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Last train to Loserville Part 2

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LoserNoMore · 07/04/2013 21:55

After the overwhelming support I've received on my thread I had to start another. Well I didn't have to but I have found all the advice so helpful that even if I only receive one more piece it will help.

I'll try and post the link to the full sorry story. Never linked on my phone before so it may not work.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1722750-This-doesnt-look-good-does-it?pg=40&order=

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LittleEsme · 09/04/2013 21:20

Ah. Let's just say that there is... ... wadding.

Grin
mrssmartarse · 09/04/2013 21:23

We were at Blair Drummond today!! Grin

Glad you had a nice day with ur girls u deserve it hunny and as for twunt faces email, your reply was spot on Wink

Sending Wine&Thanks xx

cjel · 09/04/2013 21:24

thank goodness for wadding!!

Milly22 · 09/04/2013 21:35

Can I suggest you reply to loser with 'Christina Aguilera - Fighter' and then tell him to fuck off! Grin

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LoserNoMore · 09/04/2013 21:36

LittleEsme, I was looking at getting a skipping rope from the Avon book, it's a really good workout, might destroy my perfectly intact pelvic floor ;) . Haven't done much tonight. Just prepared for work tomorrow :( fills me with dread.

Thanks for all your kind words.

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LoserNoMore · 09/04/2013 21:38

Oh mrssmartarse, our paths may have crossed Grin

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LittleEsme · 09/04/2013 21:46

LNM I can recommend a fantastic rope - proper boxers stuff, that doesn't kink, easy to cut to size and is really, really cheap.

Do any of your work colleagues know what's happened to your life LNM? I only ask, because this is such a massive hit to you. If you can't face work, how do you feel about seeing your GP?

swallowedAfly · 09/04/2013 22:03

esme - i would like that recommendation please

CabbageLeaves · 09/04/2013 22:04

You deserve more
Your DC deserve more

Had you had him back he'd be swaggering around and laughing with his mates about a 'close shave' whilst assuming he could do this again.

He will cycle through anger and nasty behaviour and emotional claptrap. What about YOU. Is he thinking about you or ....himself. Hmmm think we know the answer to this.

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LoserNoMore · 09/04/2013 22:08

Yeah I'd like to know about that rope.

I haven't told workmates anything. I don't really want to.

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Pannacotta2013 · 09/04/2013 22:15

Ooh ooh while we're doing song wars, how about Beyonce's Irreplaceable... I love this song, and you remind me of her. Kick ass attitude.

Pannacotta2013 · 09/04/2013 22:16

Maybe not to actually send him, but its a fantastic sentiment x x

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LoserNoMore · 09/04/2013 22:17

I like that song :)

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Pannacotta2013 · 09/04/2013 22:23

Yeah Smile 'Everything you own in a box to the left... don't you ever for a second get to thinking you're irreplaceable' x x

mrssmartarse · 09/04/2013 22:33

Probably stood next to each other at some point today or dcs? What a small world, wish I'd known who u were as Mn rules would have been out the window and you would've had your privacy invaded with a massive hug!! Grin
R u close to anyone at work? How are you feeling about it? Is there anyone there that may know already? Sad Xx

CabbageLeaves · 09/04/2013 22:37

Christina Perri. Jar of hearts

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LoserNoMore · 09/04/2013 22:52

Mrssmartarse, Not particularly close to anyone, it's a bit of a clique and quite a bitch place tbh. My boss isn't the most approachable either.
that would have been very surreal, nice but surreal Grin

That's a good crying one cabbageleaves

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CabbageLeaves · 09/04/2013 23:20

Yeh after I posted that I thought the Beyonce one had a better attitude!

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LoserNoMore · 09/04/2013 23:24

Well it sure as hell beats One Direction which I've been subjected to in the car today. even though I secretly love them

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JollyGolightly · 09/04/2013 23:31

Delurking, having followed your old thread, to say that you rock and MrLoser is a prat.

Glad you and the bairns had a lovely day, did you see the stubborn elephant who doesn't want to move in to the new elephant house?

Catmint · 09/04/2013 23:39

LNM I have just read previous thread and this one. Want to tell you that I admire you so much, you are doing so well.

LittleEsme · 10/04/2013 00:02

Picking this thread up in bed - on phone and can't link.

Will link it first thing. Let's start a skipping circle Wink

JaxTellerIsAllMine · 10/04/2013 00:11

ooh I cant skip, but I walked for bloody miles today in London, got blisters to prove it. One day when I take DC and other family out I will learn to wear my trainers.

But we had a good day too and not long back.

Glad you enjoyed Blair Drummond, havent been for years. Must put it on 'the list' next time we are up.

Spree · 10/04/2013 00:27

On the subject of songs, can I recommend Pink's So What? Fab for in the car, top of your voice!

Stay strong and accept that when the anger and rage subsides, you may feel intense sadness and wobbles.

All perfectly normal.

toffeelolly · 10/04/2013 01:16

How you doing?