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Last train to Loserville Part 2

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LoserNoMore · 07/04/2013 21:55

After the overwhelming support I've received on my thread I had to start another. Well I didn't have to but I have found all the advice so helpful that even if I only receive one more piece it will help.

I'll try and post the link to the full sorry story. Never linked on my phone before so it may not work.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1722750-This-doesnt-look-good-does-it?pg=40&order=

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cjel · 13/04/2013 11:40

thats a pain,well nothing you can do about it. Car hunting sounds fun. I'm going to try out my new pond gloves and see if I can get the pond pump working!!

LoserNoMore · 13/04/2013 11:45

Sounds very fishy cjel.

In other news, my skipping rope came Grin

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cjel · 13/04/2013 11:46

You are amazing.You are inspiring me to do something about my pelvic floor!!!

swallowedAfly · 13/04/2013 11:46

car hunting does sound fun but bear in mind the car really isn't 'his' - it's marital property.

my skipping rope came too Grin shall we try them out and report back? thing looks a bit lethal to me

themidwife · 13/04/2013 11:58

Yes the car is both of yours, if he won't let you have it a new car needs to be bought for you from joint assets.

LoserNoMore · 13/04/2013 12:00

I've never liked the car anyway. So shall I ask him for a contribution towards the car then? I have no clue.

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swallowedAfly · 13/04/2013 12:01

yep. he should be paying towards it really. if he's taking the family car.

Fluffycloudland77 · 13/04/2013 12:02

Ask in legal, all the lawyers go there and answer questions.

LoserNoMore · 13/04/2013 12:03

Swallowedafly, the rope is good. Bingo wings be gone!

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LoserNoMore · 13/04/2013 12:03

Thanks fluffy, I'll do that

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swallowedAfly · 13/04/2013 12:07

ooh if it works on bingo wings i'm slightly more motivated!

Fairenuff · 13/04/2013 12:21

Either that, or sell the car and give him half the proceeds.

Jux · 13/04/2013 12:38

I jumped on the bandwagon and ordered one of those ropes too. It arrived this morning, very plasticky-looking and very, very red!

I got it for dd. When it arrived I suggested to dh that he could try skipping on the trampoline Grin. He was unamused. I probably can't use it myself much as jumping is a bit of a big deal for me, and my entire skeleton gets shaken up and I end up in pain/exhausted within a few skips. But I am trying to get a bit fitter (I have ms and have gone to seed horribly since I had to stop walking much) and recently have joined a gym too. So I think I'll give it a go.

Wish me luck for when it stops raining!

LNM, exercise makes you feel better. Chemicals rush around your brain and lift your mood. Skip lots! Maybe whenever you're having a bad day you should get that rope out.

Hope your car hunting is successful.

LoserNoMore · 13/04/2013 12:53

It's much easier than the actual rope ones. It must be good for bingo wings, all those arm rotations. End up with calves like Chris Hoy in the process though. Skipping on the tramp sounds like a challenge!

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Jux · 13/04/2013 13:00

Both dh and dd have said it's too dangerous! DD listed about 20 awful things which could happen, including tripping and having her hair ripped out on the springs Grin

LittleEsme · 13/04/2013 13:24

Jux Sad MS? I've never, ever read a self-pitying post from you. You awesome woman.

So the ropes have arrived?! Mine are blue and yes, lethal!
DO NOT ATTEMPT SKIPPING BAREFOOT! It'll slice it off I swear!

Remember to trim them down - take off handle and trim carefully to size. It's an amazing 'skipper' for the price and lots more effective and faster than rope. Win win.

LNM, hope you're having a mooch around town. Treat yourself to something small, like a good handcream, and slather it on when you get home. In the meantime, pick up a mag (Boots magazines are free if you're an Advantage card holder) and head to a cafe for a nice cuppa tea (God, I'm tight - I always buy tea and nowt else when I'm out, cos it's the cheapest drink on the menu Grin).

Also, I'd definitely post in Legal re the car. It may afford you something newer and less hassle in the long run.

lazarusb · 13/04/2013 13:29

I'm glad he picked them up & I'm glad your work was shut Smile The car counts as an asset so yes, he either gives you half of what it's worth or he lets you have it completely...for the benefit of your dds. He should be contributing to the financial upkeep of the girls too.

I'd love to skip but have a dodgy back so it's a bit too high impact for me Sad Light jogging and a bit of step is as far as it goes for me.

Fluffycloudland77 · 13/04/2013 13:37

Linky to the skipping rope?

JaxTellerIsAllMine · 13/04/2013 13:38

lazarusb I am not allowed to do anything high impact either. Sad no skipping, skiing, horse riding, blah blah blah. Actually the only thing I can do at the moment is walk and I am walking! Cant wait to get back to my aquarobics.

LoserNoMore · 13/04/2013 13:59

My skipping rope is red too! It makes a good whooshing sound when you pick up speed doesn't it?! Amazon must be wondering about the sales pick up on these ropes.

Wrt the car, I'm really not bothered about him keeping it, I can't imagine he'd want to sell it either but halfing me for a car for us sounds like a compromise. I'll speak to him about it later via email of course.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 13/04/2013 14:12

Thanks.

cjel · 13/04/2013 14:19

just come in from mending pond pump and pruning in the rain soaking so make a drink and biscuits and came back to see how you are getting on, Can't believe I did it but i clicked on link and have bought a rope. What have you done to me??? I don't even know if I've got any room to skip!!!

LoserNoMore · 13/04/2013 14:26

Grin it's LittleEsme s fault. You don't need much room cjel. Comfy shoes and a good sports bra.

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dawntigga · 13/04/2013 14:42

We'll need to form a Buffalo Girls troop - we need a name ;)

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