'forge ahead friday' . I need to gear myself up for next week when DS has his taster days at secondary school. He's a bit of a space cadet so the prospect of him making his way across town on a bus on his own would normally be sending me to the bottle - so I need to stay strong!

ImaHexGirl · 14/06/2013 10:12

Thank you everyone! Percy Pigs, you either love them or hate them but the fizzy ones are the best! Grin

Very nervous but I am inspired by the achievements of everyone else on the bus. Scared too as Friday evenings are the worst for me. Still I have a fancy dress costume to make for DS to keep me occupied - it is going to be the best one ever if it means I spend hours making it and keeping myself distracted!

skippy84 · 14/06/2013 10:22

Hi Everyone, I posted on here last year for a time when I was going through the breakup of my relationship. Largely due to my drinking. Since then things have gotten worse for me and I am drinking maybe 1-2 bottles of wine a night. Work is suffering, college is suffering and my little girl is suffering. I feel so low and I want to make changes. Didn't drink last night and I'm going to try for a sober weekend. Im just so afraid of having this problem. I feel so alone. I think everyone knows but I don't feel like I can talk to anyone about it.

OfficialSweetieMonitor · 14/06/2013 11:37

skippy you're not alone, we're here

Theala · 14/06/2013 11:47

Yeah, skippy. I think most of us have been where you are. Some of us still are. you're definitely not alone.

Hi guys, I'm in the sidecar at the moment as a lot of things are happening. Hopefully, I'll have some good news to tell you about in the next few weeks, but in the meantime hugs to all and I'll be back in the bus very soon.

Ladame · 14/06/2013 12:12

Good grief things move along fast Grin Hello Hex and Hi again Skippy , you don't sound like you're in a good place in yourself, but you know you've come to the right place here. I think we all know how you are feeling ((hug)). Koala You are an amazing babe!! I keep hearing the tune to 'The Great Escape' in my head!! Through the tunnel and out the other side, you are an inspiration. Isinde you're right lovely, it is pronounced Nooogarrr here, it's in everything, even ice-cream which is really evil, cos it sticks your teeth together when they are too cold iyswim and you get the horrible cold headache Grin Anyhoo, all the talk of Percy Pigs makes me think of those bitter lemon fizzy fish, which makes me think of M&S, and takeaways and (sniff) going to the cinema and .. and .. It's no good woman, you don't live there anymore!! Think of the cheese ...... Have a good weekend all babes, be kind to yourselves, sending grandes bisous across la Mer to you all.

skippy84 · 14/06/2013 12:44

Thanks everyone, I didnt think I could feel any worse than last year and I suppose emotionally Im a bit more stable but thats only because Im constantly numbing how I feel with booze. I just want to stop this once and for all. Im a smart person - I know what alcoholism involves and its not what I want for myself or my daughter. I'm just so scared of failing its made me almost not want to try. I just want the problem to go away and to never have to think about drinking or hangovers or embarrassment or shame or guilt ever ever again.